Get

In Your Inbox

Catster is reader-supported. When you buy via links on our site, we may earn an affiliate commission at no cost to you. Learn more.

How Long Should Kittens Stay With Their Mother? Vet-Reviewed Facts & Development

cat smelling kitten

There is no doubting the attraction of young kittens. They’re tiny and stumble around, and our instinct to protect them takes over. However, taking a kitten away from their mother too soon can be detrimental to the little furball.

Not only do mother cats wean their kittens and ensure that they are physically healthy, but they also teach them how to behave and how to interact with the world around them. While it is possible for a kitten to survive without their mother—and this happens often when a mother cat gets ill or is unable to look after her litter—the kitten will simply not receive the same level of care from a foster parent as they would from the queen.

While it is common to see kittens being put up for adoption between the ages of 8 and 10 weeks, when they have been weaned, it is better to wait until the young cat reaches 12 weeks of age. They have better developed, physically and emotionally, and have a better chance of leading a healthy and fulfilled life.

divider cats oct 2024

Kitten Development

Although it can take longer with some breeds, most kittens develop into adult cats by the time they reach 1 year of age. However, the most development and the greatest number of changes occur in the first 8 weeks.

Briefly, here are the major changes you can expect a kitten to undergo.

  • 2 weeks — Kittens are born with their eyes closed and are deaf and blind for approximately the first week. By week 2, their eyes will open, but their eyesight is still very limited, so they should be kept away from bright lights. During the first 2 weeks, you will hear the kitten making little meowing noises to attract their mother’s attention.
  • 4 weeks — By week 3, your kitten will have started purring, and they will start to make more noise, especially as they walk around and investigate their surroundings a little more. At this time, a kitten’s eyes may start to change color, and they will look more attentive with upright ears. They will have started to walk at 3 weeks, albeit very unsteadily, and during the fourth week, they will start to explore. Week 4 is when a kitten can start to balance upright, and it’s a good time to start the introduction of the litter box.
  • 7 weeks — At 5 weeks, the kitten will start to develop some of their infamous curiosity. You should start to socialize with them at this age, which means introducing them to the rest of the family, other animals, and new people. Let them adventure a little. Around this time, your kitten should be getting their first round of vaccinations, too. By this time, your kitten will have almost all of their baby teeth. Weaning starts around this time, with wet food introductions highly suggested by week 6.
  • 10 weeks — At around this stage, the kitten should be transitioning away from milk and onto solid food. At this age, they are still learning how to be a cat, and they will pick this up from their mothers and siblings. They still have a lot of key lessons to learn, including how to be agile little climbers and how to socialize.
  • 12 weeks — By 12 weeks, the kittens should be fully weaned and socialized. This is when it is safe to take them away from their mother. 12 weeks is also the time when a kitten gets their next round of vaccination shots, which makes it a good time to adopt them.
  • 6 months — If your kitten was strong enough and weighed enough to cope with anesthesia, your vet may have performed spaying or neutering after 8 weeks, but most vets will want to wait until the cat reaches 4–6 months of age.
  • 1 year — Most kittens have developed into fully-fledged adult cats by the time they reach 1 year of age. They may still charge around, play games, and indulge in other kitten-like behavior, but 1-year-olds are adult cats—physiologically, at least. The cat may not display their adult personality until they reach 24 months of age, however.
sweet chartreux kittens_Gosha Georgiev_shutterstock
Image By: Gosha Georgiev, Shutterstock

What Happens If a Kitten Is Removed From Their Mother Too Soon?

Kittens get nutrients, vitamins, and minerals from their mother.

  • If they are taken away too soon, it can lead to an increased chance of illness. It could lead to your cat being weak and physically smaller.
  • Kittens also learn behavioral patterns, actions, and reactions, as well as social interactions, from their mother and siblings. If they are taken away too soon, you could end up with a grumpy cat that has not learned how to behave properly.
  • This lack of social interaction and social cues from mom can also lead to an insecure and scared kitten, so yours may be jumpier than they would be if they had been left with mom for 2 more weeks.
  • Another important skill that a kitten learns from their mother is how to use a litter tray. It is possible to teach a kitten how to use a tray, but the mother would have better results and would teach the process naturally.
tabby mother cat feeding her kittens
Image Credit: tanewpix289, Shutterstock

Can Kittens Survive Without Their Mothers?

If the kitten is very young, bottle feeding with milk replacement formula will be required every 2–3 hours, even throughout the night. Before 3–4 weeks of age, kittens will also need gentle stimulation with a soft moist wipe to urinate and defecate. After that age, they can start going on their own but will still need to learn how to use the litter box.

Essentially, a kitten can survive without their mom, as long as they receive the proper and full care of a surrogate.

Will Mother Cats Reject Their Kittens If Humans Touch Them?

Mother cats will not reject kittens if they are touched by humans. However, if you find a kitten or litter of kittens and you can’t see the mother, you should wait before taking them in. The mother may be hunting for food and due to return. Watch the area from a distance to ensure that she comes back.

a little cute kitten in woman's hands
Image Credit: Holger Kleine, Shutterstock

Do Cats Get Sad When Their Kittens Are Taken Away?

Separating a mother and her kittens can lead to sadness for the kittens and their mother. The mother may search the house and meow for her kittens for a couple of days before she goes back to her routine. Kittens can find it more difficult, with some becoming anxious and refusing to eat for several days.

divider cats oct 2024

Conclusion

Although many people adopt kittens at 8 weeks of age, it is better to wait until they reach 12 weeks, have been fully weaned, and have had the opportunity to properly socialize with their siblings. This will enable the kitten to develop further, and it will make things easier for you with your new kitten in the long run. There are some instances where this isn’t possible, of course, and although some very young kittens do not survive bottle weaning, the majority do.

If you see a litter of kittens with no mother cat around, do allow some time for the mother to return before you remove the kittens.


Featured Image Credit: Irina Kozorog, Shutterstock

Want content like this delivered to you?

Sign Up For Our Newsletter

News, insights, expert advice, and everything cat

* By submitting, you agree to our Terms & Conditions and Privacy & Cookies Policy.

How useful was this post?

Click on a star to rate (you can leave written feedback after clicking submit)

Help us improve Catster for pet parents!

Your feedback really matters.

What did you like about this post? Also how can we improve it?

Join the conversation

Leave a Reply

You’re very welcome to leave a comment or question. Please know that all comments must meet our community guidelines, and your email address will NOT be published. Let’s have a positive and constructive conversation.

Talk With A Vet Online

Peace of mind,
anywhere, anytime

Affordable vet advice

145 African Cat Names: Great Ideas for Your Beautiful Cat

African culture is ideal for looking for beautiful, exotic cat names. After all, it’s where the King of the Jungle lives. Maybe you...

Catster Photo Contest: Cats of the Week Winners (November 1, 2024)

This Week’s Winner Silliest Cutest Most Dignified Most Expressive Best Action Shot Sleepiest Enter Your Cat Submit your kitty for a chance to...

10 Best Flea Drops for Cats in 2025 – Reviews & Top Picks

Providing solid flea protection for cats is vital. Flea bites cause itching and make cats scratch and bite themselves, which can lead to...

7 Vet-Verified Facts About Seal Point Siamese Cats (With Pictures)

Seal Point Siamese cats are some of the most attractive and unique cat breeds and color point patterns on the planet. They have...

More related

Arabian Mau Cat Breed Info: Pictures, Temperament & Traits

Arabian Maus are medium-sized, elegant cats believed to have developed in the Middle East centuries ago, most likely in Saudi Arabia or somewhere...

Why Is My Cat Keeping One Eye Closed? 4 Vet-Reviewed Reasons & Tips

While it may be a cute idea to think your cat winks at you, a cat with one eye closed may be a...

Siamese Kittens for Sale in Indiana: Breeders List 2025

Catster advocates for adopting before shopping, though we fully understand there are many reasons for seeking a breeder. So, we encourage it to...

Cat Eye Tumors & Cancer: Our Vet Explains the Causes, Signs & Care

Cancer and tumors can affect any part of a cat’s body, even their eyes. Fortunately, eye tumors in cats are uncommon, if not...

Keep reading

Will a Cat’s Whiskers Grow Back If They’re Cut Off? Vet Approved Facts & Risks

Prickly and cute, your cat’s whiskers aren’t merely adorable accessories. They are more like highly specialized antennae that guide your cat around the house and help them estimate tight squeezes and high jumps. Without their whiskers, your cat would be...

close up of cat whiskers

Can Cats Eat Caramel? Vet-Reviewed Facts & FAQ

Let’s face it: cats are weird creatures. They surprise us with all sorts of quirky behaviors every single day. Your cat might ignore a delicious meaty dish of wet cat food, but you’ll find their head stuck in a bag...

Can Cats Eat Caramel

5 Best Vegan Cat Foods (2025) – Reviews & Top Picks

Vegan diets can be a controversial topic, especially when applying them to our pets. While there are many vegan diets that are inappropriate for cats, there are also those that provide for their nutritional needs. If you want to learn...

cat eating from feeding bowl

Can Cats Drink Ensure? Vet-Approved Health Facts & Safety Guide

When your cat isn’t feeling well, you want to ensure they stay hydrated. Since a loss of appetite can strike humans and animals alike when they’re sick, your cat needs to get the nutrition they need so they can become...

Can Cats Drink Ensure

Do Cats Like Change? Vet-Verified Behavior & Evolution Facts

One of the things that draws people to cats as pets is their independence. They require no walks, less training, and are generally happy in smaller spaces compared to dogs, which some people really appreciate, especially since you can travel...

Scared Tabby cat trying to hide

Can Cats Eat Cream Cheese? Vet-Reviewed Nutrition Facts & FAQ

Most cats love dairy foods. The stereotypical cat loves milk, though it may upset most actual cats’ stomachs. But what about cream cheese? While cream cheese isn’t toxic to cats, it isn’t exactly the best option for them either. Cream...

Can Cats Eat Cream Cheese

Can Cats Eat Turmeric? Vet-Approved Benefits & Advice

Cats may be carnivores, but they sometimes like to munch on plant foods like carrots and bananas. They might snatch our almost-finished muffin from the table when we are not looking. They might even scrounge around in the garbage to...

Can Cats Eat Turmeric

What Causes Sudden Fever in Cats? Our Vet Explains Causes, Signs & FAQ

One of the most frustrating things we face as pet owners is when our furry family members don’t feel well, especially when we don’t know why. Fevers can be especially difficult to diagnose and treat because there often isn’t an...

digital thermometer showing a cat has a fever