Humans love babies. It’s an evolutionary tactic. However, the reality of adding a feline to your family is not based on evolution. The important decision comes down to what is a good fit for your family and your lifestyle. Surprisingly, to some folks, kittens are often not the answer. Adopting an older cat is the fastest track to the perfect fit.
Taking into account your new adult cat’s temperament and personality, the transition to happy family member can be relatively seamless by following the experts’ protocol.
Lilo Bornhardt, with the Alachua County Humane Society in Florida, helps steer adopters to the right cat for them. The goal is to match the people with the cat they think will fit the family the best.
“Our animal care team asks adopters what they’re looking for in a cat’s personality,” she says. “If the adopters are more set on personality than on the age, the team’s recommendations often lead the adopters to a good match.”
Richard Havens, executive director at the City of Amarillo’s Animal Management & Welfare in Texas, echoes this matchmaking mission.
“We believe adopters have preconceived notions of what they want: certain behaviors and traits assigned to certain looking animals,” he says. “However, after speaking to staff familiar with all the animals, they abandon their perceived criteria and will adopt the animals with the behavior they’re actually looking for. Often those behaviors are found in adult animals.”
Lauren McCarron, founder of Joyful Pets Animal Rescue in Massachusetts, finds the same biases in the Northeast. “The majority of adopters are asking for kittens.” However, they rarely adopt out single kittens, so if a family just wants to adopt one cat they’re introduced to adults.
“More than half of our ‘kitten only’ requests fall in love with an older cat!” Lauren stresses to adopters that the “poufy kitten look” will only last until he’s 6 months old, then he’ll look like an older cat. So the adopters will only have about three months of the cutesy juvenile appearance. Usually the explanation is enough to sway the decision to a long-term fit rather than short-lived looks.
“When adopting adult cats, the adopter has to remember the cat has most likely not lived his entire life in the shelter,” Lilo says. “The cats often come from home settings, so depending on their personality and their history, they adjust relatively fast into a new household.” She says it can take from a couple of days to three to four weeks to settle in.
Richard says, “Adopters should expect a cat comfortable in their own furry skin. They’re not looking for someone to help mold them — adopting an adult cat is like forming an adult relationship.”
By adhering to these easy-to-follow steps, the transition into your home should go as smoothly as possible. But remember, every cat is an individual, “If you have had a cat in the past, don’t assume that what worked for that cat will work for your new cat,” Richard warns.
“The best part of an adult cat is that they have loved and know how to love,” Lauren says. “They deserve a second chance.”
While this is true and noble, she brings up another great point: Kittens are prone to many diseases that can manifest once in your home. But after a cat is past the 2-year mark, he is well beyond any scary or potentially deadly kitten diseases cropping up. Not to frighten people away from kittens, but an adult cat’s health at the time of adoption is more of a certainty.
Another thing — older cats are often as playful as kittens. Lauren says they will find their favorite toy or game or even learn how to fetch.
Matching your new cat’s energy level will ensure he’s sound, healthy and content. Being honest with yourself about what you want is extremely important before even considering adopting a cat.
If you want to spend hours on the couch and zero hours with a feather toy, an older, less energetic cat is right for you. If you’re looking for a very friendly and affectionate cat, you’ll see those traits during the meet and greet. Older cats are the ultimate example of what you see is what you get.
Whether you’ve had tons of cats or if you’re a first-time cat parent, there’s an adult cat that is right for you. The first step to finding that perfect furry family member is to be honest about what you want and why you want it — the adoption counselor will do the rest.
Thumbnail: Photography ©1001slide | Getty Images.
Denise LeBeau is an award-winning essayist, writer, editor and self-professed poet laureate of the pet set. For the last eight years, she has been a full-time writer for an animal welfare organization. She shares her Hampton Bays, New York, home with two rescued Siamese cats, Flipper and Slayer, and two rescued moocher mutts, Parker and Zephyrella. Connect with her on Facebook.
Editor’s note: This article appeared in Kittens, a special issue from Catster magazine. Look for Kittens on a newsstand near you!