|Purred: Mon Jan 30, '06 8:58pm PST |
|Hewwo Pocky's mummy and/or daddy,
I'm so sorry you are still missing your beloved kitty. My mommy says that we continue to grieve after we lose someone we love exactly because we loved them so much to begin with. It's sort of proportional in that way.
My mommy had several kitties who she loved and lost before I was even born, and she tells me about them and how much she still loves and misses them. I'm not a replacement, just another good lovey kitty. Nothing will replace her other furbabies, and nothing will replace Pocky.
I don't know how or why Pocky died, but I like to think that the Rainbow Bridge is a pretty nice place for any kitty to nap, chase paper balls, sniff catnip, and scratch furniture all day.
Healing can be a slow process, and it's not linear - you make progress one day only to lose it a few weeks later. That's okay. It will get better over time. You won't miss Pocky less, but the memories won't sting and you'll take pleasure in remembering good times rather than remembering your sorrow.. that just comes with time and patience.
You're in Mommy's thoughts,
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