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How to know when to euthanize your kitteh.

Whether a cat dies, is lost or stolen, or must be placed in a new home, this is the place to gather together to give and receive love and support when you experience the loss of a beloved cat.

  


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09/28/2010
 
 
Purred: Sat May 5, '12 12:01pm PST 
My kitteh, Derringer, is at least 16 years old. He is not doing well. He eats, sometimes. Sometimes he vomits. But he will sleep with me and still loves to to be scratched. He can jump and meow. I hate to see him suffer, but am not quite willing to end his life. How do I know when it is time?
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Lady

the queen
 
 
Purred: Sun May 6, '12 6:13pm PST 
we have not had to do this for 16yrs. all we can say is have a good talk with your vet, then you need to decide what kind of quality of life your kitty has. we can not tell what to do, and the hardest part is that you can not be selfish.

purrs & prayers
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Shade

If your lap is- available, I'll- be there!

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Purred: Sun May 6, '12 7:25pm PST 
In general, when a cat stops eating and starts hiding, that's a good indication that something is very wrong. But at 16 years old, it's a good idea to have a vet checkup TWICE a year. You can explain to your vet your cat's actions and voice any concerns you have. The vet may prescribe medication to help ease your cat's pain if he has arthritis or stomach problems.


Beatrice- (Miss You!- '94-'12)

The very Beast- of all

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Purred: Mon May 7, '12 1:48am PST 
I agree with the others that your vet is your best resource when it comes to what you can and can't do to preserve your kitty's quality of life.

Of course, when your and your vet's best efforts are no longer enough and the bad times outweigh or outnumber the good, then it might be time to consider letting him go.

*sending purrs for you and Derringer* hug

Bella My- Beautiful- Angel

Mommys Kitty- Girl! I know- I\'m loved!
 
 
Purred: Mon May 7, '12 5:43am PST 
We know your struggle...I am on fluids once a day, and my quality of life is boosted by appitite boosters, pepcid, cerenia, azodyl, and other 'stuff' that helps. I sleep on heating pads, vomit easily, have Chronic kidney disease and pancretitis. I recently had surgery to have lumps removed that turned out to be cancerous.
That said, I still enjoy sleeping in the sun, stretching out on warm blankets, bacon treats, and being pampered.
It hurts mommy to see me so thin and bony. However, I do eat, and she's doing all she can for me, as is Daddy. I am the Queen of my Home. I can still climb up and over the back of the couch to get to the end table and sun myself, and I scratch my scratching post.
Some folks don't' understand mommy and daddy's feelings for me..but I am simply their first child and their best.

You and your kitty will know when it's time to say 'see you later-but meanwhile, take kitty in for an exam, and talk with your vet. Theres alot that can be done to make us 'elderwise' kitties happy for alot longer.

love to you and purrs to your lovely kitty,
Bella
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Tambolina

No...the magic- is still- here...!!!
 
 
Purred: Mon May 7, '12 9:20am PST 
Dear Derringer and Derringer's Meouwmy.....Hi...!! Jan here......I thought I would, perhaps, just tell you about the times I have had to help my cats to Rainbow Bridge.....my experiences might help you a bit, for when the time does come.....

And, yes....first things: get all the relevant tests done on Derringer and talk to your vet. That first. AND KEEP AWARE OF HOW DERRINGER IS AND ANY CHANGES.

I have had four elderly cats that I have had to help to the Bridge in my cat-owning lifetime. The first one (I was very young when I got her)....my old Tabby-Cat, who never had a name - I could not think of a suitable one - was ill, very ill, and I did not realise this, and just thought she was old (18)....finally I took her to the vets and she had to be sent to Rainbow Bridge.....she was frightened, I was frightened and it was a horrible experience.....

Then there were Lucy, Mambo and Grandad Joseph Conrad....all when I had had cats for some time and knew what I was doing....Lucy and Mambo both died of kidney failure....I took them both to the vets (Lucy died some years before Mambo) and in each case he said: 'this cat has about a month to live'...so I took each one home and I loved them and I petted them and gave them what food I could get them to eat and I waited and I watched and I suffered.....

Lucy spent her last month going out every day and sitting under the bushes in the shade....and I would go out with her, and lie with her and sing to her: 'Fields of Gold' by Sting...do you know it? 'You'll remember me, when the west wind blows among the fields of barley'....and at the end of each day I would pick her up and carry her indoors....

Mambo was totally different...she would go out every morning and I would follow her out and watch her as she climbed over the wall to the grounds of the Hotel next door...and then at the same time every evening she would come home....and she did this right up to three days before I helped her to Rainbow Bridge.....

Dear Derringer's Meouwmy......in my experience YOU KNOW when it is time....If you love your cat during its lifetime you become 'one' with it.....and when it is time for it to go it is a sort-of dual thing...'they know/you know'.....

That is how it was for me and Lucy and me and Mambo....and the end can be beautiful (although very frightening)...if you hold them and love them and sing to them and kiss them.....they go very easily.....

I did it wrong with Grandad Joseph Conrad, because I loved him too much and did not want to let him go, although I knew and he knew that it was time......

You will know.....believe me....you will know.....

Dear Derringer and Derringer's Meouwmy....love each other as much as you can, while you can.....

Jan
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Abbi

Chunk
 
 
Purred: Mon May 7, '12 10:22am PST 
This is what mom is afraid of with me, I am 18 this year as far as mom knows. I have lost a load of weight over last 2 weeks, even my legs have gone thin, and I will be going to the vet this week sometime. Mom is scared of sending me to the bridge as I have been with her for 12 years this month.
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Alexander,- Dreamboat- #110

I am really a- lap dog in- disguise.
 
 
Purred: Tue May 8, '12 1:41pm PST 
Actually, Derringer will let you know when his life is not bearable. He will loose all of his appetite and not engage you as much. He will hide and not want you to pet him at all. But first, take him to the vet. It may be something that meds can help. My Ben was diabetic but it was cancer that took him. He had lost half of his weight and the fight was not in his eyes any more. He just stopped eating. The cancer has spread.....The same thing happened to Natasha. Although I had to encourage her to eat in the last year and a half with appetite stimulants and chicken treats, it was cancer again that had spread to her liver. I didn't want them to suffer so I gave them their wings. I saw my parents suffer quite a bit...very unpleasant....Ben and Natasha went so quickly. I was in the room when each passed on. My DH and daughter helped to hold Natasha's paw and say good-bye...I will not ever let an animal suffer. But again, there may be something that can help Derringer- do blood testing...I had done a testing first with Natasha which indicated that the cancer had spread. I couldn't wait until her system shut down. She was so sweet and loving cat that she deserved her passing to be quick and painless if I could help her...If you have any other questions, ask....but first do a vet visit and see what the blood panel found....don't go by a cat's age....They do live longer these days with great vet care and people care...
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Delyte

I hate- thunderstorms!!
 
 
Purred: Tue May 8, '12 8:25pm PST 
This is Delyte's person. He doesn't know I am talking about this. He is 17, has hyperthyroid disease and very bad kidneys. He is very thin, has arthritis in his hips and has very bad cataracts. One would think he was blind, but he can track any bit of food thrown anywhere and any kind of prey. Lately he has taken to pulling out his fur and groaning in his sleep. BUT he still enjoys eating almost anything, cat food or human food, will stand on his hind legs and dance around for his favorites, can leap four feet up and over the coffee table just because he feels like it, and enjoys laying in the sunshine and sleeping with me on the sofa or on the bed at night. As Alexander says, you will see the light go out of their eyes when it is time to go. Usually, with a cat with kidney disease--and almost all old cats have kidney failure as they are not built to last this long--they stop eating and become obsessed with drinking water. The very last phase, they cannot drink but want to and seek out water sources. You do not want to let it go that far. Most old cats are in some level of pain, I suspect. I cannot give Delyte any of the conventional medications because he had major surgery on his intestines 7 years ago and his gut is extraordinarily sensitive and also narrow, so all medications irritate him. He is getting his thyroid meds rubbed on his ears, and anything else will have to be injected. When his pain becomes so bad that he does not want to leap around or move or eat or play, then it will be the time.

He has a vet appt on Friday to have his condition reassessed, and we don't want him to be upset in advance. He is starting to have the chemical smell that cats [and people] with minimal kidney function have, and there is not much that can be done for that. He will probably get some fluids at the vet, and some blood work done. His teeth are very bad but he is too old, thin and poorly functioning to be anesthesized for anything. So I just have to keep watching that he is eating and using the pan and enjoying his life as much as he can as an old stiff kitty.

You don't necessarily need to go by a cat's age, after all. There are a lot of kitties on here who are older than 16-17, and sadly some who have gone to the Bridge long before that age. So just keep watching. Best wishes to you and Delyte would send giant purrs if he knew this message was going out. wink
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