Scared to Leave Cat Home with Mean Roommate

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♥- Nina- ♥

Jellybean the- queen <3

Purred: Thu Jul 28, '11 3:07pm PST


	Honey, this does not sound like a safe situation for you and Janelle. I totally agree with the others, you two need to get yourselves out of there ASAP. The fact that your BF does not stand up to his friend certainly says something. I've had BF's like that before, and I eventually left them because I realized they obviously did not give a crap about me. I have no idea how old you and your BF are, but Honey you need to find yourself another BF. DX

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Shortcake

I found my- Furever home!!!

Purred: Thu Jul 28, '11 5:48pm PST


	Shortcake's mom here: I agree with everyone here. Please!! Under NO CIRCUMSTANCES leave your kitty alone with that beast! I also think you should examine the relationship you have with the BF, I have ended more than one relationship because they felt my babies were more like material belongings. Find a man that loves and respects animals and you'll find a man who will love and respect YOU!! I'd kick him to the curb in a heartbeat. Sorry for the strong message here, but this makes me so sad and angry. NO ONE has a right to treat a defensless animal that way! Grrrrrr & Hissssss!!

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AnnaBelle

Supervisor cat - is not amused.

Purred: Thu Jul 28, '11 9:59pm PST


	I agree with what the others have said. Id like to add that it may be important to consider getting her shots and such up to date If need be for boarding because you may need to board her while you move out, depending on what the situation is. Even if you were to stay with your boyfriend, it may be better to move out on your own to protect yourself and your kitty. It really is not that far of a jump from animal abuse to human abuse. Please keep yourself and your kitty safe. Purring for both of you.

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Pandora

go getter kitter

Purred: Thu Jul 28, '11 11:00pm PST


	I tend to agree with everyone, except for one thing. I see that your BF helped you get your kitty, so he gets a few points from me. But really, you are all obviously young adults--three's a crowd, and I am NOT counting the kitty! A-H 'buddy' needs to go before he decides to do something to YOU or another woman. I suspect your BF wants him there because they have been friends forever and the extra money helps, but this is no good. I would find some kind of way to get Janelle somewhere else to stay while you are gone no matter what. If you can'tafford it, maybe if you explained the situation a boarding place or vet might let you trade a day'swork for keeping her. Meowma is sorry you aren't in GA or East Alabama; in this situation she would be letting Janelle stay here free even though the spare'cat room' is normally for paying or trading-out kitties!

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Tigger

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Purred: Sun Jul 31, '11 12:00am PST


	Tiggers dad here, I agree with all the previous posters. I can't imagine treating any animal like that especially a kitty. The point of a relationship is for it to move forward to something permanent, if your boyfriend does not feel the same way you do about your pets how can you see yourself with him in the future. You may as well cut your losses now or let him know how important your kitty is to you and make sure he's on board otherwise this issues will cause a divide until the end of your relationship. As for your kitty, no friends in the area to watch her or maybe family? Maybe send your b/f's friend with him on the trip and you stay home with your baby Have you actually like FREAKED OUT on this guy to make sure he REALLY knows how you feel about your cat? Give it a try, I'm guessing you guys are fairly young still, when I was that age and a girl gave me the smack down I listened! Ok maybe even now I still listen

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Jill- Teagarden

Furrever Homes- Rock!!!

Purred: Mon Aug 1, '11 5:54am PST


	Tiggers' dad, thanks for posting and giving a man's point of view. We all hope the young lady who posted originally will post and let us know what her plans are. As we all know REAL men are kind to animals (of all kinds). Hope you and your wife are doing okay, was thinking about you both this weekend as I relaxed and enjoyed the company of my furbabies. Take care, The New Orleans Kitties

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Tink the- Cat

Never met a- mouse I didn\'t- bat!

Purred: Mon Aug 1, '11 10:19am PST


	I just want to add that this is what this guy does IN A NORMAL MOOD. This type of human behavior ordinarily will PROGRESS to other, worse things, then to people, as long as he gets away with it. It is sad, and it is SERIOUS!!! Please rethink the whole situation, while you still have your kitty! The BEST CASE scenario that I could imagine is him letting her out when you're gone.