Dear Jean,

It can be frustrating when one kitten seems to miss a skill that their sibling mastered so easily, especially when you have been trying to guide Buddy. Most kittens learn to use the litter box by this age, so if he is consistently having accidents, it is worth looking beyond training alone. Since Buddy is tailless, the first step is to have him examined by your veterinarian. Some tailless cats are born with spinal abnormalities that can affect bowel or bladder control, making it difficult for them to recognize when they need to eliminate or to hold it until they reach the litter box.

If your veterinarian rules out a medical cause, focus on making the litter box as inviting and easy to access as possible. Offer several shallow litter boxes in quiet areas, ideally one more than the number of cats in the household, and use an unscented, fine-textured litter that is gentle on young paws. Gently place Buddy in the box after meals, naps, and play sessions, then reward him with praise or a small treat if he uses it. Thoroughly cleaning accident areas with an enzymatic cleaner will also help remove lingering odors that might encourage him to return to the same spot.

Learning to use a litter box is a bit like learning the route home. Most kittens find their way quickly, while others need extra guidance or face obstacles that make the journey more challenging. Because Buddy’s lack of a tail raises the possibility of an underlying neurological issue, a veterinary examination is the most important next step. Identifying a medical cause early can make a significant difference in helping him develop the best possible toileting habits and maintain his long-term comfort.

Best wishes,

– Dr Paola