Wed, Nov 14th 2012, 22:58 GMT

Even though she's been vetted, you do need to establish yourself and her with your own vet. They can be very useful fonts of information and advice when trying to socialize a shy cat. 4 days is not a really long time for a cat who's had such a rough life to become happy and "carefree". If she is already showing signs of being social, that's great. She is probably reacting this way to your other cat because she doesn't yet trust him. If she wasn't kept in a separate room when you got her to give her time to adjust to your household, this may delay any friendship between them that may develope. As long as there's no outright attacking going on, you and he will have to be patient. Be calm, quiet, gentle and loving with her. Don't force her to be held.Make sure she has all her needs met. When she's more comfortable, try to engage her in some playtimes. When she enters a room, say "Oh, hi, Fluffy! How are you?" and go on about your business. Acknowlege her presence but don't make a big fus

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