Six Simple Rules That Stop Begging

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Shadow was a young adult cat when she was rescued by her human, Nikki, from a trailer park where stray and feral cats gathered. Since kittenhood, Shadow lived in the park, scrounging for scraps from dumpsters and begging residents for food.

Once she was brought inside, Shadow had all the food she wanted, but she remained food obsessed due to previous lack of resources. One time, as Nikki was eating chicken, Shadow literally took the chicken out of Nikki’s mouth!

Six-month-old Deckster was found on my porch a few months ago, and he did not look as if he missed any meals. What did become apparent was his lack of indoor social skills, including the fact that it’s downright rude to step onto his human’s dinner plate to sneak a taste.

Break the begging pattern

Non-medically related food obsession in cats is often caused by an experience with limited food sources while living outside or a lack of social training. But this isn’t the only reason some cats beg. No matter the reason, food obsession and begging for and/or stealing food can be stopped by following these simple rules.

1. Clear your counter

Any food left out on the counter is fair game, and you may find a cat has taken a bite out of it. I have a friend who made a batch of muffins, left them on the counter to cool and later found a bite mark on each and every muffin.

2. Feed the cats first

Feed your cats just before you sit down to eat. Even if it’s just a few treats, giving them something to eat should distract them from your dinner plate. If they are busy with their own goodies, they’ll be less interested in what you have.

3. Refrain from plate feeding

Speaking of what’s on your plate, feeding your cats from your dinner plate is a recipe for disaster. Cats will keep begging if fed from your plate, because a payoff was received in a yummy treat. The begging will be much harder to control once your cats get you into this bad habit.

4. Ignore the behavior

For relentless cats who keep trying to eat your food, gently put them down on the floor without making eye contact or even saying a word. You may have to repeat this step many times in a row as they pop back up like a jack-in-the-box, but eventually no payoff equals no begging. Cats don’t repeat behaviors for which there is no reward.

5. Put cats in another room

When all else fails, put your cats in another room at your mealtime. Give them a few treats and some self-play toys, and let them be out of sight during your mealtimes. Then, start counter conditioning to take the allure away from your dinner plate.

6. Counter conditioning

Stop your cat’s begging habit by taking away the power of your own food routines. For example, if you like to snack at night, and your cats want what’s in that potato chip bowl, get them used to seeing the bowl empty while you watch TV. Soon the bowl will mean nothing to your cats, and you’ll be able to fill it with your own treats without finding a cat nose in it. Give your cats a snack as you sit down with your potato chips — after all, everyone likes to snack while they watch television.

Banish boredom

Anxiety and boredom may also cause a cat to become food obsessed. Give your cat both playtime and snuggle time every day. Providing self-play toys, cat trees, window perches and other interesting things to do whenever they are home alone will help alleviate boredom and discourage food obsession.

Follow these steps, and your mealtimes will become peaceful instead of a battleground with your feline family members.

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Rule out medical conditions

If your cat seems unnaturally hungry all the time, a visit with your veterinarian is in order, especially if the cat is losing weight. The following conditions can cause cats to act constantly ravenous:

✤ Diabetes

✤ Thyroid disease

✤ Parasites

Conditions like pica and psychogenic eating disorder might trigger aggression around food, with both humans and other cats. Only your veterinarian can diagnose and treat these diseases.

2 thoughts on “Six Simple Rules That Stop Begging”

  1. i play with my cat by throwing springs which she runs to get. Maybe 10 minutes a day. she continues to beg to play. I enjoy it for a 10 minutes. Can I stop her from begging to play too much of the time. also she will not sleep in my bed with me,,,andy suggestions.

  2. I have a couple of rules for my cats. First, they are never, and I mean never, allowed on the counters or the table. They learn this from the moment they come into my house. Second, they never eat people food, whether from the table, the plate, or in their own dish. They don't know what it is, and I keep it that way. They're very happy when it's dinnertime for them, same time every day, and enjoy their cat food dinner. Result? Happy cats and happy humans.

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