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Is Your Cat Peeing on the Bed or Couch? Here’s Why

Follow these tips to identify and correct the behavioral causes of improper elimination — whether you've got a cat peeing on the bed, couch or elsewhere.

Marilyn Krieger  |  Aug 3rd 2017


There is a place and a function for everything. While litter boxes function as feline restrooms, sofas and beds are supposed to be for relaxing, sleeping and (if we’re lucky) cuddling cats. We expect to find cat urine in the litter boxes, not where we unwind and nap. Cats aren’t bad or purposely being naughty, nor are they seeking revenge when they urinate on the couches and the places we sleep. They should never be punished — there are legitimate reasons for the unwelcome behavior. Cats’ urinating in the wrong places sends a message to everyone in the household that there’s a problem that needs immediate attention. So if you’ve ever wondered, “Why is my cat peeing on the bed?” or, “Why is my cat peeing on the couch?” we’ve found a few reasons and ways to help you alleviate the issues!

Alert cat checks out her surroundings.

Is your cat peeing on the couch? You may want to bring him to a vet. Photography by Shutterstock.

There might be a medical problem

Whenever your cat has a behavior challenge or exhibits a change in behavior, have her examined as soon as possible by a veterinarian. There are no exceptions to this rule. Many serious medical problems can cause cats to avoid using litter boxes. A short list includes urinary tract infections, diabetes and arthritis as well as a host of other painful and serious conditions.

Have your cat examined by a veterinarian whenever there are changes in behavior

Have your cat examined by a veterinarian whenever there are changes in behavior. Photography by Shutterstock.

High places feel safe

What do sofas, beds, chairs and counters have in common? They have surfaces that are higher than the floor and have good views. The elevation is perfect for kitties to identify and escape potential threats and stressors. Survival is a priority — it’s instinctual, cats naturally don’t want to be ambushed. Sometimes, your cat peeing on the bed or the couch means these places feel safer than his litter box. It’s harder for other animals to corner and trap them on elevated areas because the perpetrators are easily seen.

A cat checking out her surroundings

A cat checking out her surroundings. Photography by Shutterstock.

There might be problems with the litter box

Sometimes it’s the cat owner’s fault. The cats just don’t feel safe using their litter boxes. From the feline point of view, the locations and types of boxes can be setups for other animals to corner and possibly trap them.

Depending on the stressors, people can help their kitties feel more secure as well as stop or prevent the unwelcome behavior by making a few simple changes to the litter boxes. Cats need choices — if one litter box doesn’t feel right, there needs to be others located throughout the home. The litter box rule is one per cat and one for the household. If you have three cats, then your special felines need four litter boxes. The locations will make the difference between usage and avoidance. Place them in areas with good views where it would be challenging for other household animals to trap them. Avoid places such as closets, cabinets, and small rooms.

The box itself makes a difference as well. Litter boxes need to be uncovered. Kitties can be trapped and ambushed in covered litter boxes. Other faux pas that can cause cats to avoid their boxes include providing them with litter boxes that are too small and not scooping the boxes at least once a day.

Avoid giving your cats covered litter boxes.

Avoid giving your cats covered litter boxes. Photography by Shutterstock

It might be relationship issues

Mild as well as serious disputes with the other resident animals can cause cats to urinate on elevated surfaces. Squabbles are often over status, territory and resources, and can occur when other animals are introduced too quickly into the household. Dogs can be a source of stress as well — some are serious threats, others chase or play too rough. The end result is often the same — cats peeing on the bed, couch or other areas with good views that they can quickly vacate.

The situation needs to be evaluated — new cats should be separated and reintroduced gradually to the other resident animals. Most likely you will have to add more vertical territory — cat trees, shelves and other tall pieces of furniture that the cats can use. One way kitties show their status is by where they sit in relationship to each other. These high places are also refuges from dogs and other threats. They should be at least five feet high. In addition to vertical territory, add scratching posts and horizontal scratchers. One way cats mark their territory is by scratching.

Vertical territory can help improve relationships with cats.

Vertical territory can help improve relationships with cats. Photo by Shutterstock

It might be separation anxiety

Kitties are not socially solitary — they often form close attachments with people and other animals. Sensitive kitties can become anxious when their favorite person is away from them for an extended period of time. These little ones might respond to the absence by peeing on the bed or the couch that is saturated with their human’s scent.  They’re mingling their own scents with that of their beloved.

Although separation anxiety can be heartbreaking, there are steps you can take that will help your cat feel more secure when left alone. These include enlisting someone to either stay with your cat or visit at least twice a day. During their visits they should interact with her, doing activities she enjoys, such as play and maybe grooming. Your scent can help your kitty feel like she hasn’t been abandoned. Before leaving, place small towels and other articles of clothing that have your scent on them in sealable plastic bags — one for each day you’ll be away. Your cat sitter needs to put one new scented item out every day for your cat.

Some cats experience separation anxiety when left alone for an extended period of time.

Some cats experience separation anxiety when left alone for an extended period of time. Photography by Shutterstock.

When kitties urinate on elevated surfaces, they are sending a clear message that there is a potentially serious problem. Although frustrating, never punish the cat for the behavior. Instead, identify the reasons for the behavior and address them. If you can’t resolve the problem, then get help from a qualified expert certified in behavior.

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Marilyn, a certified cat behavior consultant, owner of The Cat Coach, LLC, solves cat behavior problems nationally and internationally through on site and Skype consultations. She uses positive reinforcement, including environmental changes, clicker training and other behavior modification techniques. 

She is also an award winning author. Her book Naughty No More! focuses on solving cat behavior problems through clicker training and other positive reinforcement methods.  Marilyn is big on education—she feels it is important for cat parents to know the reasons behind their cat’s behaviors.

She is a frequent guest on television and radio, answering cat behavior questions and helping people understand their cats.