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Grooming Your Cat – Do’s, Don’ts and Disasters


Everyone knows that cats are wonderfully self-sufficient creatures. Left to their own devices in a safe environment, your favorite feline will happily snooze, snack and nap her way through the day, complete with partaking in self-care grooming sessions when needed. But that doesn’t mean our kitty pals don’t need a little extra human assistance in a few key grooming departments. Here’s how to get a grip on brushing, nail clipping, and eye and ear maintenance for your cat.

How to brush your cat

Unless you’re cohabiting with one of those futuristic looking hairless cats, every feline needs brushing to help remove dirt particles and dead hair. The ASPCA recommends doing this once or twice a week — although if you’re dealing with a long-haired kitty you’ll want to up that to every couple of days. “During these moments, the owner can brush out a tremendous amount of undercoat,” says Erica Ayala, a certified master cat groomer at Kitty Pride Cat Grooming in New York City, whose own resident felines are a couple of Persians named Samo and Sanjay. “That’s less hair the cat will ingest when they attempt to groom themselves.” (Ingested hair can cause icky hairballs.)

Regular grooming sessions can also become a bonding experience between you and your cat. Erica adds that they also allow you to spot “anomalies such as mats and other skin and coat issues before they become a big, dangerous and expensive problem.”

Focusing on brushing tactics, Erica says to “strategize beforehand.” This can mean:

✤ setting the mood by spraying feline pheromones in the air

✤ laying out all of your grooming brushes (Erica recommends a pin brush with bristles on the other side)

✤ making sure you approach your cat in a calm and relaxed manner.

“Most cats love their faces, necks, heads, back and sides brushed,” says Erica, “but it’s not uncommon for cats to get annoyed when you attempt to brush their underside.” She also points out that long-haired kitties need to have their armpits, thighs and tushy brushed to avoid mats. “Don’t brush all the easy parts and forget to brush the underside,” she advises.

If your cat does develop mats and you’re attempting to remove them yourself, it’s vital to be gentle and precise. “Cats can be very reactive and they have incredibly thin skin,” Erica says. “It’s very easy to injure a cat if you don’t know what you’re doing — I’ve seen many cats with V-shaped wounds because their owners attempted to cut mats out with scissors themselves.” During house calls, Erica has discovered frail, elderly cats who were so matted they had to undergo multiple visits to remove the mat. “Grooms like that are super heartbreaking but also incredibly rewarding when completed,” she says.

How to clean eyes and ears

“It’s OK to clean your cat’s eyes when they occasionally get dirty,” Erica says. “Brachycephalic cats — or flat- and smushfaced cats — are famous for getting dirty eyes because their heads are so oddly shaped.” When it comes to the ocular cleaning process, Erica recommends a “simple saline solution because it removes discoloring better than plain water alone.” She adds that if you have a Persian cat, cleaning dirty eyes every day “is a reality and not something to necessarily worry too much about.”

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If you have a Persian cat, cleaning dirty eyes may be an everyday occurrence.

Adrienne Kawamura, the founder of City Kitty Franchise, points out that if you notice “any unusual amount of drainage” in or around your feline’s eyes, “it’s always a good idea to consult with your veterinarian, as eye herpes is a common issue in cats.”

Feline ears can be cleaned with diluted hydrogen peroxide, cotton pads or cotton balls. But err on the side of caution: As Adrienne points out, “Only clean the parts you can see, and if there is unusual debris or a foul odor, it’s time to see your veterinarian.” Erica agrees with a restrained approach to tackling the ears: “I think some well-meaning people over-clean. If debris is visible in the ear, it’s OK to wipe it off. But when in doubt, have a vet check it out.”

How to clip your cat’s nails

Scratching is vital behavior for a cat’s physical, emotional and mental well-being, so keep their nails well-conditioned. “Nails continue to grow on your cat, so clipping them will prevent the nails from growing into the pads of the feet, which can cause discomfort, pain and even possible infection,” says Adrienne Kawamura, who is the guardian of three Persians named Ferguson, Khalani and Lancelot. “Older cats can sometimes display bony changes in the feet due to arthritis, causing the nails to grow in a more circular fashion, so for elderly cats it’s important to keep them short.” Adrienne recommends clipping nails once a month for most cats and upping the routine to twice a month for kittens and seniors.

When you start clipping your cat’s nails, it’s crucial to always cut before reaching the quick (the pink part of the nail); just trim the sharp tip of the claw. Never trim near or below the quick. Also, cutting nails vertically ensures you don’t “mash the nail and splinter it,” Adrienne says. Dedicated cat (or even bird) clippers are advised, as they’re smaller than the dog clippers you might find at your local pet store. Or if your cat doesn’t mind it, try using a Dremel nail grinder.

Stay vigilant: If during the nail clipping process you spot any blood, use styptic powder applied to the tip of the nail. Adrienne also recommends “calm assertiveness” as your approach to grooming your cat: Reward with treats after a successful session, and always stop if your feline appears to be getting too aggressive.



Our Facebook friends share their grooming disasters

My cat, Osiris, was always lying on the wet floor in the shower, so I decided he might like a bath. I got into the shower with him and proceeded to bathe him. It sounded like a murder scene, and the aftermath was an actual murder attempt against me by my cat. I still love him dearly, but no more showers for him! — Luis Lopez

I was clipping my sweet Pebbles’ nails, and she yanked back just as I clipped, and I nicked her pad. My goodness, they bleed! I felt horrible, but I quickly dipped her paw in flour, then when the bleeding stopped, I put Neosporin on it. A day later, it was fine. She crossed the rainbow bridge about seven years ago, but I am still extra careful with my other cats. — Susan Kamppi

Our cat, Jet, who we acquired when he showed up at our house and never left, will only allow so much when it comes to grooming. I was trying to clip claws, when he had enough and attacked my arm. He grabbed my forearm with his front feet, bit me and started bunny kicking. All I could do was wait for him to stop. I still have scars from a yearand- a-half ago! — Martina Rusnov


To Bathe or Not to Bathe

Cats are notorious for hating water, but many people suggest they need regular bathing. What’s the real deal?

✤ The ASPCA recommends that most cats do not need to take baths under normal circumstances.

✤ If your feline appears to have gotten into shenanigans involving an odorous or sticky substance — yes, it’s bathtime.

✤ If you’ve adopted a hairless cat, you’ll need to bathe him once a week.

✤ If your cat winds up with fleas, yep, you’ll need to be taking a visit to the tub.

cat after a bath
Note: Always brush your cat and trim her nails before a bath.



two sided brushcat nail clippernail grinder

When grooming your cat, a brush like this premium two-sided brush with pins on one side and bristles on the other will do the trick. $13.90; smallanimal.andis.com

If you choose to use clippers, use smaller ones created for cats, birds or small dogs. $11.97; smallanimal.andis.com

If your cat doesn’t mind a Dremel, try a cordless nail grinder. $54.99; smallanimal.andis.com

17 thoughts on “Grooming Your Cat – Do’s, Don’ts and Disasters”

  1. We have two cats, brother and sister, that I rescued. It took a lot of patience and time to get them humanzied although they were only 3-1/2 mos old.
    When it comes to grooming our female loves it. Her brother who has twice the amount of hair can only take it in small amounts which we do.
    She likes to watch cat videos on my laptop so when its time to trim claws I put her favourite video on and them trim away.
    My husband usually holds the brother (and he’s 20 lbs and 36″ long) so I can do his claws. Its the only way he will allow it.
    They both know that at the end of their “manicure” they get a special treat!

  2. Anyone know if there is some kind of de-matting wipe available? Don’t want to bathe older cat but would like to wipe down (not too wet) and demat.

    1. I have a feral cat that we have taken care of (outdoors) for 11 years and he gets mats. I was able to have good success with rubbing olive oil on the mats and then they come out naturally after a few days. However this may not be a great option for an indoor cat as their fur then is obviously oily..

  3. Suzanne LeBreck Kelter

    We have 2 Persian cats 3 years old! We take them to our groomer once a month in winter and every 6 weeks in summer! I brush them every day or every other! Groomer told me if they get mattes to use a letter opener! Works perfect and I don’t worry about a scissor injury!

    1. I use nail scissors as they can get through the mat and closer to the skin than regular scissors. I do it in a few sessions the same day, Cut around the mat. Next, get as close to the skin as possible and cut to loosen. Last, pull on loosened mat and cut into it if necessary it to gently remove it. I cut a mat the full length of the cats tail..a stray who was shy but came to eat and I worked on her while she was eating,so it was done each time she came and it took 3 days to remove the entire mat.The second day she left with half of the mat hanging and looked as if she had a second half tail. Just be patient.

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  6. We adopted a blind 10 year old female cat from a shelter. We have NO history on her. She was considered unadoptable. Our problem is she caterwaulers off and on all day and night. She’s a good kitty and great in every other way. We have only had her about 5 weeks. What things can we do to make her life a bit easier?

    1. Hi Spring –
      She may be crying for several reasons. Was she surrounded by other cats in the shelter? (Was it a shelter for cats, only?) She may be lonely.
      Remember that she’s in an entirely different environment & is more than likely feeling extremely insecure … & the blindness adds to that kind of fear. Do you know how long she’s been blind? If she wasn’t born blind, or hasn’t been blind for more than half her life, that’s another high score for the lonely/insecure feelings she may have.
      Does she like to cuddle?

      My suggestion is to talk to her a lot during the day, and have her snuggle with you at night. That may help her with her scary feelings.

      Best of luck!

      1. If she has cataracts they can be removed. Not cheap, but a well cared for cat can live about 20 yrs, more or less. My cats are 17 1/2 & 16 1/2 yrs.

    2. Sometimes older cats wake up and are confused about their surroundings. I imagine it’s tough on a blind cat especially. They make pet toys that warm up, kind of like she’d experience with a mom or littermate. They also make some that purr, have a heartbeat, or whatever might soothe a cat. Since she’s blind, scent might soothe her. Can you place some towels that hold your scent where she usually rests?
      Thanks for adopting an older cat with special needs. That’s so kind of you guys!

    3. What you need to do, is find out if she was housed w/another cat, if they got along and how long they were together. If they were buddy’s, you might think about adopting that cat also. Think about it, her cage mate might be lonely now that she’s gone. Your cat will love the company when your at work or out for the evening.
      Your cat is pretty scared, being in a new place and being blind doesn’t help. Having her companion w/her would be a big help to her and you. Her friend and companion could end up being her seeing-eye cat, keeping her out of danger and making her feel secure. This is just something to think about.

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