Get

In Your Inbox

Catster is reader-supported. When you buy via links on our site, we may earn an affiliate commission at no cost to you. Learn more.

How to Bond With Your Cat Through Playtime: 4 Fun Ideas (Vet Approved)

Share

woman playing with her cat on sofa

Cats are naturally playful creatures, and they don’t have a problem turning basic things like cardboard boxes, paper, and even plastic bottle tops into their own personal toys. So, it makes sense that the simple act of playing with your cat offers an awesome opportunity to bond and strengthen your overall relationship with them. Playing also provides much-needed exercise for indoor kitties to help keep them fit and healthy. Luckily, there is no better way to bond with your cat than playing games and interacting with them.

divider single cat paw oct 2024

How to Bond With Your Cat Through Playtime

1. Utilize Interactive Toys

british-shorthair-kitten-playing-with-puzzle-toy
Image Credit: lowpower225, Shutterstock

Set out a puzzle toy, and take turns with them trying to figure out the puzzle. Create a peek-a-boo game using a cardboard box, or chase an electronic mouse around the house together. Rotate the types of interactive toys that you utilize throughout the week so playtime doesn’t get too boring or lackluster for either of you.


2. Train Them

woman positively training a cat with treats
Image Credit: Andriy Blokhin, Shutterstock

Believe it or not, cats can learn various tricks and tasks, just like dogs can. Spending time working on training with your kitty is a fun and productive way to bond with one another. As long as you plan it carefully and celebrate each small success, training is a fun activity that should feel more like participating in a game for a much-desired price rather than as a boring and difficult lesson. You can teach your cat how to come when called, sit, stay, and even go to a bed when directed to. Training sessions give you an opportunity to provide your feline family members with positive reinforcement and enhance the trust that they have in you.


3. Incorporate Teaser Toys

cat playing with a wand toy
Image Credit: Ekaterina Kolomeets, Shutterstock

Teaser toys are essentially sticks with long strings hanging from them and feathers or stuffed toys attached to the ends of the strings. If your cat is like most, they love getting their paws on these types of toys when a companion is controlling the stick. Many times, all it takes is to swing around a teaser toy to get a cat’s full attention. Spending a few minutes with your cat and a teaser toy each day can go a long way toward deepening your bond.


4. Try a Game of Fetch

Cat playing fetch with ball
Image Credit: sophiecat, Shutterstock

Another fun way to bond with your cat through playtime is to practice fetch. While you shouldn’t expect your kitty to bring a toy back to you like a dog would (though some cats will do so!), there is no doubt that they’ll chase after a toy that you throw if it means they’ll have a chance to “attack” the perceived prey. You can throw anything from a basic toy to a crumpled piece of paper or even an old sock to get a game of fetch going.

divider single cat paw oct 2024

Tips for Making Playtime Fun and Safe for Everyone

Playing with your cat should always be a fun and exciting experience for everyone involved. Therefore, don’t push for playtime if your furry friend is not interested. Any sign of disinterest, irritation, or aggression should put a stop to any gameplay that you’re trying to get your cat interested in.

Here are a few other things to keep in mind:
  • Take Things Slow — If you are dealing with a kitten or older cat, it’s a good idea to take things slow when it comes to playtime. Spend only 2 or 5 minutes at a time playing so things don’t get out of hand, your cat doesn’t become overstimulated or disinterested and overexertion doesn’t become a concern.
  • Don’t Allow Painful Play — It is never a good idea to allow your kitty to play in a way that creates pain for you. Scratching or biting your hands should not be acceptable at any time. Redirect your cat’s attention to more gentle play as necessary until painful play is no longer an issue.
  • Make Playtime Physical — To make sure your cat gets the exercise that they need and will sleep well throughout the night while you’re snoozing, include lots of physical activity during your playtime. Get your cat moving, whether that means running, batting at toys, or jumping up and down on a piece of furniture.

divider single cat paw oct 2024

A Quick Recap

Playtime offers the perfect opportunity to bond with your kitty as time goes on. It doesn’t matter what kind of play you engage in when it comes down to it. Whatever you and your cat like to do together should provide you with the results that you’re looking for overall. Having fun together is the best way to strengthen your relationship.


Featured Image Credit: Dora Zett, Shutterstock

Want content like this delivered to you?

Sign Up For Our Newsletter

News, insights, expert advice, and everything cat

* By submitting, you agree to our Terms & Conditions and Privacy & Cookies Policy.




How useful was this post?

Click on a star to rate (you can leave written feedback after clicking submit)

Help us improve Catster for pet parents!

Your feedback really matters.

What did you like about this post? Also how can we improve it?

Join the conversation

Leave a Reply

You’re very welcome to leave a comment or question. Please know that all comments must meet our community guidelines, and your email address will NOT be published. Let’s have a positive and constructive conversation.


Talk With A Vet Online

Peace of mind,
anywhere, anytime

Affordable vet advice

Why Chicken Bones Are More Dangerous for Cats Than Most Parents Realize

Chicken bones seem harmless enough, but for cats, they can cause serious damage quickly. Whether your cat swiped a piece off the counter...

Fantastic Pet Pantries and Where to Find Them

Let’s face it: times are really tough right now, and those of us in the 99% are struggling with the cost of just...

Ask Dr. Paola – Help! My Cat Refuses to Drink Water! (April 13, 2026)

Welcome to our “Ask Dr. Paola” series, where every Monday we bring expert advice straight from Dr. Paola Cuevas (MVZ) to help our...

Why Healthy Cats Still Vomit Sometimes (And How to Respond)

A cat that just vomited needs a specific kind of care, and the feeding decisions you make in the next few hours actually...

More related

4 Home Remedies for a Spider Bite on Your Cat – Our Expert Guide

Some cats love to investigate anything and everything, which sometimes includes spiders! Spider bites can be serious, so while there are home remedies...

Can Cats Eat Cicadas? Vet-Reviewed Health Concerns

As any cat owner will attest, cats are expert hunters. Their instinct for preying on small, fast-moving objects is baked into their DNA....

Cat Mindfulness: How I Learn Consciousness From My Cat Every Day 

The idea of “mindfulness” means paying attention to what’s happening at the moment. I’m not thinking about the troubles of the past or...

Singapura Cat Breed Info: Pictures, Traits & Facts

Are you looking for a small cat that’s affectionate, playful, intelligent, and unique? If so, the Singapura cat will be an excellent choice....

Keep reading

7-12-Month Old Kitten: What to Expect (Vet-Verified Guide)

Most kittens get adopted before they are six months old, meaning that you get to experience the part of a kitten’s life in which they are 7 to 12 months of age. This is the stage where kittens are self-sufficient...

Australian Mist Kitten

Intestinal Blockage in Cats: Vet Reviewed Signs, Causes & Treatment

If you suspect your cat may have an intestinal blockage, please know that your cat needs emergency treatment ASAP. Knowing the signs of an intestinal blockage is imperative for all pet owners. Puppies and kittens are especially prone to this...

cat recovering from spay surgery

Living In a Multi-Pet Household: Which Pets to Choose & How to Get Along

A multi-pet household is one with multiple pets, but typically refers to pets of different species and not just breeds. Most multi-species households combine cats and dogs because these are the two most common pets, but they can also incorporate...

multiple cats eating from a bowl at home

Vaseline for Cat Hairballs? What Vets Want You to Know First

You’re watching your cat hack up yet another hairball on your carpet when someone suggests Vaseline. Wait, what? That stuff sitting in your bathroom cabinet? It sounds bizarre, maybe even dangerous, but people swear by it for treating hairballs. So...

Can Cats Eat vaseline

9 Best Vitamins for Cats in 2026 – Reviews & Top Picks

Sometimes cats need extra vitamins, just like people do. However, muddling through the vast array of different supplements and health claims online can be a chore. How can you tell that you are getting a safe and effective product? That...

pet owner feeding blue maine coon cat with treats outdoors in garden

Do Munchkin Cats Get Along With Dogs? Vet-Reviewed Answer & Explanation

Affectionately known as the Dachshund of the feline world, the diminutive Munchkin Cat is pure, fur-covered cuteness! Their loveable looks are mirrored by equally loveable personalities and they are known for being amiable felines that fit in comfortably with most...

Dogs and Munchkins Get Along

Can You Be Allergic to Some Cats & Not Others? Vet-Reviewed Facts & FAQ

Cat allergies can be a real bummer, especially if you’re a cat lover hoping to introduce a cat to your home. There are things you can do on your side to minimize the effects of your allergies, like taking medications...

woman with cat allergy

Do Cats Purr When They Are Stressed or Nervous? Vet-Reviewed Facts & FAQ

Almost nothing is more relaxing than having a cat curled up on your lap, purring gently. But have you ever wondered why cats purr? It seems like they purr when they’re happy, but do cats purr when they aren’t so...

cat sleeping on owner's lap

Love Cats? So Do We! Join the Catster Community

Stay informed with expert pet care insights delivered straight to your inbox! Discover professional guidance on animal behavior, feeding tips, trusted product picks, and much more.




Sign up for the Catster Email Newsletter

Stay informed with expert pet care insights delivered straight to your inbox! Discover professional guidance on animal behavior, feeding tips, trusted product picks, and much more.