You looking so happy!
I once thought about giving my cat Daisy a calming collar that I found at the PetSmart. It is supposed to help cats get used to other cats and "calming down" obviously because it releases some kind of fume or something that makes the wearer have a calming feeling that they had with their mothers that they remember all their lives. Cool huh?
oooh Indy had one of those ones-it's covered in powder and he ended up soaking wet because he was trying to lick it off himself because it flaked all on his fur. no bueno! the phermone idea is awesome! but that stuff was just like lavendar scented powder!