 Purred: Wed Aug 20, '08 1:44pm PST |
 | |  | | I don't want to start an argument with you either, Lulu. I very well understand the situation. But at this point, Velcro's mom needs to accept that she is basically too stressed about the situation to deal with it rationally, and maybe needs to cats her net wider.
Worst case scenario, she needs to consider whether she doesn't want to look at shelters in other parts of the state, and if she can get a commitment from one of them that they will help her with Velcro, she might want to get the Catster railroad to help her get Velcro relocated as far away as needed.
I'm having problems being spayed myself, in my case because Boris' stupid vet thinks I am too young to be spayed right now. Mom thinks it's unacceptable for her to have to wait until I am six months or older, when there are at least two vet hospitals in her area (she asked friends about it) that would have spayed me a month ago. Funnily enough, they are low cost/spay neuter programs that mom and dad would not qualify for income wise, but she might just try and talk them into helping her in exchange of donations so they can care for pets whose owners can't afford it.
Mom is discussing with dad ditching Boris' vet long term because of it, so mom understand Velcro's mom frustration... But sometimes you just gotta try harder, and getting mad where the stress doesn't help the cat is not helpful. Like dad says to mom: you can waste time being mad all the time, or use that energy to find a solution. |  |  | |  |
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It's like it wasn't stressed.
