Get

In Your Inbox

Catster is reader-supported. When you buy via links on our site, we may earn an affiliate commission at no cost to you. Learn more.

When Do Kittens Calm Down and Begin to Mature? FAQ & Tips

Ginger kitten with white chest

Kittens can be downright crazy, and any cat lover knows it is true, regardless of how cute their little faces are. It seems like every time you turn around, they are hanging from your drapes or scratching on your furniture. And their pupils? Black from being overly charged.

So, when exactly do they slow down? The answer can vary from cat to cat, but there are generalizations you can count on. Let’s take a deeper look at when your hyper little whippersnapper will stop shredding your forearms with raging fury.

divider cats oct 2024

How Long Does Kittenhood Last?

Your feline remains a kitten for quite a while, finally maturing at a ripe 18 months of age. However, that doesn’t necessarily mean that your cat will make an immediate transition at this time.

Growth and maturity are two different things. This means that your cat might not be fully grown yet, but they are pretty relaxed. Or, on the flip side, you might have a very high-energy cat that doesn’t slow down for several years.

But generally, kittens begin to lose their high energy levels by 1 year of age. So, age can only indicate so much to us; other factors play into it as well.

Maine Coon kitten in a crib
Image By: Beeki, Pixabay

divider cats oct 2024

What to Expect from Your Kitten

For the first 2 months of your kitten’s life, they are very playful, but they don’t have the muscle coordination to go completely psycho yet. You might see them awkwardly pouncing, but they aren’t in stealthy attack mode.

By 3 months of age, all of their senses have fully developed so they can explore the world. They will start to play with their siblings, mother, and even you. They also begin chasing random hair ties on the floor and other miscellaneous objects to practice their hunting skills early.

By this time, it will seem like they’ve suddenly developed an endless bounty of energy. You can barely get them to slow down. So, a lot of destruction can take place during this time.

If you are concerned or have questions about your growing kitten’s health, you can also speak to a vet from the comfort of your own home.

If you need to speak with a vet but can't get to one, head over to PangoVet. It's an online service where you can talk to a vet online and get the advice you need for your pet — all at an affordable price!

PangoVet_Mention-in-Content for PangoVet2 save money

Activity Levels Fluctuate Differently for Each Cat

Just like human children, cats mature at different rates. You might have a lazy orange tabby cat that slows its roll by 6 months, or you might have a lean, energetic kitten that won’t mentally mature until they are almost 2 years old.

Also, some breeds are much more prone to hyperactivity than others.

Extremely active cat breeds include:
Some of the more relaxed cat breeds include:

Coat Color & Personality

There has been much debate on coat colors and whether or not they affect personality. Every cat will have a very distinct character, but some owners swear that coat color determines significant personality traits.

While this isn’t necessarily scientific, a general consensus says that calico kitties have a lot of attitude—but tortoiseshells are at the top of the list. At the same time, orange tabby cats tend to be lazier and friendlier than others. Also, black cats can be more tolerant of other cats and indoor living.

These are just generalizations, of course. Every cat will differ. There is an energy about them, even as kittens, that can indicate later behavior, so trust your gut.

orange cat
Image Credit: Pixabay

divider cats oct 2024

Channeling Your Kitten’s Energy

To get past these temporary stages, you can use different methods to channel your kitten’s energy appropriately. If you’re reading this, it’s likely because you have a little terror on your hands, and you’re just wondering when it’s going to be over.

Even though it might seem like you’re amid a never-ending cycle of destruction, this too shall pass. Here are a few things you can do in the meantime to smooth out the process.

1. Wear Your Kitten Out

Even though your cat is running around to play, you can tire them out in a jiffy. Get some of their favorite toys and get on their level. It’s time to romp around. The more you participate in your kitten shenanigans, the quicker they will tuck her out for nap time.

Be careful to protect yourself against biting and clawing. When you can, make sure there is a protective barrier in place to prevent skin damage. Plus, you won’t want your cat to make a habit out of shredding your arms for fun.


2. Get Your Kitten a Friend

Sometimes actually having two kittens is better than having one. They can entertain each other with hours of endless play, taking much focus off of your wall trim and more on each other. Kittens at this age love having a friend who wants to play as much as they do.

Even having an older house cat doesn’t suffice. As cats age, their desire to play the way that a kitten does decreases tremendously. So, let this be an excuse to argue for buying or adopting two kittens if your wife or husband says no.

2 Grey Striped Kittens Playing on a Blanket with Toy
Image Credit: Pixabay

3.  Use Food in Your Favor

You might not know a cat that isn’t food-motivated. You can use this in your favor by offering them treats in place of attacks. Try to keep their focus, so they can quench their mental thirst.

You can buy toys to fill with treats or work with them on performing tricks in exchange for goodies. Get creative with it, but also make sure to keep it light. If your cat gets used to excessively eating snacks, it can lead to picky appetites or obesity down the line.


4. Spay or Neuter Your Kitten

Before your kitten is fully mature, there are other ways to be proactive and tame the beast. If you get your kitten spayed or neutered by roughly 6 months of age, they can calm down pretty quickly.

When your cat is fixed, it eliminates the need to seek out a mate. Since cats sexually mature before they are mentally mature, this is a perfect measure to put in place. Getting animals fixed reduces the risks of spraying, catcalling, and aggression, too.

That isn’t the case in every scenario, of course. Some cats take longer to mature than others, regardless of whether or not they are spayed or neutered. However, once their hormones level out, they tend to relax a little bit at home. The sooner you can get them fixed, the more likely they are to take a chill pill.

neutering cat
Image Credit: Simon Kadula, Shutterstock

divider cats oct 2024

Conclusion

So, just hang in there if you feel like you are losing your mind. We know how hard it is to get through the angsty teenage years. If you implement some patience and work with them regularly, it can curb some of their energy.

You might need some Tylenol and a suit of armor to get you to the other side, and some furniture might be harmed, but soon, that kitty will lounge around your window sills instead.

Related Reads: 


Featured Image Credit: Prostock-studio, Shutterstock

Want content like this delivered to you?

Sign Up For Our Newsletter

News, insights, expert advice, and everything cat

* By submitting, you agree to our Terms & Conditions and Privacy & Cookies Policy.

How useful was this post?

Click on a star to rate (you can leave written feedback after clicking submit)

Help us improve Catster for pet parents!

Your feedback really matters.

What did you like about this post? Also how can we improve it?

Join the conversation

Leave a Reply

You’re very welcome to leave a comment or question. Please know that all comments must meet our community guidelines, and your email address will NOT be published. Let’s have a positive and constructive conversation.

Talk With A Vet Online

Peace of mind,
anywhere, anytime

Affordable vet advice

7 Amazing Facts About White Cats You’ll Love to Learn

While all cats are incredible and perfect, white cats have their own special magic. Some cat-loving people claim that white cats tend to...

Do Cats’ Personalities Change After They Are Neutered? (Vet Answer)

We all know that neutering is an important part of responsible cat ownership, but it’s understandable to wonder how it might affect the...

Where Should You Buy or Adopt a Kitten? Facts & FAQ

So, you have made a big decision in your family’s life. You have decided to add a kitten to your family! This is...

Napoleon Cat Breed Info: Pictures, Facts & Traits

The Napoleon cat (aka The Minuet) is a wonderful companion. Originally named after the French conqueror for their short legs, this breed is...

More related

Cat Losing Whiskers: Is It Normal & Should I Worry? Vet-Reviewed Facts

It can be deeply worrying if your cat’s whiskers start to fall out. While this phenomenon could be cause for concern, a cat...

Siamese Munchkin Cat Mix: Info, Pictures, Temperament & More

If you’ve ever seen a Siamese kitten, you’re familiar with how adorable they are and their tiny paws, noses, ears, and bodies. Of...

How to Make Your Cat a Lap Cat: 6 Tips & Tricks

Nothing beats having a sleeping cat curled up on your lap while you enjoy a television show or sit by a roaring fire....

Vet-Reviewed Tips for Being a Good Cat Foster Parent

Being a foster parent for cats living in shelters is one of the most rewarding things you can do if you’re a pet...

Keep reading

Dave’s Cat Food Review of 2025: Recalls, Pros & Cons

Review Summary There’s been a big push lately away from cat foods made with cheap ingredients and far too many fillers. Many cat owners are searching for healthier alternatives for their beloved pets. Some people even serve meals they prepare...

Dave's Cat Food Review

Is Sandalwood Incense Safe for Cats? Vet-Verified Facts and Safety Guide

Sandalwood incense is a common way for people to freshen up their homes and keep their living areas smelling nice. However, it isn’t safe to use around cats. Sandalwood essential oil is known to be toxic to cats, and the...

Catster_Is Sandalwood Incense Safe for Cats

5 Best Fresh Cat Food Delivery Services in Australia in 2025 – Reviews & Top Picks

We love our cats here in the land down under, and we want the best for them. We’re always on the lookout for new and interesting ways to pamper our feline friends. One of the latest trends to hit Australia...

Cat eating fresh cat food

Cat Life Stages Explained (Plus 12 Vet-Approved Tips To Improve Their Wellbeing)

It’s not uncommon for cats to live well into their 20s, and certainly into their late teens, largely thanks to improved healthcare and nutrition, but also as a result of greater awareness from owners. The basic route to providing a...

young woman holding cute siberian cat with green eyes

When Can Kittens Be Dewormed? The Safest Age & FAQ (Vet-Verified)

It’s an exciting time when you bring home an adorable kitten, but there are also less pleasant aspects, including worms! Not all cats will get worms, but deworming your new pet is still crucial. Young kittens are more susceptible to...

vet-giving-pill-to-kitten

How to Cat Proof a Toilet Paper Holder: Explanation & Tips

Cats are notorious for unraveling and shredding toilet paper, driving many a cat parent to despair. If your cat is wreaking havoc in the bathroom, it’s time to start looking into how you can cat-proof your toilet paper holders and...

mackerel tabby cat playing with roll of toilet paper

Why Do Cats Touch Noses? Vet-Verified Feline Behavior

Cats are fascinating to watch, and everything a cat does is deliberate. Felines do not take action for the sake of it. The purposeful nature of a cat’s ways is especially evident in their communication. Some experts argue that everything...

burmese cat kissing womans nose

Maine Coon Cat Health Problems: 8 Vet-Reviewed Issues

Maine Coons are beloved felines, and it’s easy to see why. They have gorgeous, full coats and are large, majestic animals that are impossible to ignore. Many cat lovers find this breed to be affectionate and fun to have in...

Catster_Health Problems of Maine Coon Cats