Get

In Your Inbox

Catster is reader-supported. When you buy via links on our site, we may earn an affiliate commission at no cost to you. Learn more.

Can Cats Tolerate a Weekend Alone? Olga Cannot!

Share

So much to do today and so little time.

Hi, I’m Christopher! Read my introduction to learn more about me and my silly Russian Blue cat, Olga.

I don’t travel often, but until recently, Olga never seemed too upset when I returned home after spending a few days away. For several years, I traveled out of town to spend Thanksgiving with my family, and Olga was always friendly when I returned. However, she wasn’t very happy when I left her alone a few weeks ago. I only spent two days in the woods, and my cat sitter dropped by to feed her and play with her.

She meowed when I walked in the door, but when I approached to pet her, she hissed and backed away. I tried to tempt her to play with a silvervine stick, but she looked insulted and ran under the bed to hide. The only time she had hissed at me before was when I returned home after being overseas for 10 days.

When I mentioned Olga’s reaction to a veterinarian, she said the strange odors I absorbed from 30 hours of traveling probably bothered her. I didn’t think a weekend away would cause the same reaction, but the woodland odors on my clothes seemed just as repulsive as those from an airline’s cabin.

A small cat makes a big shadow!
A small cat makes a big shadow!

Olga didn’t stay angry for long, and after I took a shower, she greeted me with a happy cry instead of a hiss. She eventually fell asleep in my lap and seemed to forget the odd scents I brought into the house. Olga used to be more independent and didn’t hold a grudge when I left her alone.

Now, she spends most of the day around me and has become a spoiled cat. She still enjoys her “alone time,” but when she sees me walking toward the garage door, she attacks my legs and whines. She doesn’t mind when I go out the back door because she can observe me in the yard from one of her window perches.

Leaving Olga alone wasn’t a problem until I started working from home full-time. She’s friendlier now and enjoys begging for dinner a few hours before I finish working, and she’s probably happier that I clean the litter box more often, but she’s also more dependent on me. She follows me around the house and is more vocal when I ignore her pleas for an early dinner.

Please wake me if I sleep through the dinner bell.
Please wake me if I sleep through the dinner bell.

It’s fascinating how much my new schedule affected Olga’s personality. Although the change was gradual, I’m surprised that she’s no longer aloof and quiet. She doesn’t look happy when I return from a short trip, but I’m glad she’s capable of hissing.

It’s not the reaction most cat owners want to see from their pets, but it’s a vital defensive measure that serves as a warning before an attack. Olga has never interacted with a dog or cat face-to-face except when she’s in her carrier at the vet’s office and hasn’t felt the need to hiss at another animal. She’s never been scared by or threatened by another creature, and I’m honored she only hisses at me when she’s angry.

This article is a part of Christopher and Olga's series.

Want content like this delivered to you?

Sign Up For Our Newsletter

News, insights, expert advice, and everything cat

* By submitting, you agree to our Terms & Conditions and Privacy & Cookies Policy.




How useful was this post?

Click on a star to rate (you can leave written feedback after clicking submit)

Help us improve Catster for pet parents!

Your feedback really matters.

What did you like about this post? Also how can we improve it?

Join the conversation

Leave a Reply

You’re very welcome to leave a comment or question. Please know that all comments must meet our community guidelines, and your email address will NOT be published. Let’s have a positive and constructive conversation.


Talk With A Vet Online

Peace of mind,
anywhere, anytime

Affordable vet advice

The Cat Biting Mistakes Most Owners Make (And What Works Instead)

Cat bites sent more than 400,000 people to emergency rooms in the US each year.1 Not scratches. Bites. And the reason they’re so...

Do Cats Cause Schizophrenia? Scientists Find a Link – Here’s What It Means

Being a fierce advocate (and occasional recipient of) mental health support and awareness, the term ‘crazy’ is not one I like to fling...

One in 100 Cats Gets Diabetes – Here’s How to Catch It Early

One in every 100 cats develops diabetes.1 That’s not a rare, unlucky condition reserved for cats with obvious health problems. It’s common enough...

Dramatic Rescue Turns Into Dramatic Reunion

What started as a routine call for the RSPCA became a heroic, five-hour rescue featuring one trapped and traumatized cat, an emotional family...

More related

11 Best Cat Affiliate Programs – Reviews & Top Picks of 2026

If you are looking for the best cat affiliate programs of this year, you have come to the right place. In this article,...

Can Cats Get Sick From Dogs? Ailments & Prevention Tips (Vet Answer)

If your dog is sick, it’s easy to wonder if your cat might also get sick. Fortunately, while some ailments and infections can...

Catnip for Humans: Is it Safe? A Complete Guide

Most of us have watched hilarious videos of cats rolling around in catnip and acting like crazy screwballs. Some cats seem to mellow...

4 Amazing DIY Cat Fence Roller Plans You Can Create at Home (With Pictures)

It can be a tough balance between letting your cats explore the outdoors and keeping them safe. A simple fence isn’t enough if...

Keep reading

Do All Cats Scratch Furniture? Reasons & Prevention Tips

Sometimes, cats display behaviors that our owners are not fond of. For example, we have all heard horror stories about cats ruining a couch or shredding up a new lounge chair. So, do all cats scratch furniture? The truth is...

male domesetic cat scratching furniture with front claws

What Does Cat Spray Smell Like? Vet-Reviewed Facts & Behavioral Reasons

If you’ve ever seen your cat back up to a wall, the couch, or anywhere that is a vertical surface and spray urine, it’s called urine marking or spraying. Sometimes, they spray on a horizontal surface, but most of the...

tabby cat spraying outdoors to mark territory

Is Dracaena Toxic to Cats? Vet-Reviewed Houseplants Examined

Having live houseplants adds a nice touch to your home and helps to keep your air clean, but our feline companions do enjoy playing with leaves and flowers. While many plants are safe, some common houseplants, like dracaena, are toxic...

Catster_Is Dracaena Toxic to Cats

Can Cats Eat Rice? Vet-Approved Facts & FAQ

Cats are obligate carnivores—that is, they are meant to eat mostly animal protein. But while it’s true that felines need specific nutrients only found in animal tissue, they can tolerate small amounts of carbs, which means, technically, yes, cats can...

Can Cats Eat Rice

10 Best Cat Foods Made in the USA in 2026 – Reviews & Top Picks

Choosing high-quality cat food is a hugely important decision when it comes to the health of your beloved pet. You might have been trying to shop more locally for food supplies for your own family, and it makes total sense...

Wet vs Dry Cat Food

Can Cats Eat Caviar? Vet-Verified Benefits & Precautions

Have you ever wanted to give your cat an expensive treat, like caviar (raw fish eggs)? Before you open up the caviar jar, you want to make sure that it is safe. Cats can eat caviar, but it is not...

Can Cats Eat Caviar

Can Adult Cats Eat Kitten Food? Vet-Verified Facts & FAQ

You already know it is important to feed your kitten age-appropriate food, but what if you accidentally feed kitten food to your adult cat? Can adult cats eat kitten food? Yes, you can feed kitten food to your adult cat;...

cat and kitten eating in one plate

Why Does My Cat Bite Me Unprovoked? 5 Vet-Reviewed Reasons for this Behavior

There’s no secret—cats try to get our attention, whether it’s good or bad. Because your little kitties have fangs, it won’t feel too good when they sink them into your flesh. If your cat is biting you for no real...

a red domestic cat bites its owner's hand

Love Cats? So Do We! Join the Catster Community

Stay informed with expert pet care insights delivered straight to your inbox! Discover professional guidance on animal behavior, feeding tips, trusted product picks, and much more.




Sign up for the Catster Email Newsletter

Stay informed with expert pet care insights delivered straight to your inbox! Discover professional guidance on animal behavior, feeding tips, trusted product picks, and much more.