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Why Does My Cat Take My Spot? 5 Vet-Verified Reasons

Scottish Shorthair cat lying on a velvet couch

When you became a cat parent, you probably didn’t expect to regularly give up your comfortable seat. Many cats have a knack for stealing our seats, whether it is the hard dining chair or couch. Getting up from your seat can seem like a race against time to get what you need and get back before your cat notices. However, our cats always seem to be waiting for the perfect opportunity to take it.

As adorable yet frustrating as this might be, why exactly do cats do it? This article has the answers for you.

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The 5 Reasons Why Cats Take Your Seat

1. It Is Warm

Cats love to relax or nap in warm areas of the home. This is why you often find them lounging in sunny spots near windows or fireplaces. A chilly morning is enough to make a cat seek out a heat source, and the seat you were just sitting on can seem perfect to them.

We naturally give off body heat that can remain on our seats for a few moments once we get up. Cats are well aware of this and your absence from the seat is their chance to bask in the warmth you left. In a way, you are like a personal seat warmer for your cat.

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Image Credit: Sarah Fields Photography, Shutterstock

2. Your Scent

Once a cat trusts you, your scent becomes important to them. They begin to associate your scent with familiarity and safety, so leaving it behind on your seat is going to draw them to it. Cats want to feel safe when choosing a suitable place for them to rest or sleep—the warmth and familiar scent from your seat offer just that.


3. To Claim Their Territory

Cats are naturally territorial animals and scent has a major role in their communication. They have scent glands in various parts of their bodies, such as their paws, face, and base of the tail. These scent glands produce pheromones used for social communication. Cats typically mark their territory to feel safer and claim it as their own. Their scent gets left behind on the seat and communicates to other cats that it is now “their spot”. They were likely interested in claiming your seat because it smells familiar and feels safe.


4. To Get Your Attention

When a cat wants our attention, they will come up with unique ways to get it. This could explain why they take your seat when they want something, as they know it can get our attention. Your cat might not be communicating that they want to be petted, but also communicating a specific want or need.

For example, if you have been occupied at your work desk and haven’t been paying much attention to your cat, they might steal your seat when you get up. They could have learned that by stealing your seat, you will finally give them attention and understand what they want.

You might want to consider this reason if your cat only steals your seat at a specific time, such as feeding or playtime.

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Image Credit: Jaromir Chalabala, Shutterstock

5. Better View

Cats instinctively want to be high up to get a better view of what’s going on around them. It makes them feel safer and allows them to be more observant. It’s unusual for many cats to rest on the ground, as higher areas of the home seem more appealing to them.

We usually sit on chairs or couches that are elevated above the floor, which your cat naturally finds comfortable to rest on. Elevated things in our homes are not just comfortable for cats to sleep on, but to sit and groom on too.

Cats might be drawn to heights because it makes them feel less vulnerable to predators on the ground. Being higher up gives them an advantage in spotting potential predators or observing prey from below.

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In Conclusion

Cats may take our seats for several reasons. It is usually a combination of the reasons mentioned in this article. Our seats feel warm, familiar, and safe for cats, so it seems like a great place for them to relax. They likely choose to take your seat because you left behind a familiar scent and warmth that your cat is drawn to.

Unless you are bothered by this behavior, it generally isn’t a cause for concern. However, it is worth considering a better place for your cat’s bed if they prefer your seat over it.


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