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When Do Kittens Calm Down and Begin to Mature? FAQ & Tips

Ginger kitten with white chest

Kittens can be downright crazy, and any cat lover knows it is true, regardless of how cute their little faces are. It seems like every time you turn around, they are hanging from your drapes or scratching on your furniture. And their pupils? Black from being overly charged.

So, when exactly do they slow down? The answer can vary from cat to cat, but there are generalizations you can count on. Let’s take a deeper look at when your hyper little whippersnapper will stop shredding your forearms with raging fury.

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How Long Does Kittenhood Last?

Your feline remains a kitten for quite a while, finally maturing at a ripe 18 months of age. However, that doesn’t necessarily mean that your cat will make an immediate transition at this time.

Growth and maturity are two different things. This means that your cat might not be fully grown yet, but they are pretty relaxed. Or, on the flip side, you might have a very high-energy cat that doesn’t slow down for several years.

But generally, kittens begin to lose their high energy levels by 1 year of age. So, age can only indicate so much to us; other factors play into it as well.

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What to Expect from Your Kitten

For the first 2 months of your kitten’s life, they are very playful, but they don’t have the muscle coordination to go completely psycho yet. You might see them awkwardly pouncing, but they aren’t in stealthy attack mode.

By 3 months of age, all of their senses have fully developed so they can explore the world. They will start to play with their siblings, mother, and even you. They also begin chasing random hair ties on the floor and other miscellaneous objects to practice their hunting skills early.

By this time, it will seem like they’ve suddenly developed an endless bounty of energy. You can barely get them to slow down. So, a lot of destruction can take place during this time.

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Activity Levels Fluctuate Differently for Each Cat

Just like human children, cats mature at different rates. You might have a lazy orange tabby cat that slows its roll by 6 months, or you might have a lean, energetic kitten that won’t mentally mature until they are almost 2 years old.

Also, some breeds are much more prone to hyperactivity than others.

Extremely active cat breeds include:
Some of the more relaxed cat breeds include:

Coat Color & Personality

There has been much debate on coat colors and whether or not they affect personality. Every cat will have a very distinct character, but some owners swear that coat color determines significant personality traits.

While this isn’t necessarily scientific, a general consensus says that calico kitties have a lot of attitude—but tortoiseshells are at the top of the list. At the same time, orange tabby cats tend to be lazier and friendlier than others. Also, black cats can be more tolerant of other cats and indoor living.

These are just generalizations, of course. Every cat will differ. There is an energy about them, even as kittens, that can indicate later behavior, so trust your gut.

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Channeling Your Kitten’s Energy

To get past these temporary stages, you can use different methods to channel your kitten’s energy appropriately. If you’re reading this, it’s likely because you have a little terror on your hands, and you’re just wondering when it’s going to be over.

Even though it might seem like you’re amid a never-ending cycle of destruction, this too shall pass. Here are a few things you can do in the meantime to smooth out the process.

1. Wear Your Kitten Out

Even though your cat is running around to play, you can tire them out in a jiffy. Get some of their favorite toys and get on their level. It’s time to romp around. The more you participate in your kitten shenanigans, the quicker they will tuck her out for nap time.

Be careful to protect yourself against biting and clawing. When you can, make sure there is a protective barrier in place to prevent skin damage. Plus, you won’t want your cat to make a habit out of shredding your arms for fun.


2. Get Your Kitten a Friend

Sometimes actually having two kittens is better than having one. They can entertain each other with hours of endless play, taking much focus off of your wall trim and more on each other. Kittens at this age love having a friend who wants to play as much as they do.

Even having an older house cat doesn’t suffice. As cats age, their desire to play the way that a kitten does decreases tremendously. So, let this be an excuse to argue for buying or adopting two kittens if your wife or husband says no.

2 Grey Striped Kittens Playing on a Blanket with Toy
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3.  Use Food in Your Favor

You might not know a cat that isn’t food-motivated. You can use this in your favor by offering them treats in place of attacks. Try to keep their focus, so they can quench their mental thirst.

You can buy toys to fill with treats or work with them on performing tricks in exchange for goodies. Get creative with it, but also make sure to keep it light. If your cat gets used to excessively eating snacks, it can lead to picky appetites or obesity down the line.


4. Spay or Neuter Your Kitten

Before your kitten is fully mature, there are other ways to be proactive and tame the beast. If you get your kitten spayed or neutered by roughly 6 months of age, they can calm down pretty quickly.

When your cat is fixed, it eliminates the need to seek out a mate. Since cats sexually mature before they are mentally mature, this is a perfect measure to put in place. Getting animals fixed reduces the risks of spraying, catcalling, and aggression, too.

That isn’t the case in every scenario, of course. Some cats take longer to mature than others, regardless of whether or not they are spayed or neutered. However, once their hormones level out, they tend to relax a little bit at home. The sooner you can get them fixed, the more likely they are to take a chill pill.

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Conclusion

So, just hang in there if you feel like you are losing your mind. We know how hard it is to get through the angsty teenage years. If you implement some patience and work with them regularly, it can curb some of their energy.

You might need some Tylenol and a suit of armor to get you to the other side, and some furniture might be harmed, but soon, that kitty will lounge around your window sills instead.

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