Get

In Your Inbox

Catster is reader-supported. When you buy via links on our site, we may earn an affiliate commission at no cost to you. Learn more.

Why Do Cats Lift Their Tail When Petted? 4 Vet-Reviewed Reasons

woman owner petting and playing with her cat at home

If you have ever been petting your cat, you may have noticed that they lift their tail or bum in the air. There is a lot of confusion as to why cats do this and what the meaning behind the behavior is.

It is believed that cats will stick their bums and tails in the air as a positive response to being petted by their owners because they simply enjoy it. If you want to learn more about this quirky behavior in cats, then this article has all the answers you need!

divider 3 paws

The 4 Reasons Why Cats Lift Their Tails When You Pet Them

There are several reasons your cat might lift their tail or bum into the air when petted. This can also be referred to as “elevator butt” and it is common for both male and female cats to display if they are being petted in certain areas by their owners.

1. You Remind Your Cat of Being a Kitten

Cats may raise their tails and bum because they picked up this behavior from kittenhood. Over time, your cat will learn to trust you and might even feel as if you are an authority figure in their life, like a protector and provider because you shelter them and provide them with food and water—much like a mother cat would to her kittens.

Mother cats will help to groom the back of their kittens. So, if you are scratching your cat’s back, they most likely picked up the elevated bum and tail habit from when they were kittens.

woman hand petting cat
Image Credit: Christin Hume, Unsplash

2. A Female Cat Is in Heat

Unspayed female cats will go into heat once they reach sexual maturity and are ready to mate. The heat cycle can repeat itself every 2–3 weeks, and during the late stages of heat, they may have behavioral changes from their hormones and are having a sexual response to being petted.

This means that if a female cat is touched along her back, she might elevate her tail and butt for you because this is a natural mating reaction to show a male cat that she is interested.


3. Your Cat Enjoys Being Petted in That Area

Of course, the simplest answer is that your cat genuinely enjoys being petted so much that they are naturally curling their backs and lifting their tails into the air. This can be to encourage you to carry on petting them as their body reacts to the positive feeling of being petted by someone they trust and have formed a bond with.

If you were to scratch your cat under their chin, or on their backs (especially their lower backs) then cats will typically put their butt and tail in the air because they are enjoying the petting and trying to encourage you to pet them more. Some cats will even go as far as lifting their butt and tail near you when they rub against your leg to encourage you to pet them because it feels so nice.


4. You Are Reaching Places That Are Difficult for Your Cat to Groom

Cats are not always able to reach certain areas of their back or head to groom themselves, so by petting them in these areas you are scratching an itch that may have been bothering them.

This also falls into our first theory on the list where mother cats will groom their kittens in places that are difficult for them to reach, so your cat is likely enjoying the feeling of being petted in these areas and is not used to the feeling of relaxation when these areas are being targeted, which causes them to lift their butt and tail in encouragement and enjoyment.

divider 3 paws

Do Cats Enjoy Being Petted?

best places to pet a cat
You are free to use this image but we do require you to link back to Catster.com for credit

Most cats love to be petted, but not all cats will have the same reaction. Some cats only like to be petted in certain spots and may meow and shy away from being petted in other areas like their stomach, which is a vulnerable place for cats to be touched.

The area your cat likes to be petted will depend on what feels good for your specific cat and does not have much to do with their breed or age. Some cats prefer to only be petted on their heads, typically under their chin, along with their chests, or on the top of their head or behind their head, whereas other cats will enjoy being petted along their backs.

Very few cats would like to be petted along their belly, even if they do roll onto their backs, giving you access to their stomach. A cat that is lifting their bum and tail into the air can be encouraging you to pet them, but it can differ depending on your cat’s personality and petting preferences.

Why Do Some Cats Not Like Their Backs to Be Touched?

When getting a new cat or kitten, it is important to gently figure out what areas they like to be petted so that you can help them associate being petted with something positive and rewarding.

If your cat is having a negative reaction to being petted in a certain area, it is best to leave this area alone and not pet it again because it can irritate some cats. If you have guests over who would like to pet your cat, you can explain to them how your cat likes to be petted to encourage your cat to be more comfortable with the feeling of being petted in the right places.

Most cats would like to be scratched along their backs, which is most likely to encourage the butt and tail lifting behavior. A cat that is shaking their head, meowing, or trying to escape being petted is not enjoying how you are touching them, so it is always important to pay attention to your cat’s reaction. That way, you will know what they like and do not like when it comes to being petted by their owners and other people who want to pet your feline.

divider 3 paws

Final Thoughts

Now that you have discovered the meaning behind cats that elevate their butt and tail into the air from being petted, you can try to watch closely to see which areas you can pet them to encourage them to display this behavior, as lifting their butt and tail is usually a good indication that your cat is enjoying the petting. If you are perhaps curious if your female cat is only displaying this behavior as a response to being in heat, you can try tracking their heat cycle to see if they only go into this position because of the late stages in their estrus cycle.

However, both male and female cats are known to lift their bum and tail in the air when being petted, so it is not limited to only one sex. Overall, it seems that cats will lift either their bum or tail in the air (sometimes at the same time) because they simply enjoy being petted.

Related Reads:


Featured Image Credit: Stokkete, Shutterstock

Want content like this delivered to you?

Sign Up For Our Newsletter

News, insights, expert advice, and everything cat

* By submitting, you agree to our Terms & Conditions and Privacy & Cookies Policy.

How useful was this post?

Click on a star to rate (you can leave written feedback after clicking submit)

Help us improve Catster for pet parents!

Your feedback really matters.

What did you like about this post? Also how can we improve it?

Join the conversation

Leave a Reply

You’re very welcome to leave a comment or question. Please know that all comments must meet our community guidelines, and your email address will NOT be published. Let’s have a positive and constructive conversation.

Talk With A Vet Online

Peace of mind,
anywhere, anytime

Affordable vet advice

Rectal Polyps in Cats: Our Vet Explains the Causes, Signs & Treatments

If your cat is straining to pass feces, or you’ve noticed some blood in their poop, there are several possible reasons this could...

Can a Cat Smell Cancer? Facts & Surprising Stories (Vet-Reviewed)

Most days when you turn on the news, you’ll hear an amazing animal story. Whether it’s about a hero police K9, a dog...

10 DIY No Sew Cat Beds To Create at Home: Vet-Approved (With Pictures)

Do you have a feline friend who loves to curl up in a warm, soft place? If so, you may be looking for...

9 Best Holistic Cat Foods in 2025 – Reviews & Top Picks

If you went back in time 50 years, you’d be shocked by the limited cat food options available on the market. Many people...

More related

Sentry Calming Collar for Cats Review 2025: Pros, Cons & FAQ

Review Summary The Sentry Calming Collar for cats works under the premise of cat pheromone science. Simply put, mother cats produce a pheromone...

Has Your Cat Imprinted on You? 15 Signs to Look For

Imprinting is a term that is usually used to describe when a young animal accepts another animal, person or object as its parent...

Catster Photo Contest: Cats of the Week Winners (July 17, 2025)

Every week our team gets the privilege of sorting through our readers photos to choose what cats will win this weeks contest! See...

How to Cool Down a Cat: 9 Vet-Approved Tips

When the hot weather rolls around, it is imperative to know how to look after your cat. All felines, just like humans, can...

Keep reading

How to Tell if Your Cat Is Underweight: Vet-Reviewed Signs to Look For

Feeding your cat a healthy diet that will ensure they stay at an appropriate weight is crucial. However, you might be doing exactly that, but your cat is still shedding the pounds. If you suspect your cat is losing weight...

Skinny cat

Can Cats Eat Clover? Common Herbs Examined

Cats are curious creatures and love to paw and nibble at plants. Clover plants are among the many plants that are poisonous to your feline. They are sometimes called shamrock, the good luck plant, or sorrel. The bitter taste of...

Can Cats Eat Clover

Why Is My Cat Drooling Thick Saliva? 12 Vet-Reviewed Reasons & Treatment

Cats are fascinating creatures, often leaving us in awe with their peculiar habits and quirky behaviors. However, as a cat owner, you might be alarmed to see thick saliva dripping from your feline’s mouth, making you wonder if it’s a...

Orange cat drooling

Kitten Teething: Vet Reviewed Signs, Timeline & FAQs

A kitten’s first few months are full of milestones. They go from tiny balls of fur with closed eyes to playful kittens who are weaned and ready for their new homes. One step all kittens go through is teething. Below,...

a kitten lying on the floor

7 Best Cat Foods for Pancreatitis in 2025 – Reviews & Top Picks

Feline pancreatitis is one of the most troublesome cat diseases. This condition is not only difficult to diagnose but also tends to be resistant to treatment. Cats are good at hiding illness, meaning you might not know that your kitty...

Cat hungrily eats dry food

Why Do Cats Lay in the Sun When It’s Hot & Why They Should Stick to the Shade: Vet-Verified Facts

If your cat is like most, they probably take every chance they can get to snooze in the sun. You might be thinking that your cat sunbakes to get their vitamin D but, unlike people, they actually are unable to...

cat on the beach

Do Cats Need Water Fountains? Vet-Approved Benefits & FAQ

All cat owners tend to want the best for their feline friends. You may have noticed that your cat is finicky about their water and may even prefer to drink from the faucet or a running source rather than a...

cat drinking water from fountain

Is Sandalwood Incense Safe for Cats? Vet-Verified Facts and Safety Guide

Sandalwood incense is a common way for people to freshen up their homes and keep their living areas smelling nice. However, it isn’t safe to use around cats. Sandalwood essential oil is known to be toxic to cats, and the...

Catster_Is Sandalwood Incense Safe for Cats