Get

In Your Inbox

Catster is reader-supported. When you buy via links on our site, we may earn an affiliate commission at no cost to you. Learn more.

Are Cats Independent? What Science Tells Us (Vet-Reviewed Info)

ragdoll cat with blue eyes standing outdoors in nature

Cats are considered the go-to pets for people who work long hours because they’re thought to be more independent than dogs, according to a study by the University of Lincoln.1 They observed whether cats exhibit behavior in which they see you as a caretaker or protector like dogs and young children do, and they generally don’t!

Most cats are seemingly less affected by being left alone than dogs, preferring to seek out safe spaces and rely on their own instincts to keep themselves entertained. They rarely display frustrated behavior that may be some type of attachment to their owners, but the researchers couldn’t decide whether it was just gruntles of discontentment.

Some cats that are particularly bonded with their owners or experience a significant change in their living circumstances may develop separation anxiety. Cats can also get bored due to lack of physical exercise and environmental enrichment, which leads to a different type of frustration and sometimes even undesirable behaviors.

If you’re interested in more about how cats evolved to be so independent, you’ve come to the right place. Read on below for more details on that, as well as tips for bonding with a particularly independent feline.

divider 3 paws

Why Are Cats More Independent Than Dogs?

Cats are natural-born hunters in the wild, preferring to spend time alone or in small groups. They’re not gregarious pack animals like wild dogs, and most wild cats have established safe spaces they can retreat to in emergencies.

Most of the same things they do in our homes are innate survival instincts, and cats learn how to hone those skills from kittenhood. Mother cats teach their kittens how to stalk prey and hunt, as well as show them social behaviors from a very young age. Eventually, the kittens go off on their own and live their best lives.

Cats are unique and unlike dogs in that, they sort of domesticate themselves. Millenia ago, ancient humans noticed that wild cats liked to hang around grain stores to hunt. Small rodents like mice and rats could seriously damage critical food reserves like grain, so the ancients figured cats could hang out if they earned their keep by killing pests.

Even when they were revered in ancient Egypt, cats were seen as royal creatures for their self-sufficiency and lithe grace. Today, they inspire countless funny cat videos and memes while allowing us to take care of them in the form of food, shelter, and so on.

cats in front and behind the cat door
Photo Credit: Monika Wisniewska, Shutterstock

Do Cats Like Affection?

Yes, cats like love and affection, as any cat parent will tell you. They’re usually not as in-your-face about wanting love as dogs, but cats are intelligent creatures that form bonds with their humans. They will make a positive association between your presence and food, treats, toys, playing, and cuddles, which is the basis for positive reinforcement training.

Some cats are more loving than others, and some are even avid cuddlers! Many cat parents are familiar with their furry friends rubbing up against them, nuzzling, or licking them for attention. Other felines are sparser with affection or even seem standoffish. You may see subtler signs of love from them, like the classic half-lidded gaze that signals a cat’s happiness or contentment.

How to Bond With Independent Cats

You don’t get to choose your cat’s personality, and establishing a bond with reclusive or shy kitties can be challenging. Let’s take a brief look at some ways you can help strengthen your connection to your furry friend without scaring or pushing them.

Independent Cat Bonding Tips:
  • Let them make the first move. Cats are cautious and may not respond to repeated overtures of friendship until they feel comfortable.
  • Use positive reinforcement. Create positive associations by giving your cat treats or food when they come to you or show you attention.
  • Establish a routine. All creatures thrive with routine, and a cat that knows what to expect from day to day will be more at ease with you.
  • Enrich their environment. Ensure your cat has all the resources it requires so it can exhibit its natural behavior and feel fulfilled. Cats need items like toys, vertical perches, and scratching posts to relieve stress. Without any way to blow off steam, a cat can get anxious and avoid human contact altogether. 
  • Provide physical exercise. Play with your cat as a way for them to use up any excess energy, particularly in the case of indoor cats, but also to bond and keep in good shape, thus reducing the risk for obesity.

divider 3 paws

Conclusion

Cats are more solitary pets than dogs, and they see us more as companions than someone that takes care of them. Some cats are more private and shyer than others, but consistent attempts to bond will go a long way.


Featured Image Credit: Aaron Zimmermann, Shutterstock

Want content like this delivered to you?

Sign Up For Our Newsletter

News, insights, expert advice, and everything cat

* By submitting, you agree to our Terms & Conditions and Privacy & Cookies Policy.

How useful was this post?

Click on a star to rate (you can leave written feedback after clicking submit)

Help us improve Catster for pet parents!

Your feedback really matters.

What did you like about this post? Also how can we improve it?

Join the conversation

2 Responses

Leave a Reply

You’re very welcome to leave a comment or question. Please know that all comments must meet our community guidelines, and your email address will NOT be published. Let’s have a positive and constructive conversation.

Talk With A Vet Online

Peace of mind,
anywhere, anytime

Affordable vet advice

Do Cats Like Hugs? Feline Preferences & Important Considerations (Vet Verified)

Cats are beloved pets known for their independent and enigmatic nature. While dogs often enjoy hugs and physical affection, the same may not...

How Much Does Owning a Savannah Cat Cost in 2025? Price Guide

Savannah cats are a majestic, exotic breed that is a cross between the African Serval Cat and a domestic cat. While the Savannah...

8 Best Designer Cat Collar Brands in 2025 – Reviews & Top Picks

Dogs are easy, undemanding creatures. If you need a collar for a dog, you can just go buy a $7 one at your...

10 Best Microchip Cat Flaps in 2025 – Reviews & Top Picks

It may not be possible for your cat to be trusted with their own front door key, but a microchipped cat flap is...

More related

Acana vs. Orijen Cat Food: Our 2025 In-Depth Comparison

If you take your cat’s health seriously, you may have thought about investing in a premium cat food brand to feed to them....

Why Does My Cat’s Water Bowl Get Slimy? 3 Likely Reasons

The dog’s water bowl may be one of the dirtiest items in the house, but a cat’s water bowl can get pretty disgusting,...

Why Do Cats Trill When They Jump? 4 Vet-Reviewed Reasons

In the wild, cats remain fairly silent. Their purrs, hisses, growls, and yowls are mainly for communication, not something they do casually as...

Why Do People Hate Cats? What Science Tells Us (Vet-Reviewed)

Cat lovers think that their favorite animals can generally do no wrong. People who adore felines often find them loving, attentive, playful, and...

Keep reading

My Cat Is Limping But Still Jumping & Running, What’s Wrong? Vet-Reviewed Advice

It is always a worrisome moment when we notice something wrong with our pets. We don’t like to think of our beloved feline friends being injured, hurt, or feeling unwell, especially as they can’t speak to us to inform us...

White and orange cat with limp leg on paved street

Can Cats Get Kidney Transplants? Our Vet Discusses Facts & Considerations

Kidney disease is one of the most common causes of illness and death in cats, with almost 80% of cats over 15 years experiencing some form of renal insufficiency. Although it is usually associated with older felines, younger cats—through congenital...

two different cats standing side by side outdoors in the garden

Why Does My Cat Chirp at Birds? 5 Common Reasons

Your cat may seem like a cuddly ball of fur or even a hairless wonder who loves to spend time with you under the blankets, but something changes when your feline sees a bird outside the window. Instantly, your kitty...

cat watching bird on the window

How Long Do Tabby Cats Live? Vet-Approved Lifespan Facts

Tabbies are one of the most popular cats in the world. However, some people don’t know that they are actually not a specific breed. A cat is considered a tabby because of its unique coat pattern, whose appearance can vary...

tabby with green eyes laying on a rug

How Long Will a Cat With Diabetes Live Without Treatment? Vet-Verified Risks & FAQ

Diabetes is a common and serious disease that affects the health of cats. When left untreated, diabetes can cause life-threatening complications such as diabetic ketoacidosis, neurological disease, and other health problems. Fortunately, most cases of diabetes in cats can be...

owner calming his cat

Is It True That All Cats Shed? Vet-Reviewed Facts

If you’ve noticed a ton of hair around the house and your cat is shedding non-stop, you might be wondering if all cats shed. The answer is yes, all cats shed to some extent unless they are hairless. Cats shed...

white cat shedding

Why Is My Cat Peeing on the Carpet & How to Stop It: 7 Vet-Approved Reasons

If your typically pristine and proper cat is suddenly ignoring their litter box and peeing all over your carpet, it can become a frustrating (and smelly) problem for cat parents. The strong odor and constant carpet cleaning can definitely take...

cat with pee stain on carpet

How to Tell If Your Cat Loves You: 12 Vet-Reviewed Signs to Look For

Cats have an unfair reputation as aloof independent creatures that don’t need us humans—unless they’re hungry. While some cats can be self-contained, others are incredibly outgoing when it comes to letting their owners know that they love them. Whichever side...

boy-falls-asleep-and-hugs-his-cat-who-sleeps-with-him-under-the-covers