Get

In Your Inbox

Catster is reader-supported. When you buy via links on our site, we may earn an affiliate commission at no cost to you. Learn more.

How to Give a Cat a Head Massage: 4 Vet-Reviewed Tips & Benefits

Cat Massage

You wouldn’t think giving a cat a head massage would be something your feline would like, but you would be surprised. While not all cats are receptive to being massaged, for some, it helps them to relax, calm down after a stressful event, or feel loved and cared for.

If you’ve been considering giving your cat a massage, starting with the cat’s head and working your way down is best. You must be careful to ensure the cat is indeed enjoying the massage and never try to force your cat to lay still for one.

We’ll give you a few critical pointers for massaging your cat’s head and more in the article below.

divider cat paws oct 2024

The 4 Steps to Give Your Cat a Head Massage

1. Use Your Fingertips

Most felines love to have their heads massaged. To begin, you can start at the top of your pet’s head; using a straight or a circular motion, move your fingertips and slowly massage the cat’s head. Gradually work your way down from the forehead to massaging the base of the head and the neck. Then continue using your fingertips to massage their ears. Some cats may also enjoy having their eyebrows massaged, from the base of the nose outwards.

It’s best to watch how your cat responds to you massaging their head, as some cats won’t enjoy it as much. If your cat acts anxious or like this is bothering them, it’s best to back off. If your cat acts anxious or tense when you’re massaging their head, try coming back to the head and moving onto the body to see how the cat reacts, but respect their preferences and give them a break if they choose so. If your cat seems to have facial pain, it’s important to get them checked over by a vet.

Cat Massage
Image Credit: Gumpanat, Shutterstock

2. Massage Your Cat’s Neck and Chin

Once your cat is okay with you massaging their head, you can work down to the neck and chin. Make sure you rub under the cat’s neck slowly and gently. Make small circles with your fingertips up and down your feline’s neck.

Make sure not to press their neck too hard, or you risk hurting your cat. This is another area that the cat may be sensitive to you touching, so watch their reaction during this step of the massage to see how they act. If the cat is upset, it might be time to take a break and revisit the head massage later.


3. Massage Your Cat’s Face

Once your cat tolerates you massaging their head, neck, and chin, you can try and move to the cat’s face. Make small, straight, or circular motions on the cat’s cheeks and their forehead. Use your fingertips and be mindful not to apply too much pressure.

If the cat enjoys the massage, they may also let you massage around their eyes, nose, and whiskers, but make sure to be gentle and not overdo it to avoid overstimulating them. Since many cats hardly ever get touched on their faces, it might feel good for you to massage there, and the cat might relax and enjoy the sensation. This way, you can also soothe an itch that may be out of their reach or remove any clumps of loose of hair.

A British shorthair cat enjoying a massage
Image Credit: TigerMysterio, Shutterstock

4. Monitor Your Cat’s Reaction

You’ll want to monitor your cat’s reaction throughout the entire process of giving your cat a head massage. If your cat constantly tries to get up and walk away, they may not be in the mood to lie down and be massaged.

On the other hand, if your cat is purring, looking dazed, or even starting to fall asleep, you can be assured that your feline pal is enjoying being massaged and pampered. If your cat tries to get away, scratches you or reacts badly, it’s best to stop the massage. You can try again in a few hours or a few days instead. If the area you tried to massage is painful, contains a wound, or there is any oral pain, bad breath or bleeding and inflammation of the gums, it’s important to get them seen by a vet promptly.

If you can successfully massage your cat’s head, you might get the cat to lay still long enough to do a body massage as well.

divider single cat paw oct 2024

Things to Avoid When Massaging Your Cat

When it comes to massaging your cat, you should avoid a few things.

1. Applying Too Much Pressure

You never want to put too much pressure on your cat when massaging their head or body. You want the cat to be able to relax, so stroking too hard will have the opposite effect and could end up hurting your furry friend.

woman hands pet and massage on the head of gray and white adorable cat
Image Credit: PattayaPhotography, Shutterstock

2. Do Not Press on the Stomach

Don’t press on your cat’s stomach when giving a body massage, especially if they just ate. At the least, it could make your cat throw up, and at the worst, you could easily injure your feline by pressing too hard. It’s also better to avoid massaging your cat when they’re in a bad mood, as that could result in you getting clawed.

divider cat faces 2 oct 2024

Health Benefits of Massages for Cats

There are also a few health benefits associated with massaging a cat. These include improving circulation, stimulating their nerves, relieving joint pain, reducing anxiety, and reducing muscle pain and spasms, if performed correctly.

This is also the perfect way to bond with your cat. However, don’t force your cat to lie down for a massage. If this is the first time you’ve tried this, then it’s best to take it slow and see how the cat reacts. Once your cat is used to the head massage, you can move on to the body massage and see if the cat responds well to that, too.

Something Important to Consider

Please keep in mind that essential oils are toxic to cats. There is no need to use them in the first place when massaging your cat at home, as they will not benefit from them in any way and will instead suffer their toxic effects. Ask your veterinarian before applying or giving any product or remedy to your cat.

If you need to speak with a vet but can't get to one, head over to PangoVet. It's an online service where you can talk to a vet online and get the advice you need for your pet — all at an affordable price!

PangoVet_Mention-in-Content for PangoVet2 save money

divider cats oct 2024

Conclusion

When giving a cat a head massage, you must be considerate that this is what your cat  enjoys. Follow the pointers above for giving your cat a head massage, but don’t force the issue if your cat tries to get away or doesn’t want to lie still. Just because the cat doesn’t cooperate at first doesn’t mean they won’t if you try again in a few days.

Massaging your cat is a great way to provide relaxation and relief from anxiety, alongside other benefits. Give it a try with your cat but keep an eye out for signs that the cat isn’t happy. If the cat tries to leave, let them, and try again another day.


Featured Image Credit: Nils Jacobi, Shutterstock

Want content like this delivered to you?

Sign Up For Our Newsletter

News, insights, expert advice, and everything cat

* By submitting, you agree to our Terms & Conditions and Privacy & Cookies Policy.

How useful was this post?

Click on a star to rate (you can leave written feedback after clicking submit)

Help us improve Catster for pet parents!

Your feedback really matters.

What did you like about this post? Also how can we improve it?

Join the conversation

Leave a Reply

You’re very welcome to leave a comment or question. Please know that all comments must meet our community guidelines, and your email address will NOT be published. Let’s have a positive and constructive conversation.

Talk With A Vet Online

Peace of mind,
anywhere, anytime

Affordable vet advice

10 Best Unscented Cat Litters in 2025 – Reviews & Top Picks

Nobody likes scooping or changing the cat litter, but choosing the right type of litter can make cleaning up that much easier for...

How to Stop Your Cat From Climbing the Curtains: 11 Vet-Reviewed Ways

Cats can get up to all kinds of mischief around our homes—not out of spite but because they’re trying to release pent-up energy,...

Egyptian Mau Cat Breed: Info, Pictures, Temperament & More

You’ll notice the Egyptian Mau right away because of their stunning silvery coats and gorgeous eyes. You might wonder just what this cat...

How to Potty Train a Kitten: Vet-Approved Tips & Tricks

If you’ve landed on this post, odds are that you just added a new kitten to your life. Given that your new bundle...

More related

Cat-Opoly Review: The Cat Monopoly Game (2025 Review)

Review Summary Cat-Opoly is a feline-themed take on the traditional, popular Monopoly board game. Rather than buying properties, players buy rare breeds of...

What Do the PrettyLitter Colors Mean? Explanation with Color Chart

Staying on top of your cat’s health can be difficult, even if you religiously take your pet to the veterinarian for regular checkups...

Can Cats Eat Turkey Bacon? Vet-Approved Risks & FAQ

Turkey and bacon are two legitimate meats in their own right, and each of these meats is popular with both humans and pets...

Why Do Cats Trill When They Jump? 4 Vet-Reviewed Reasons

In the wild, cats remain fairly silent. Their purrs, hisses, growls, and yowls are mainly for communication, not something they do casually as...

Keep reading

How to Tell if a Cat Is Stressed: 12 Vet-Reviewed Signs to Watch For

In some ways, cats are a lot like people. They get stressed and anxious. Unlike humans, they can’t tell us their problems using words, and we have to look for subtle signs to identify when a cat is stressed. This...

Sad depressed cat laying down

Can Cats Get Lice? Vet-Approved Facts & Treatment Tips

Lice are a common problem for most pet owners, especially if your pet enjoys the outdoors. They can cause skin disease and itchiness, affect your pet’s coat, and even cause a variety of health complications. Many cats, especially those who...

cat scratching itself

Nutro Cat Food Review of 2025: Recalls, Pros & Cons

Nutro Cat Food Review Summary Founded in the 1920s, Nutro is an American pet food manufacturing company and a subsidiary of Mars Inc., which also manufactures other pet food brands, including Whiskas, Royal Canin, and Iams, and is now headquartered...

Nutro Cat Food Review

Why Are My Cats Whiskers Breaking Off? 5 Vet-Reviewed Possible Reasons

Have you ever worried about a few split ends in your hair? If it’s just an occasional strand, probably not. But imagine that every time you brush your hair you end up with a handful of broken hairs. That’s when...

Long white whiskers and nose of a gray cat

Why Does My Cat Paw at Her Water Bowl? 8 Vet-Reviewed Reasons

Cats do all sorts of silly things that seem senseless to us. Yet, their behavior, including the oddest tasks, can be explained reasonably well. Does your cat paw at her water bowl? Well, there are explanations for that! Some reasons...

cat dipping its paw in water bowl

Environmental Enrichment for Cats: 12 Vet-Reviewed Tips

While indoors is the safest place for cats, it’s not always the most enriching. It’s important to remember that cats, at their very core, are wild animals. Their ancestors ruled the outdoors, hunting, exploring, and fending for themselves. While your...

Cute gray cat on a cat tree

Why Does My Cat Reach His Paw Out to Me? 9 Vet-Verified Reasons

There are several reasons that your cat may reach out to you, whether they are lying down or lightly tapping you with their paw while standing up. As you might imagine, the most obvious reason is to try to get...

cat reaching out

Is Lysol Toxic To Cats? Ver Reviewed Concerns & Safety Tips

When you adopt a pet, you will probably find yourself cleaning more often. However, many of the cleaners that we use are filled with harsh chemicals. They get the job done in the fight against germs, but they also have...

Cat-with-cleaning-equipment_absolutiamges_shutterstock