|Purred: Fri Dec 21, '07 5:00am PST |
I came living with my family (my parents and Remy) almost 1.5 years ago when I was only a little kitten of 8 weeks old. I'm half an Abby: my feline mom is a full-bred Abby but had a wonder outside and got pregnant with me. I had 1 sibbling by the way and there was another litter when I was born so I wasn't alone when I was growing up.
Since I came in the house I want alllll the attention for me. Of course there is older Remy, 2 years my senior, but I really like to bully him. I've done that from the every first day. I chase him, I hit him, I pester him when he's sleeping especially if he's sleeping somewhere that I want as my sleeping spot, now.
Mommy thinks I'm jealous but my parents do give me a lot of attention as well. Hugs everyday and a little play. Still I have this urge to bully my bigger bro Remy. When he had a blockage due to crystals in his urenal tube and he had to go to the vet, I was worried about him and extra nice when he came back. That was a rare occasion for me to be nice to him.
This week I did a massive attack on Remy again. I put him in a arm lock, really tight and then try to bite him so he screams. Dad got really angry with me and locked me in the bedroom for 15 minutes but it doesn't face me. I will just continue. Same thing when Remy growls and hisses at me: I totally don't care for that and will continue to pester him.
Does anyone have any ideas on how to solve this issue?
Mom and dad are really worried and love me and Remy loads but this can't be a happy situation for any of us.
Thanks for the help!
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