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Are You Cut Out for All Levels of Cat Rescue? I’m Not

We all have emotional thresholds, and over the years I've certainly found mine.

Catherine Holm  |  Aug 12th 2015


Some of us have softer hearts than others. Maybe this is a good thing. I have one of the softer hearts. Have you ever been told, “You’re too sensitive?” That’s me! Not that being sensitive is a bad thing. I refuse to believe that, and I’m beyond (thank goodness) trying to change my wiring.

Just the same, a recent incident with my cat Kieran was a jolting reminder of my psyche. Kieran recently got an X-ray to determine the extent of arthritis in his spine, and it also showed a pellet lodged in his abdominal wall. It knocked me off my feet for a moment. It had to have happened before we had Kieran, because we’ve kept him inside since we adopted him. I know this terrible stuff happens all the time. But having it happen so close to home hit me hard.

First came a sickening feeling. How could anyone do this to my cat? Then came guilt. Am I feeling worse about this because it happened to MY cat? I had some time to process it, and I reached a conclusion:

I would not do well in some kinds of cat rescue.

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Jamie Bluebell and Kieran snuggle in their Sleepy Pod. Kieran’s a sweet and pretty quiet boy.

I realized, for example, why I have hesitated to get involved with a local TNR group in my rural area. This group does good work. But I if I had to know, or to hear, that kittens had been killed by someone before TNR could be explained, or applied, or its benefits described — well, I’m not sure I could handle that. Maybe I am a person who sometimes needs to stay away from certain things.

Years ago, I volunteered at a kill shelter. Strangely, this did not affect me as emotionally as Kieran’s pellet, nor did hearing about kittens being killed on farms. I probably rationalized (correctly or not) that these cats at the shelter were at least being euthanized humanely. But it still bothered me, and I admit that I am happier volunteering in a no-kill shelter, even though I understand (as one cat blogger recently said) that we are nowhere near a no-kill world.

The lesson here for me? We all have our emotional thresholds. Some of us can take more than others, and some can tolerate different things or situations in the world of animal welfare while others canno. My threshold seems to be relatively low. I totally get it when I see people on Facebook objecting to postings of animals on death row. These disturb me, too. I want to do something, and I feel so helpless.

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Kieran and Jamie nap on the couch. Jamie feels secure with the laid-back Kieran and doesn’t cuddle with any of the others.

What to do instead? How can I contribute to the world of cat welfare and keep my psyche (and sanity) intact? Here are some. Maybe these will inspire you and give you some ideas.

  • I write to educate people about cat welfare, spay/neuter, TNR, and the human/cat bond. Writing is my passion — what is yours? If cats and their welfare are your passion, find a way to reach out to the world and use your talents. You can make an impact, even though you may not realize it. For example, readers have said that after reading some of my writing, they see whole new sides to their cats, or realize that the relationship can be much deeper than they had thought. Anything that moves people to love, appreciate, and take good care of cats is a good thing.
  • I volunteer at a shelter where I feel in sync with the organization’s philosophy, approach, and treatment of animals. In my eyes, it was a good match for me. I like the management and the treatment of the animals. Cats are well understood there. Staff members take a lot of care and time to help these cats and make them as adoptable as possible.
  • I take good care of my own cats, so I don’t contribute to already huge animal welfare problems. They’re all fixed as soon as they come to our household.
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Zorro’s rescue was low key. It involved trapping, neutering, and keeping (instead of releasing).

I greatly admire those who can handle more than me. Cat welfare needs you — as it needs all of us. We all have things to contribute. Whether or not you can handle the rougher parts of the animal welfare world, consider what can do for cats. Nothing is too big or too small.

What areas of cat rescue do you believe are right for you? Let me know in the comments.

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About Catherine Holm: Cat Holm loves writing about, working for, and living with cats. She is the author of The Great Purr, the cat-themed memoir Driving with Cats: Ours for a Short Time, the creator of Ann Catanzaro cat fantasy story gift books, and the author of two short story collections. She loves to dance, be outside whenever possible, read, play with cats, make music, do and teach yoga, and write. Cat lives in the woods, which she loves as much as really dark chocolate, and gets regular inspiration shots along with her double espresso shots from the city.