Get

In Your Inbox

Catster is reader-supported. When you buy via links on our site, we may earn an affiliate commission at no cost to you. Learn more.

How to Play With a Cat at Every Age: Vet-Reviewed Guide

Share

woman playing with her cat

Playing with your cat is a fun way to strengthen your bond and help your kitty become a healthier version of themselves. Some people think that all cats play the same regardless of age, but the truth is that kittens will play much differently than juniors, which will play much differently than adults, which require much different play sessions than their senior counterparts.

If you’re not sure what type of play your cat needs, we can help! Keep reading to learn what to expect from your kitty regarding play during each life stage and to find out what types of play sessions or equipment they need most from you.

divider 1 paws

Why Is Play Important?

Almost 80% of mammals show different expressions of play throughout their lives1, so it shouldn’t be surprising that our cats also require play to stay happy and healthy.

Play is important for cats because it:
  • Provides much-needed exercise
  • Improves mental health
  • Lessens anxiety
  • Reduces destructive behaviors
  • Stimulates their natural instincts
  • Promotes socialization
  • Strengthens your bond

If you’re not actively playing with your cat and just providing them with toys they can play with on their own, you’re doing them a huge disservice.

divider 3 paws

How to Play With Your Cat in Every Stage

1. Kittens (Birth to 6 months)

The first few months of your kitten’s life are all about playing and having fun. Before you bring your new pet home, they’ll have had several weeks of playing with their siblings and mom under their belt. They’ll probably be pretty used to roughhousing and tumble play, and depending on the humans who were raising them, they may or may not have yet learned to control their bite and claws. That’s something to keep in mind when you play, as those claws are sharp and can do much damage.

Kittens explore their world through the instincts they’ve been passed down from their wild ancestors. Their play is all about stalking, pouncing, chasing, and wrestling with their siblings at this age. If you have other cats in your home, chances are they’ll transfer this type of play to the other pets in the house. If they are a solo pet, the stalking, batting, grasping, biting, and pouncing behaviors may be transferred to you and toward objects in your home. If your other pets are not receptive to such roughhousing, get your kitten’s attention with one of their toys and distract them away from the resident pet. Eventually, they’ll learn that playing with you and their toys is more fun than bugging their fur siblings.

persian kitten playing feather toy with owner
Image Credit by: ANURAK PONGPATIMET, Shutterstock

It’s best not to encourage them to play with your hands and feet, as it can be hard to out-train such behaviors. Instead, let them play with balls, toy mice, and wand toys to allow them to express their natural instincts. If your kitten has taken a liking to your limbs, redirect their focus by remaining still and quiet until they stop playing with them. This will eventually teach them that your limbs are boring. Once they don’t appear interested in your hands or feet, refocus their attention on a suitable kitten toy and be sure to offer lots of praise so they associate the toy with positive attention.

It’s normal and essential for cats of all ages to scratch, so provide your kitten with a sisal-covered cat tree or scratching post to allow them to participate in this natural behavior. Not only will scratching opportunities keep your kitty happy and healthy, but they’ll also keep your furniture and walls scratch-free.

Your kitty will have an infinite curiosity, so you must keep a close eye on them, especially when introducing new toys. They’ll explore the world with their whole body, putting just about anything they can get their paws on in their mouths.


2. Juniors (7 months to 2 years)

Kittens can be quite a handful, so if your new pet’s energy level was more than you bargained for in those first few months, know that most kittens will calm down with age. They typically begin to slow down around 9 to 14 months, but of course, that’s not true for every kitty.

Junior cats are a lot like adolescent and teenage children. They’ll push boundaries (and your buttons) and need to learn through consequences. Just like bored children, cats in this life stage can become frustrated and resort to “bad” behaviors if not given enough enrichment or opportunity for play.

Outdoor access is a great way to provide your junior kitty with mental and physical stimulation and freedom. However, we do not recommend allowing them unrestricted outdoor access. Instead, invest in or build an enclosed space such as a catio to give them the benefit of outside time without putting them at risk.

Cats in this life stage will still be interested in inter-cat interactions and social play. You must continue to provide training to ensure your kitty grows to be a well-rounded and well-behaved pet.

ragdoll kitten playing with feather toy with owner
Image Credit: Tatyana Vyc, Shutterstock

3. Adults (3 to 6 years)

Adult cats typically thrive in a routine. They like to have their meals, naps, and playtime at the same time. They’ll have a preferred eating spot and resting place and take much comfort from having a routine. Even though they’re “adults,” they still thrive on play time, so make sure you’re setting aside time daily to play with them.

Cats in this age group are particularly prone to packing on the pounds, so it’s even more important that you’re exercising them to prevent obesity and its related conditions. You may consider teaching them tricks such as retrieving toys to increase their activity. Additionally, interactive play is a fantastic weight management strategy for your kitty, so choose toys and games that’ll get both of you moving. Wand toys are great for mimicking birds and rodents. Spring toys are great because their sometimes unpredictable movements also mimic prey. Throw toys are fun to chase.

Our Favorite Cat Toys Right Now

Here are a some of our favorite toys, each catering to a variety of senses and play preferences. Which one will your feline fancy? 

Image Product Details
Hepper Catnip Mice Toy Set Hepper Catnip Mice Toy Set
  • Contains catnip
  • Kitten safe
  • Encourages self-play
  • Hepper Furball Set Hepper Furball Set
  • Set
  • Added bells
  • Satisfies prey instinct
  • At Catster, we've admired Hepper for many years, and decided to take a controlling ownership interest so that we could benefit from the outstanding designs of this cool cat company!


    4. Mature Cats (7 to 10 years)

    It’s hard for some cat owners to come to terms with the fact that they’re considered “mature” when they reach age 7. But just because they’re mature doesn’t mean you need to make huge adjustments to your play sessions. They’re still agile enough to play, though you may notice them slowing down a bit at this age.

    Like their adult counterparts, sedentary mature cats are prone to put on excess weight, so this is not the time to stop play sessions entirely. Catnip is a great tool for encouraging even the laziest mature kitty into playing. Puzzle feeders are also a good way to challenge their minds and body while ensuring that they slow down during meal times.

    Mature cats sometimes need more motivation to play, so you may want to invest in some new toys to keep them interested in being active. You know your cat best, so make sure you’re using toys that cater to their likes. For example, if your kitty liked playing with springs when they were younger, you might consider a similar toy with unpredictable patterns, like an electronic mouse.

    tortoiseshell maine coon cat playing with puzzle feeder toy
    Image Credit: Maximilian100, Shutterstock

    5. Seniors (11 to 14 years)

    Senior cats can sometimes have a “been there, done that” mentality and often prefer a sense of quiet and calm to their routine. They may spend a good portion of their day sleeping, but that doesn’t mean they won’t want to play if given a chance. You will need to adapt the style of play to their aging bodies, however. For example, if they’re still interested in playing with wand toys, use the toy on the floor and not in the air so they don’t have to jump. Cats in this life stage may have sore joints or arthritis, so it’s best to keep them grounded if possible.

    Seniors may need a little encouragement via catnip to reignite their energy and playful fire. Although they may be aging, that doesn’t mean that their minds are. Puzzle food toys are still great to include in your senior cat’s life to encourage mental and physical stimulation.

    You don’t need to buy fancy new electronic toys for your senior kitty. At this point in their lives, you probably know better than anyone how often cats will choose a good box or paper bag over a $50 toy you found in an online shop. There’s no need to reinvent the wheel now; opt for your kitty’s usual go-to toys or games to keep them happy and exercised.


    6. Senior Cats (15 years+)

    While it was once uncommon to see cats living 15+ years, more and more cats are living well into their senior years now than ever before. However, at this life stage, they’re more than likely suffering from some degree of joint pain, so their activity levels will diminish further. They may sleep more and show less interest in the world around them. They may not be able to see or hear as well as they used to, so they may not even show up at meal times without your persuasion.

    Taking all of this into account, you shouldn’t be surprised if your kitty shows low to zero interest in playtime. They probably won’t initiate play at all, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t at least try to be the spark that lights their fire. Regular play can promote muscle tone, increase blood circulation, and be a huge mood booster, so it’s worth trying.

    Use soft and gentle toys and play at their speed. They probably won’t be darting across the room to chase a ball like they did in their younger years, but they may show interest in small movements close to their paws. Try using a wand toy but keep them close by so your cat can play if they choose to without getting up. Again, catnip toys may be worth considering if your kitty has a good track record with them.

    divider 1 paws

    Final Thoughts

    Play is an absolute non-negotiable for cats. They need it to maintain a healthy weight, banish boredom, and stay stimulated and enriched. The type and duration of play your kitty needs will depend on their life stage and health status. Much like humans, younger cats seem to have an infinite source of energy and will require many opportunities for play throughout their day, while their senior counterparts will spend more time sleeping and only play if the opportunity presents itself conveniently nearby.


    Featured Image Credit: Kmpzzz, Shutterstock

    Want content like this delivered to you?

    Sign Up For Our Newsletter

    News, insights, expert advice, and everything cat

    * By submitting, you agree to our Terms & Conditions and Privacy & Cookies Policy.




    How useful was this post?

    Click on a star to rate (you can leave written feedback after clicking submit)

    Help us improve Catster for pet parents!

    Your feedback really matters.

    What did you like about this post? Also how can we improve it?

    Join the conversation

    4 Responses

    1. Happy new year!
      So glad I found you and I look forward to reading all about other cat owners' cats. I have 2 two Tuxedo 5 year old brother and sisters. The female's tail is 14 inches long, BTW.

      1. Happy New Year, Rebecca! And welcome to your community. Please consider sending us good quality pics of your Tuxedos for our Cat of the Week contest: https://www.catster.com/submit-your-cat/ 🙂

    2. Great article. Once I began reading, I knew that, although my cat is 12 or 13 (adopted) he still needs exercise and motivational toys and games from me. Thank you! P.S. His name is Oliver and I adopted him 7 years ago at Angell Memorial in Boston, MA. LOVE him !

      1. Hi Judith A Mirliani. We are glad you found our post informative. Thanks for your kind comment and for adopting and loving Oliver.

    Leave a Reply

    You’re very welcome to leave a comment or question. Please know that all comments must meet our community guidelines, and your email address will NOT be published. Let’s have a positive and constructive conversation.


    Catster's Digital Magazine is Back!

    Vet-approved health & behavior advice

    Real cat stories & community features

    When a Cat Becomes a Water Fountain – Why Cats Vomit After Drinking

    Seeing a cat drink water and then promptly bring it back up can be confusing. Sometimes the explanation is fairly simple, particularly if...

    Chatting About Sleeping Positions, Loafing & Cats in Tubes | Chatty Cattys, Episode 33

    In this episode of Catster’s Chatty Cattys podcast, Dr. Karyn and Nicole dive deep into the fascinating world of feline sleep behaviors. From...

    The Bite Stuff: The Truth Behind a Cat’s Sudden Nip

    A cat bite that seems to come out of nowhere is one of the more confusing things a cat owner deals with. Everything...

    Your Cat’s Purr Proves They’re One of a Kind

    There are few sounds more comforting to a cat parent than the familiar rumble of a purring cat. You probably know your own...

    More related

    9 Best Cat-Proof Trash Cans in 2026 – Reviews & Top Picks

    We all adore our cats, but we don’t always adore their behavior. Kitty curiosity can lead to many a perilous situation, including your...

    5 Best Corner Cat Scratchers in 2026 – Reviews & Top Picks

    For our cats, scratching is an instinctive behavior. While it might be irritating to notice a few claw marks on the side of...

    7-12-Month Old Kitten: What to Expect (Vet-Verified Guide)

    Most kittens get adopted before they are six months old, meaning that you get to experience the part of a kitten’s life in...

    Can Cats Eat Pecans? Vet-Approved Facts & FAQ

    Cat owners around the world know that they must be careful about where they leave food lying around. Felines can jump up onto...

    Keep reading

    How Many Hours a Day Do Cats Groom? Vet-Reviewed Behavior Explained

    Imagine spending half of your waking hours in the shower every single day. While that might seem exceedingly boring and tedious to us, cats spend approximately 2–5 hours grooming themselves every day, which is between 30% and 50% of their...

    bengal cat grooming itself

    How Do Cats Cool Down? Vet-Reviewed Methods & Signs of Overheating

    Like most mammals, when the weather gets hot, cats use different methods to stay cool. That’s especially true for cats with thick coats of fur, but any cat can overheat and need to cool down if the situation gets too...

    tabby cat licking her paw

    Why Does My Cat Sit By the Door? 5 Vet-Verified Reasons

    To many cat owners, it may seem as if their beloved kitties intentionally and precisely plan their actions to confuse us! Many of our cats’ behaviors are obvious and easily understood, but there are still more that we may never...

    cat-meowing-or-trilling-by-the-door

    Is Waterless Shampoo Safe for Cats? Vet-Approved Benefits & Tips

    Not many owners manage to give their cat a bath and walk about without any damage! Most cats loathe water, avoiding it at all costs. If you are one of the few with a mythical cat that tolerates—or even enjoys—a...

    Catster_Is Waterless Shampoo Safe for Cats

    Can Cats Get Jealous? How to Handle Cat Rivalry (Vet-Approved)

    People tend to think of their pets as members of the family, interpreting their behavior and personality the same way that one would with another person in the household. We give our pets human-like traits by pairing a certain emotion...

    two cats drinking milk from the same bowl

    Is Eucalyptus Poisonous to Cats? Vet-Verified Facts, Risks & Safety Tips

    Eucalyptus is poisonous to cats in high amounts. When it is concentrated into an oil, it is especially toxic. You should not defuse it if you own a cat, as the oils can be toxic when your cat inhales them....

    eucalyptus

    How to Restrain a Cat for Nail Clipping: Vet-Approved Safety Tips

    Whether you already know it or not, cats scratching things is an instinctive behavior. While their claws provide defense, they also allow cats to communicate with other felines in the area with visual and olfactory signals. That’s not an issue...

    trimming nails of cat

    10 Surprising Facts About Cat Ears: Vet-Approved Guide

    Cats can be funny pets that do things that leave us feeling puzzled or amazed. As more research is being done on cats, experts are finding fascinating discoveries about cat anatomy that help explain their behavior and mannerisms. Cat ears...

    A man's hand scratches a fluffy cat behind the ear

    Love Cats? So Do We! Join the Catster Community

    Stay informed with expert pet care insights delivered straight to your inbox! Discover professional guidance on animal behavior, feeding tips, trusted product picks, and much more.




    Sign up for the Catster Email Newsletter

    Stay informed with expert pet care insights delivered straight to your inbox! Discover professional guidance on animal behavior, feeding tips, trusted product picks, and much more.