Because of their early days, they did not have the separation "lessons" that most cat moms give to their offspring. Lizzie is a cat who can't hold her "likker" and I agree, it IS annoying. I break out in an itchy rash when she does this and have scratched until it scarred. When Lizzie starts doing this, I simply do not tolerate it. But do understand that these guys aren't doing it to annoy you. It's a deeply ingrained comfort mechanism. You can substitute a blanket or towel or even stuffed animal. You can put one of your shirts on whatever you use so that it smells like you. Don't tolerate the sucking or licking. Gently say "no lick" and put them on the floor or give them the "OK" substitute. Cats do understand "no" as long as it's done kindly and quietly. They are still babies and it is up to you to be the mom cat and teach them how to get along in life.

Izadore (Izzie) answered on 2/6/12. Helpful? / 0