Quality of Life: When is it time to say goodbye? (consolidated thread)

  
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Spanky

I don't do mice,- thank you
 
 
Purred: Wed Mar 30, '11 9:19pm PST 
We've been reading this thread with tears in our eyes, for us - and all the beloved kitties who have gone to the bridge.
My mummy has been thinking about this for a while too, and although I'm not ready to go to the bridge just yet, we know it won't be long. Mummy doesn't have lots of money to spare for vet treatments for me, so she hopes I won't linger long if I'm hurting. I'm glad to learn that some vets will do house calls for that last visit. Mummy has been feeling bad thinking that my last few hours might be spent scared and confused at the vet's office, but now she's going to do everything she can to arrange for a home visit for me when I decide I'm ready. It's good to have humans who love us enough to not allow us to suffer, and who will stay with us and hold us til we make it to the bridge.

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Tansey's- Fancy Angel- 1993-2011

I am again with- my forever love- Smoke
 
 
Purred: Thu Mar 31, '11 5:07am PST 
I would recommend doing that vet search before you really need it. I'd made initial contact a month before the vet was needed, so on the day I made the actual call, it was much easier.

The cost was reasonable, and emotionally it was priceless. Tansey hated going to the vet, it frightened her terribly, so it was wonderful to have her calm and at home, surrounded by everything and everyone she loved.

This truly is the most difficult decision any pet owner must make, but please know we all have experienced this and send our love and hugs to all of those who are now facing that terrible decision.

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Taffy, angel- girl- ♥

Protected by- Bast
 
 
Purred: Thu Mar 31, '11 1:27pm PST 
I am grateful that I got to come to the Bridge from my comfiest place in the world - my living room - with help from a kind visiting vet. I second the suggestion that mamas and daddies who want this for their furs should locate a vet who can perform this service, and make contact to find out how they work, before you actually need it. It's not the easiest sort of service to look up online, nor is it heavily advertised - it seems to be very much a word-of-mouth arrangement.

It took Mama quite a bit of asking around before she found a vet in our area who was willing to perform a final home visit for me. (If anycat else is in the Philadelphia suburbs and is considering such a service, we will recommend her without reservations.) My family's regular vets didn't know of anyone, but one of the nurses at the teaching vet hospital did.

The vet who came to my house did want to talk to my regular vet first, which is another reason to give yourself some time to make arrangements. Also, she works full time at a vet hospital and performs this service after hours, on her own time - it is completely separate from her hospital job. Therefore she is not "on call" 24/7 even after you've made contact and arranged for her services, although she said usually she can accommodate requests within 4 to 12 hours. So pawrents need to be aware that time can become a factor, and consider a backup plan (like going to the regular vet's office) if a fur becomes acutely uncomfortable or distressed and cannot rest peacefully until the home-visit vet is available.

That said, I wouldn't have had my journey to the Bridge start any other way, and it is definitely something Mama will try to arrange again when other family members are ready to move on. little angel


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