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Patrick- (Angel)

Irish Boy

Purred: Tue Mar 10, '09 9:44pm PST


	I appreciate this thread so much When I got home from work tonite, Patrick was at the door waiting for me. I know cats are good at hiding when they don't feel good but I know when he doesn't feel good. Even when he's trying to "fake" feeling good for me. He felt GOOD. It was in his eyes and his self. We went outside and had a good time. I'll let Patrick tell the kitties in the Good News thread. We're going to get that jinx idea out of our thoughts. Roxy

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Flower- **PAWS**

Flowie The- Warrior Queen!- (Thanks, Bugsy

Purred: Thu Mar 12, '09 4:37am PST


	Isn't it amazing how much we all feel the same about writing for our kitties? Sometimes I feel badly about writing for Flowie because she IS so healthy and happy and lots of OF's are not. I also feel like I may "jinx" her healthy little body by posting too much....then I get quiet and that's not good either! I'm so afraid that she will suddenly get sick and go very fast...she's been with me so long and we are so close. I cry for all of you who have lost your babies, but I always celebrate the fact that you DO care so much and made their lives the best you could for as long as you could. My youngest son, Eddie told me once that no matter WHEN any of my kitties have to leave, I should feel secure and happy in knowing that I gave them the BEST life that a kitty could have and all the love and attention they needed. We all must leave someday and I guess he's right...knowing that you did your best and after truly loving your babies completely by LETTING them go when they need to, is the best gift you can give them. Debbie

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Marley the- Paw 04/94 - 06/09

Never met a- treat bag she- couldn't open

Purred: Fri Jul 10, '09 10:55pm PST


	I didn't see this thread before tonight - I wish I had. Without the support we received from so many on Catster during the last 3 months of Marley's life - I wouldn't have been able to get through it. Now I see some comments or messages from members - concerned that they may bring down others or depress others because they are walking that very scarey path of illness with someone they love. We need to know there's a safe place to say all the things we're afraid to say outloud. To acknowledge, maybe for the first time, that someone we love is suffering. To acknowledge that we are suffereing. To face the reality we find ourselves in with the support of others who have been through similiar situations. It's those other voices from outside my computer that helped Mike and I. And I would hope that our experience or at the very least, our support, could aid someone else. For myself, I came to realize that with all the heartbreak and heartache there were moments of joy I would have missed if I hadn't had these voices talking with me. They helped me through and helped me out and in the end, they still help me. They help me remember someone I love - not just as the tired girl she became but as the sassy thing that stole Mike's heart. So in this Parents Place - for the voices in the dark that don't want to burden others with their pain or are afraid that if they talk about it it may become real, it's okay. Even if you can't find the words - know that there's someone here who understands. It may not be me - it may be another author. And if you need us - we'll listen - or we'll share. But don't ever believe that you have to remain silent.

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Rascal- our OCP- Angel- '94-'11

The Moose

Purred: Sat Jul 11, '09 5:42am PST


	Ras goes today for another vet visit...hopefully we will have an answer or direction...the funny thing is he asymptomatic...the only thing noticeable is the weight loss...I have my fingers crossed that it is something simple....or better yet nothing at all other than age slowing him down and changing his metabolism, he hasn't been sick, doesn't act sick...just a little slower and alot thinner.. Mama Kaye

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Simon--My- Angel

I want treats!

Purred: Sat Jul 11, '09 6:32am PST


	I'm very glad that this thread was bumped up. I never knew it existed, but am relieved that there will still be a place to visit in OFs when Simon's time comes. My heart goes out to all who are grieving. Simon's angel sisters and brother still own my heart and I cannot speak for them on Catster, even though they have profiles. Writing their bios was painful enough. Never worry about bringing others down here...it is crucial to the grieving process that you share your pain and talk, talk, talk (in your own voice) about your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Simon's Mom, Carole

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Patrick- (Angel)

Irish Boy

Purred: Sat Jul 11, '09 6:43am PST


	I just wish things weren't so dark and sad and hard. And it's beyond Patrick...it's many things. Sometimes I think hope is just something to tide you over from one crisis to the next. Dreams are just that and unfortunately you have to wake up and face reality once more. But at least I do dream for a while and things are better then. This thread had no activity for 125 days and I'm not even sure why I'm here again. I was whining here the last time but had no idea how WORSE things would get. 19 days after my last post my mother would be dead. Six weeks after that I'd lose my job. I've gone deeper under, I'll never dig myself out financially, Patrick has gotten sicker, and I feel more tired than I ever have. How any times can Patrick keep getting up? How many times can I? I once read that the pioneers looked so grim in photos because life was so hard. It wasn't expected to be fun. Of course I'm no pioneer and I have never faced the challenges they did...but in my own reality, I do understand about life being bitter. There's very little joy. And I don't see any real bright...we're just kind of slogging along. We're hanging in there. We're surviving. But it's so dark. It's not just about Patrick, tho I know he is one of the rare little lights in my life and that's fading slowly. *Sorry to be such a downer lol. Hopefully it'll be another 125 days before I post in this thread again. Roxy

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Patrick- (Angel)

Irish Boy

Purred: Sat Jul 11, '09 7:37am PST


	I just wanted to add how grateful I (and the kitties) are for everyone's kindness. That's not to say that you all didn't bring light into our lives...because you did. VERY much! I want everyone to understand that. The dark is a byproduct of just general bitter times and the fact that I myself feel so ineffective and tired and helpless. You guys and girls are great Roxy (and Patrick)

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Thomas - brave- angel&hearts- ;

Mild-mannered- ninja.

Purred: Sat Jul 11, '09 9:27pm PST


	Patrick, we love you and your Mommy and we're sorry things are so bleak for you right now. We know she takes wonderful care of you, and we know you are her rock and comfort. All we can say is, we're purrin' and purrin' fur things to get better, for you to stay healthy, and for her to find a job so things are not so much of a strain. My Mama knows it's hard to keep a pawsitive outlook when bad things keep beating at you - but she knows that somehow we cats are purrty good at living in the moment and enjoying even small momentary pleasures. So you keep on keepin' on, dear furriend, and help your Mommy through her dark times. Lots of love, Thomas, Pixie, Skeeter and Taffy and Mama Lori (forgot this was parents place, and posted as the cats! MOL!) Edited by author Sat Jul 11, '09 9:28pm PST

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Scooter ~- Our Angel

It's all about- 'The Scootster'

Purred: Sat Jul 11, '09 10:15pm PST


	Roxy Patrick Roxy, I don't know what to say to offer encouragement except to quote the proverb, "It's always darkest before the dawn". I'm not dealing with all that you're dealing with, though, and I'm not even sure I could. I just don't like seeing you so discouraged -- you're such a compassionate and caring person. For "living in the moment" which Lori suggested, how about that great catio you built, Roxy! The weather has to cool off a little sometime, so you and Patrick and the rest of your furbabies can start enjoying that again. hugs, Bonnie

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Edgar

Wake me when- it's time to- eat!

Purred: Sat Jul 11, '09 10:38pm PST


	Roxy, A long time ago I read or heard the saying that God never gives you any more to bear than what you have the strength to bear. That saying has made me, many times in my life say: "Thank you God, I am flattered that you think I am that strong... but are you sure??" As you can tell, my relationship with God is a bit iffy or I wouldn't ask. But nonetheless, somehow I have found strength in thinking of that saying. There is joy Roxy. In Patrick's purr. In the beauty of a cat's face and the wonder of those little furry creatures of another species loving us as they do. And there is joy in so many other things in nature this post could become a novel if I tried to list them. But I think you understand that because of how your heart was broken when the trees were cut in your yard. Stay strong. Many hugs to you... Julia

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