Purred: Mon Feb 7, '11 11:14am PST |
 |  |  |  | I think the truth is that many people, once they leave the intense stage of grief behind, don't want to remember how bad it really was and so they don't give others the compassion they need to get thru it. We, however, are people who can't forget how bad it was, and want to help others who have a real heart for animals. My family loves animals, but they have never seemed to have the level of empathy for them that I was born with. It only makes sense, if you are struggling with the grief, to stay around the people who most understand. They will be your best support. I work at a vet's office, and we are VERY concerned about the people who DON'T cry!!!!! Cry, cry, CRY - because it's SAD! And - we are human, we hope situations will improve, we don't always know what to do. Give yourself a break. Love & cherish Nikki - you will help each other thru this. Our thoughts and purrayers are with you! Luv, Tink    |  |  |  |  |
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