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Rufus - In Loving Memory 12/17

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Home:Boston, MA  [I have a diary!]  
Age: 14 Years   Sex: Male

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Momma always loved my pink toe

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"Momma always loved my pink toe"

Our first Christmas . . .

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"Little Kitten Foo-Foo"

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When Briana was a kitten and we lived in Tennessee

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"When Briana was a kitten and we lived in Tennessee"

We love you, Patrick

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Thank you, Wally and Sydney Rose for the beautiful tribute picture.

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Foo, Furus, Foofernutter, Little Bunny Foo Foo, Tubbles, Chunky Monkey, Fat Boy Slim, Rufasa, Fuzz Butt, Mwarky Mwark and the Chunky Bunch, Hamlet, Honey Bunny, Stinky McStinkbutt

Kitty Complexion:
sleepyvery active
not curiousvery curious
not vocalvery vocal

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Quick Bio:
-cat rescue

Gray Tabby


taking his medicines

Favorite Toy:
doesn't have one since Westpaw changed its catnip formula

Favorite Nap Spot:
my bed, cat tree, cat bed, kitchen table, "his" recliner

Favorite Food:
Fancy Feast Turkey and Giblets, Wellness turkey & salmon, Solid Gold Tuna Blend



Arrival Story:
After we lost Winkie to vaccine-associated sarcoma, we wanted to adopt 2 kittens so they could keep each other company. We went to a foster home to look at the kittens available. We took one look at the pretty boy and said "yes" immediately. The foster mother called him "Agate" because one of his markings looks like the stone, but we had already decided to name one of the kittens Rufus in honor of Winkie. We also decided to take his brother who was almost all white. Unfortunately, before they were old enough to be brought home, his brother (who we were calling Yeti) became jaundiced and was PTS.

In July of 2005, Rufus was diagnosed with GI lymphoma. We have been treating it with chemotherapy. In Spring of 2007, Rufus came out of remission. We are treating him with stronger chemotherapy drugs and still hoping for the best. UPDATE: In November 2007, Rufus started having hind leg weakness and constipation. The vets believe it may be a side effect of the Vincristine (one of his cancer medicines) so we have stopped giving it to him. His symptoms may go away with time. On December 2, Rufus went to the emergency room because he was experiencing pain/discomfort and wasn't eating much. UPDATE: On Friday, December 14, 2007 Rufus was diagnosed with FIP. On Saturday, his oncologist removed 200 CCs of yellow fluid from his abdomen and gave him a different chemo drug. Rufus rallied briefly, but by Sunday, had fallen ill again and was having difficulty breathing. He was able to con the ER vet into sending him home. On Monday, December 17, 2007 his condition grew worse. His onologist and regular vet both had the day off. Momma and Rufus spent the entire day together and finally around 4:30, Rufus let Momma know it was time. A different ER vet determined that Rufus was jaundiced and probably in liver failure. Momma kissed Rufus and told him how much she loved him. She told him about all of his angel friends who would be waiting for him at the Bridge. Then she held him to her heart as the ER vet helped him peacefully cross.

Lives Remaining:
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Sweet Angel

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I was Featured Diary of the Day 12/07/07:

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I've Been On Catster Since:
July 1st 2006 More than 10 years!

Special Gifts Given In The Past Month:
Sally Maria (Mama's Angel)
Bedelia (Angel 10/20/11)
Bedelia (Angel 10/20/11)

Rosette, Star and Special Gift History

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for 3380 days

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Cats Rule the Internet

August 7th 2016 11:00 am
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We've been busy trying to save what we can of Catster by archiving it using the Wayback Machine from the Internet Archive.

This week, Entrepreneur published an article online called "Why the Internet Needs the WayBack Machine, the Site That Archives the Web" earstNewspapers&utm_medium=related&utm_campaign=syndication

You can read the whole article, but the part I want to point out is question 5: "What does this service tell us about how the internet has changed?" The answer: "People love to share and people love to learn, and people love cats."

Catster has all of this and more, so why is Lumina Media shutting us down? Doesn't seem like good business sense to me.


My Heart Will Go On

July 17th 2016 2:11 am
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10 years. It’s been 10 years since I joined Catster on July 1, 2006.

I had been looking for an online support group because Rufus had feline lymphoma. When I stumbled across Catster and found all of these people posting in their cats’ voices, from their cats’ point of view, I thought they must all be crazy! But as I read on, I knew I could do the same for Rufus, and that’s when I realized, they were my kind of crazy.

10 years of ups and downs, good times and sad times, but never bad times as long as we had each other. Now all of it is coming to an end. Briana has joined the Here Kitty forum and Pets4Pals, but we all know it’s not the same. She’s made 18, but is on the last of her 9 lives. I know you understand what a difference a friendly ear and a few words of encouragement can make at a time like this. I will miss having that from my Catster friends.

Remember when our furkids went to the Rainbow Bridge, we said they became Angels and went on to “live their 10th life” on Catster? Well, I feel like Rufus and Bob are dying again. There will be no “11th life” for them on another site. How could there be? So many years of memories, both treasured and all-but-forgotten, going, going. . . gone?

I’m saving what I can on the Internet Archive - pages of diaries, extra special diary entries with posted comments (remember those?), some of our friends’ pages, but it’s not nearly enough. What about forum and group threads? Rosettes, gifts, and stars? We were promised Forever Stars!

In closing, I’d like to thank the countless people and cats who touched my life on Catster over the years. After Rufus died, the song I chose to have on his page (back when we could still do that) was Celine Dion’s My Heart Will Go On:

“Love can touch us one time
And last for a lifetime
And never let go ‘til we’re gone.”

Love is Forever,


No more Catster

July 6th 2016 10:52 am
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I don't know if everyone saw the email - Momma's went to her Gmail "promotions" folder, so we never would have seen it if Tommy's Momma hadn't told us about it.

The email says the community is shutting down on July 12, but the online post says July 18. Neither one is enough time though, is it?

July marks our 10 year anniversary on Catster. So sad to see it go.

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