Get

In Your Inbox

Catster is reader-supported. When you buy via links on our site, we may earn an affiliate commission at no cost to you. Learn more.

How to Teach Your Cat to High Five: The Step-By-Step Guide

bengal cat gives a high-five paw to the owner

Looking to teach your cat how to high-five? Wondering exactly how to do it or if your cat is even able to perform such a cool trick? Well, you’ve come to the right place. The truth is that like dogs, cats can be trained to perform certain tricks or respond to behavioral commands.

And training is simpler than you may think. With a little bit of positive reinforcement and consistency, you can teach your cat to high-five in a matter of weeks. In this article, we’re going to teach you how to do a high five as well as what not to do.

divider single cat paw oct 2024

Pre-Training Tips

Before you start training your cat, it’s important to note that the process of training your cat should be a fun interaction between you and your feline. So, before you start the training process, be sure that you create the right environment and present the training in a way that’s enjoyable for the cat.

It’s common for cats to be a bit apprehensive in some cases, though this may vary with each cat. But overall, both of you should have fun. So, how do you make it exciting? You do this by using what are referred to as ” reinforcers”. This is sometimes easier if understood as a  “reward” or “pay: that a cat will receive when they perform as expected.

Most Common Reinforcers will usually fall into three categories:
  • Interactions, such as reaffirming talking, petting, and brushing
  • Toys, such as toy wands, balls, fuzzy mice, etc.
  • Food, rewards such as deli meat, cat treats, and mazes with hidden treats

Once your cat is trained to perform a specific command, consider mixing up your reward system so that your cat can learn that performing certain actions will result in something positive.

tabby white british shorthair cat raising paw reaching for treat hold by human hand feeding cat
Image Credit: Nils Jacobi, Shutterstock

Establish Your “Markers”

Training markers or sounds that you establish to immediately let your cat know that it has performed a specific behavior correctly. For example, this can include the use of a clicker, hand claps, or simply saying “Yes” in an excited tone and then offering your cat a treat.

Choose the Best Times to Train

Cats can be finicky, so they won’t always be as open to training as dogs may be. One of the best things that you can do when training your cat is to choose the appropriate time to perform the training. This is usually when the cat’s in a good mood.

So, for example, if your cat hates baths, it’s best not to try to initiate a training session right after bath time. Consider training your cat after mealtime or when the cat is playing with toys and in an excited mood.

divider cat faces 2 oct 2024

The 4 Steps to Train Your Cat to High-Five

cat sits on the table and gives her owner a high five paw
Image Credit: rossiaa33, Shutterstock

1. Show Your Hand

Like humans and dogs, cats use their paws to explore the world. To start things off, touch your cat’s paw with your hand, say “yes” and then offer them a treat. After a few repetitions, place your hand “just out of reach”. Your cat will instinctively try to reach your hand, as long as it’s not too far.


2. Wait

Stand there for a few seconds with your palm reached out and simply wait for your cat to touch it. Keep in mind that you may need to do this a few times before your cat reacts–but patience is key.


3. Use A Marker

As soon as your cat taps your hand, even slightly, use your marker. This will immediately let your cat know that it’s performed a good job. Immediately after, offer your cat a reward, such as a head rub or a treat. Remember, the reinforcers will help your cat associate this activity with “good” things.


4. Move The Hand Up

Once your cat is consistently touching your hand you can start to gradually move your hand slightly up, continuing to move the hand until it is at the desired height. Most chose right above the cat’s head as the final height.


5. Remember That Repetition Is Important, but Quit While You Are Ahead

A huge mistake many novel trainers make is abusing the session. Cats have a short attention span and it is ideal to finish a training session positively before they lose interest. If you have a small progress, reinforce the cat and finish the session. Offer some playtime, some cuddles, or their meal. You can return later that day or tomorrow.

divider cat faces 2 oct 2024

Practices to Avoid When Training Your Cat

cat looking up
Image Credit: victoriyasmail, Shutterstock

Physical Punishment

There is never any reason to physically abuse or punish your cat in any way. Remember that cats never misbehave to spite you, they simply act on instinct and for a specific purpose. Their natural inclination is to simply try to solve a problem in the best way they know how to do it.

So, if you punish your kitten by striking it, rubbing its nose in its messes, putting it on the time out, or yelling, you’ll find that you’ll just make the cat fear you—and this is never good.  Punishing animals is not only counter-productive, but it’s completely inhumane.

Not Providing an Enriching Environment

Cats are natural hunters with strong instincts for exploration and discovery. When training your cat, it’s essential to provide plenty of mental stimulation and opportunities to satisfy their curiosity. If your cat seems distracted or unfocused during training, it’s likely because they’re bored or has excess energy that needs to be released. Engaging them in interactive play or activities beforehand can help them channel their energy and focus better during training sessions.

Looking for toys that will cater to the many needs of your cat? The Hepper Hi-lo Cat Scratcher is one of our favorite cat products, and it will encourage your cat to get active. Its clever three-angle design offers multiple ways for your cat to climb, stretch, and exercise. Made of a sturdy plywood base and a replacement cardboard insert, this scratcher is an option that cats can enjoy for years to come. If your cat requires a little encouragement for self-play, the Hepper Catnip Mice Toy Set is a fantastic choice for their instinctual needs. Made with natural, bite-resistant hessian fabric and filled with organic catnip. Cats can satisfy their natural prey instincts while getting the physical activity they need to thrive. 

Image Product Details
Great for Exercise Hepper Hi-Lo Cat Scratcher Hepper Hi-Lo Cat Scratcher
  • Multi-level play
  • Promotes exercise
  • Long-lasting material
  • Encourages Self-Play Hepper Catnip Mice Toy Set Hepper Catnip Mice Toy Set
  • Contains catnip
  • Kitten safe
  • Satisfies prey instinct
  • At Catster, we've admired Hepper for many years, and decided to take a controlling ownership interest so that we could benefit from the outstanding designs of this cool cat company!

    Avoid Negative Reinforcement

    Negative reinforcement is often confused with “punishment” although they are not exactly the same. Negative reinforcement refers to a training approach that relies on the removal of something unpleasant to encourage a desired behavior. However, many techniques often labeled as negative reinforcement, such as forcing a cat into a position or using aversive tools like shock collars, are not only ineffective but can also cause fear and harm to your cat. These methods create stress and damage the bond between you and your pet.

    Instead, focus on positive reinforcement by rewarding behaviors you want to encourage with treats, praise, or play. Positive reinforcement builds your cat’s confidence, promotes trust, and creates a more enjoyable learning experience for both of you.

    divider cats oct 2024

    Wrapping Things Up

    To wrap things up, yes, you can teach your cat to perform high-fives, verbalize, and so many other tricks. The key to success with these behaviors is simply breaking a behavior into small-sized, achievable steps, being consistent, and following up with rewards and reinforcers. Also, keep in mind that every cat is different.

    Older cats may not be as inclined or eager to practice as a young kitten or adolescent cat, so just be patient. Remember to practice when your cat is more open to training, and whenever they show interest in interacting, and remember to quit the session while you are ahead!

    See Also: 


    Featured Image Credit: Svetlana Rey, Shutterstock

    Want content like this delivered to you?

    Sign Up For Our Newsletter

    News, insights, expert advice, and everything cat

    * By submitting, you agree to our Terms & Conditions and Privacy & Cookies Policy.

    How useful was this post?

    Click on a star to rate (you can leave written feedback after clicking submit)

    Help us improve Catster for pet parents!

    Your feedback really matters.

    What did you like about this post? Also how can we improve it?

    Join the conversation

    Leave a Reply

    You’re very welcome to leave a comment or question. Please know that all comments must meet our community guidelines, and your email address will NOT be published. Let’s have a positive and constructive conversation.

    Talk With A Vet Online

    Peace of mind,
    anywhere, anytime

    Affordable vet advice

    10 Pet Friendly Hotels in Tucumcari, NM (2025 Update)

    Surprisingly, Tucumcari, New Mexico has plenty of cat-friendly hotels. If you are traveling with your cat, you likely won’t have trouble finding somewhere...

    Siamese Cat Genetics: Does It Affect Siamese Behavior? Temperament Facts

    Talkative, always wanting to be around you, and a bit needy—these are all common traits and behaviors of the Siamese cat. These behaviors...

    11 Free DIY Cat Room Ideas You Can Make Today (With Pictures)

    Cats love to share our space, but they also appreciate having space of their own where they can do whatever they want to...

    My Cat’s Spay Incision Is Slightly Open, Should I Worry? Our Vet Explains

    As a responsible cat parent, you know that spaying your cat is the right thing to do for her health and happiness, as...

    More related

    9 Best Medication for Cat Allergies (2025) – Reviews & Top Picks

    Allergies occur when the immune system is sensitive to a particular substance. The allergens may not affect your other pets, you, or human...

    Can Cats Eat Salmon Skin? Vet Reviewed Facts & Health Guidelines 

    Salmon is an all-time favorite treat for many cats thanks to its tantalizing aroma, but can cats eat salmon skin? As long as...

    How to Stop Your Cat Peeing in the House (Without Moving Across the Country)

    Hi, I’m Dr. Karyn! Read my introduction to learn more about me and meet my five hilarious cats: Clutch, Cyril, Alex, Zelda, and...

    8 Best High Protein Cat Foods (2025) – Reviews & Top Picks

    We all want the absolute best for our feline friends. Many of us are looking to switch to a high-protein cat food in...

    Keep reading

    9 Best Cat Combs of 2025: Reviews & Top Picks

    Your furry friend deserves to look and feel their best. Cats are generally great at self-grooming, and they spend a large part of their day keeping clean. Short-haired and long-haired cats will both benefit from regular combing, glove use, or...

    brushing cat fur

    How to Give Your Cat a Massage: 11 Vet-Approved Tips & FAQ

    When we want to pamper and treat ourselves, we book a 45 or 60-minute massage with our favorite masseuse. But have you ever wondered what your cat could do to relax? While massages aren’t known to relax cats in the...

    Massage of the cat's hind leg

    My Cat Just Had Kittens, What Do I Do? (7 Vet-Recommended Tips)

    If you’ve been waiting patiently for your cat to have her kittens, and now the time has come, it can be stressful. But if you’ve never overseen a kitten birth or cared for a cat mom and her newborn babies,...

    mother cat and its kittens

    Is It True That All Cats Hiss? Vet-Verified Facts & FAQ

    When coming in contact with a strange cat you’ve never met, your first reaction may be to pet them. Reaching your hand out and hoping for a head bump or nuzzle is natural for cat lovers. Unfortunately, that isn’t always...

    Abyssinian cat hisses

    Cat Hierarchies & Social Structures: Based on Science

    If you live in a multi-cat household, you might have noticed that some of your cats get along better with each other than with others. Do domestic cats have a social structure, and if so, how are these organized? Are...

    Feral cats eating on stone path

    How To Clean A Cat’s Wound – 7 Vet Approved Steps

    It’s awful when our fur babies get injured, no matter how big or small it may be. However, some injuries are minor enough—such as scratches or tiny cuts—that they don’t warrant a trip to the vet. If your cat gets...

    cat with eye wound

    What Is Cat Imprinting? Everything You Need to Know

    Cat imprinting is a complex psychological and social bond between a cat and their human. It is challenging to describe the process but easy to see the signs. Essentially, a cat imprinted on you has accepted you as a member...

    bengal cat gives a high five paw to the owner

    Does Lavender Oil Kill Fleas on Cats? Vet-Reviewed Effectiveness & Safety Explained

    When your cat has a flea infestation, it can be tempting to look for an all-natural cure like lavender oil. However, lavender oil is much more adept at repelling fleas than killing them, so any usefulness from this essential oil...

    lavender essential oil