Get

In Your Inbox

Catster is reader-supported. When you buy via links on our site, we may earn an affiliate commission at no cost to you. Learn more.

How Much Attention Does a Cat Need? Vet-Reviewed Facts

cat sleeping in owner's arms

While cats are often perceived as independent pets, they still require daily attention from their owners. Most cats need at least 20-30 minutes of undivided attention a day. However, the amount of attention can vary and depends on several different factors, like the cat’s age, personality, and breed temperament.

It’s important for cat owners to be attentive to their cat’s need for attention. Giving the right amount of attention improves a cat’s quality of life, strengthens the bond between cat and owner, and can reduce unwanted behaviors.

divider 2 cats

Why Cats Need Attention

Cats have been bred to be companion animals. So, even the most independent cats will seek attention from their favorite people. The amount of attention a cat needs will be different for each cat. Some cats can spend hours alone, while others love following their humans all around the house. Here are some factors that can affect a cat’s need for attention.

cat resting with owner on sofa at home
Image Credit: U__Photo, Shuterstock

Age

In general, kittens and senior cats require more attention. Kittens have a lot of energy and usually love to play. So, you will probably spend several hours a day playing and interacting with a kitten. Attention doesn’t just provide entertainment for kittens. Playtime is an enrichment activity that helps kittens exercise, activate their natural instincts, and explore and learn more about their surroundings.

Senior cats can start to require more attention as they start to experience some health issues related to aging, like arthritis and hyperthyroidism1. If your older cat has lived with you for a while, they’re most likely to have developed a stronger bond with you and may enjoy your company even more.

Breed Temperament

Some cat breeds are more social than others and have temperaments that require more attention. These cats tend to enjoy being around people and don’t usually do well being left alone for long hours:

woman holding her birman cat
Image Credit by: Stokkete, Shutterstock

Other cat breeds have more independent temperaments and don’t mind being left alone for a while. Here are some cat breeds that aren’t as demanding of attention:

It’s important to remember that not all purebred cats will share their breed’s typical temperament. As you get to know your cat’s personality, you’ll learn how much undivided attention they’ll need.

Norwegian forest cat outdoors
Image Credit by: Elisa Putti, Shutterstock

Health Issues

Cats that have health issues naturally require more attention to physical care. However, some cats may start to demand more attention if they’re feeling uneasy or in pain. They can become more vocal, have changes in energy levels, and experience mood swings.

If you notice any changes in your cat’s behavior, it can be helpful to look for other signs that your cat may be sick. It also doesn’t hurt to schedule a physical exam with your veterinarian to determine if any underlying health conditions are affecting your cat’s behavior.

divider 3 paws

 

Signs Your Cat Isn’t Receiving Enough Attention

Cats will act in different ways when they feel they aren’t receiving enough attention. Some cats may start to become more vocal, especially if they notice that meowing or making other noises catches your attention.

Your cat may also start to get in the way and lay on whatever you’re working on. Some cats may enjoy the heat being emitted from a laptop, while others are plopping themselves in front of their owners to get some attention. Some cats may also start to follow you around when they want some attention. They may even nudge you with their noses or paw at you.

In more severe cases, cats will start to engage in destructive behavior. Cats that aren’t receiving enough attention can have pent-up energy that they need to exert, and bored cats can start to destroy furniture or become more aggressive.

Cats can start to overgroom themselves or engage in other repetitive behaviors, like scratching. They may neglect litter box habits and start urinating in inappropriate places. You may also see some cats overeating and sleeping more than usual. In these cases it is helpful to consult with a veterinarian, how can you deal with this behavior.

If you need to speak with a vet but can't get to one, head over to PangoVet. It's an online service where you can talk to a vet online and get the advice you need for your pet — all at an affordable price!

PangoVet_Mention-in-Content for PangoVet2 save money

Ways to Give Your Cat Attention

As cat owners spend time with their cats, they’ll start to pick up on what kind of attention their cats like and how much they need.

If your cat enjoys cuddles and pets, make sure to take breaks throughout the day to give your cat your undivided attention. Many cats enjoy getting scratches under their chins, around their ears, and along their backs.

If you work from home, it may be helpful to set up a cat bed or resting area near your workstation. You can place a blanket, pillow, hot water bottle, and some toys in this area to keep your cat happy and entertained. These types of setups allow your cat to enjoy your company without getting in the way of your work.

Another great way to give your cat attention is to play with them. It can be helpful to invest in a cat wand to encourage your cat to play with you. If your cat enjoys catnip or silvervine, you can pick a designated time of day to consistently give your cat a treat sprinkled with catnip or silvervine.

Alternatively, if you want to surprise your cat with something cool, check out the Hepper Hi-Lo Cat Scratcher. It's not just a scratcher; it's a piece of modern furniture that your cat can play on. It's got a curvy design that's perfect for stretching and moving, and it's built tough with strong birch plywood and thick B-flute cardboard. You can adjust it to three different heights, which keeps cats entertained. Plus, it won't break the bank! Our cats love it, and we do too.

Hepper Hi-Lo Cardboard Cat Scratcher with Real...
  • Premium Materials - Hepper's cardboard scratcher is made with dense, B-flute cardboard, and a metal...
  • High, Low and Lower - A single cat scratch pad won't keep your cat engaged. 3 unique positions keeps...
  • Activates Muscles - The Hi Lo isn't just a cat nail file to stop the chief cat couch scratcher. The...

At Catster, we’ve admired Hepper for many years, and decided to take a controlling ownership interest, so that we could benefit from the outstanding designs of this cool cat company!

divider 1 paws

Conclusion

All cats need individual attention and will start to let you know when they want attention from you. Cat owners need to understand how much attention their cats need and make sure that they receive enough of it every day. A lack of attention can lead to destructive behaviors, depression, and an overall lower quality of life.

So, make sure to create space in your day to give your cat attention. Spending time together will increase your bond, and you and your cat will share a mutual appreciation for each other as you give each other attention throughout the day.


Featured Image Credit: Impact Photography, Shutterstock

Want content like this delivered to you?

Sign Up For Our Newsletter

News, insights, expert advice, and everything cat

* By submitting, you agree to our Terms & Conditions and Privacy & Cookies Policy.




How useful was this post?

Click on a star to rate (you can leave written feedback after clicking submit)

Help us improve Catster for pet parents!

Your feedback really matters.

What did you like about this post? Also how can we improve it?

Join the conversation

Leave a Reply

You’re very welcome to leave a comment or question. Please know that all comments must meet our community guidelines, and your email address will NOT be published. Let’s have a positive and constructive conversation.


Talk With A Vet Online

Peace of mind,
anywhere, anytime

Affordable vet advice

What’s That Sound? The Melodious Tones of the Feline Upchuck

Hi, I’m Dr. Karyn! Read my introduction to learn more about me and meet my five hilarious cats: Clutch, Cyril, Alex, Zelda, and...

Dental Procedures for Cats: How Olga Recovered From Surgery

Hi, I’m Christopher! Read my introduction to learn more about me and my silly Russian Blue cat, Olga. Dental issues are common in...

Pet Expo (World of Dogs and Cats): Visiting Africa’s Biggest Pet Event

In 2022, the South African pet expo, previously known as WODAC, The World of Dogs and Cats, returned after two desolate years due...

Lykoi Cat Breed (Wolf Cat): Pictures, Info, Care Guide & More

The Lykoi, otherwise known as the “werewolf cat” for obvious reasons, might be one of the most interestingly horror-like cat breeds in existence....

More related

Can Cats Eat Ribs? Vet-Approved Facts & Health Guidelines

Barbeques are one of the most valued traditions in America—families and friends across the country regularly gather for backyard barbeques. However, no backyard...

Do You Get Too Attached to the Feral Cats in Your Care?

The relationships we form with feral cats can be quite intriguing. How do we help them without getting too attached to them? Ferals...

How to Cat-Proof Wires: 9 Vet-Approved Solutions

Unfortunately, “curiosity killed the cat” can be an apt saying when it comes to electric wires and cats. They are known for their...

Why Does My Cat Like Water & Swimming? Vet-Reviewed Feline Behavior Explanation

Cats have a reputation for disliking water. But, while it is true that some of our feline friends detest getting in baths and...

Keep reading

Can Cats Eat Fried Chicken? Vet-Reviewed Risks & FAQ

Cats tend to be pickier than dogs regarding food, and they don’t tend to beg for table scraps so frequently. However, if we have something interesting like fried chicken, they might come sniffing, which might make you wonder if it’s...

Can Cats Eat Fried Chicken

How Far Apart Can Kittens Be Born? Vet Verified Facts

The amount of time a cat is in labor varies, but most kittens can be born between minutes to about an hour apart. Sometimes, mother cats can go into interrupted labor and stop straining between 24 to 36 hours before...

mother cat and its kittens

Why Are My Cats Whiskers Breaking Off? 5 Vet-Reviewed Possible Reasons

Have you ever worried about a few split ends in your hair? If it’s just an occasional strand, probably not. But imagine that every time you brush your hair you end up with a handful of broken hairs. That’s when...

Long white whiskers and nose of a gray cat

How to Tell If a Cat Has UTI (Urinary Tract Infection)? Vet-Reviewed Signs

Urinary tract infections (UTIs) are common in cats. They mainly occur when bacteria enter the urinary tract and go up to the bladder1. Once the bacteria reproduce and multiply, your cat can get a UTI. UTIs can disrupt a cat’s...

cat sitting with pee on couch

How Long Can a Cat Go Without Peeing? Vet Reviewed Facts & FAQ

As a living being, a healthy cat’s urinary system is always functioning and constantly producing urine. On average, healthy cats urinate two to four times daily, however, it depends on how much water and food they had in the previous...

cat outside the litter box

Why Do Cats Sit on Squares, Even If It’s Just Tape? 8 Vet-Reviewed Reasons

For some odd reason, cats seem to enjoy sitting on squares. They’ll even sit on pieces of tape that look like tiny squares, which can be quite comical. But why do cats love sitting on squares so much? Here are...

Cat inside a square made of tape

Can Cats Eat Twizzlers? Health Risks & Precautions

Twizzlers, the colorful little candies that come in various shapes and flavors, are often enjoyed by humans. However, many cat owners wonder whether their feline friends can enjoy them too. Are cats supposed to eat Twizzlers? Are they healthy for...

Catster_Can Cats Eat Twizzlers_v1_Dec 4 2024

How Long Can You Safely Leave Your Cat Alone? Vet Approved Tips & Alternatives

Many of us cat owners need to leave our cats alone on a regular basis. But where’s the line between an okay amount of time for your cat to be left alone and too long? The answer depends on the...

fluffy cat lying on windowsill

Love Cats? So Do We! Join the Catster Community

Stay informed with expert pet care insights delivered straight to your inbox! Discover professional guidance on animal behavior, feeding tips, trusted product picks, and much more.




Sign up for the Catster Email Newsletter

Stay informed with expert pet care insights delivered straight to your inbox! Discover professional guidance on animal behavior, feeding tips, trusted product picks, and much more.