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I don't know what to do anymore, give her away for FREE, euthanize her, emergency spay her?

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Miss Tiny- Burr Burr

gotts the 'tude- of the torti
 
 
Purred: Sat Jul 19, '08 11:13am PST 
Velcro, i think you need to calm down here. putting her to sleep is not acceptable. While i understand spaying her is risky, i would most certainly try. Its a shame she was dealt such bad cards, but you risk her life becoming worse if she gets knocked up with an bad infection. your best bet is to figure out a way to keep her inside until you can find a new vet, and until she is well enough for surgery.

Please don’t get upset. Humane societies do what they can to help a lot of pets, and you have to understand that one person doesn’t make the rules. I’d try calling local rescue groups and see what they can do, but it’s a busy time of year for us and they may be unable to help. You may have to sit down and think of a solution yourself.

And herpes virus is extremely common. Over 95% of cats have had the virus sometime in their life. It just depends on the cat how severely they show signs and how often it reoccurs. And Rhinitis is manageable. I have a spayed female cat that’s going on 12 and she does fine with it. She was a lab cat who was diagnosed with it via biopsy.
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Velcro (In- Loving- Memory)

Fix one save- 1,000 please- spay/neuter!
 
 
Purred: Sat Jul 19, '08 11:36am PST 
Yeah, I realized that I jumped to the extreme shortly after I posted the topic. However, one vet actually recommended euthanasia instead of putting her under the risk of fluid filling her lungs during the spay, and pregnancy, and because of the herpes and being intact "her quality of life may be very poor", and I've had other people say the same trying to guilt me--even though it is not my fault she has herpes, she was a rescue. I stood back though and took a few deep breaths and looked at it, and I could never actually put her to sleep, I had a hard time just putting a cat to sleep who had an incurable tumor who would only live another month even if the surgery to remove it succeeded (we put her down under recommendation of the vet we'd been going to for years), I could never have a cat put to sleep just because of herpes.

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Miss Tiny- Burr Burr

gotts the 'tude- of the torti
 
 
Purred: Sun Jul 20, '08 12:22pm PST 
Risky as it may be, i think i would at least give it a try. But she is your cat, and only you can decide. Sometimes i think vets are a little to "put down" happy these days. confused
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Punkin

*does happy- dance*
 
 
Purred: Sun Jul 20, '08 12:26pm PST 
Hello Velcro! I have Rhinitis... i was a lab cat for EIGHT years and got this viruis during my stay. I am now almost 12 and have a new home away from that horrible lab. While i do get sick from time to time, my life is pretty happy. I even lost 5 pounds ( almost 100 pounds in human weight!) see i was a very big girl from being unhappy, inactive and sick all the time.

Meowy isnt sure if i was spayed before or after my viruis, but she knows this: I had been put under LOTS of times since then (they wanted my Rare B- type blood...meanies) Meowy suggests you seek a second vet and see what they say.
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Velcro (In- Loving- Memory)

Fix one save- 1,000 please- spay/neuter!
 
 
Purred: Sun Jul 20, '08 1:04pm PST 
How absolutely horrible! Poor baby, I am so sorry your kitty had to go through that, but am glad to hear that she is doing better now. I'm going to talk to her regular vet about the spay since she has an appointment on the 24th this month. I'm going to see if they will sign me a note though and then take it over to the humane society for one last try because as I said I do not want my friend to think I'm not doing what we agreed on. I will still pay her back of course but still.
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Panda

TNR for feral- cats!
 
 
Purred: Sun Jul 20, '08 9:02pm PST 
Velcro's Mom:
She can have the surgery now, even when slightly ill, especially considering the circumstances. It is far better to have her spayed b/c of the danger of her getting out and not returning, even if she is pregnant; I would definitely go to another vet or low-cost spay/neuter clinic ( many only charge $30 or less). It is a sad fact that there is a huge pet overpopulation, and it really wouldn't be right to allow her to have kittens. If all else fails, it is far better to take her to a shelter than to have her be miserable and in and out of heat, and you continuing to get stressed over the situation. I would caution you, as someone who has worked in open-admission and no-kill shelters, that just because a shelter is no-kill does not necessarily make it a better option- some are great, and do wonderful work, and are responsible; others don't know there limits, are over-crowded, understaffed, and unsanitary, with animals stuck in cramped conditions for years. I guess I'm saying, even though its difficult, if all else fails I would take her to a RESPONSIBLE open-admission shelter if the no-kills that are reputable and you've seen with your own eyes say they're full- it would be more humane than dragging the situation on indefinitely. Please, do not do a free to good home ad or the like- I'm sure it works out sometimes, but, not to scare you, there are unscrupulous folks out there, even dogfighters who "adopt" cats and other small animals like this to use as bait animals. Good luck, and I hope you'll remember my advice in this difficult time. Things will work out, just stay calm.
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Velcro (In- Loving- Memory)

Fix one save- 1,000 please- spay/neuter!
 
 
Purred: Mon Jul 21, '08 11:35am PST 
If all else fails I have an appointment on August 7 to bring her down to the Oregon Humane Society, I really do not want to go that route but if I may have to if worse comes to worst. They are a no kill shelter and I have been there multiple times to donate and they are a wonderful facility, all you have to do is tell someone there is a smidgeon of poop in a dog's kennel and they are right on it, they even do basic obedience with the dogs before they are adopted; I wish our local humane society could be even half as good as that one.
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Rasha

On the Prowl....
 
 
Purred: Mon Jul 21, '08 12:16pm PST 
I'm so sorry to hear about all the trouble you have gone through. frown The herpes virus can be well maintained with the proper diet and supplementation. Rasha was diagnosed with herpes and since I have done research he hasn't had an outbreak in over a year. We eat only grain free foods, mostly canned and he gets L-lysine when it looks like he may be getting red around the eyes. So far so VERY good.

I hope you are able to find a good solution! hug
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Diego

I'm bringing- sexy back
 
 
Purred: Mon Jul 21, '08 12:31pm PST 
Velcro, mom volunteers at OHS. They are a wonderful group. Let us know if you end up going there so mom can check in on her.
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Velcro (In- Loving- Memory)

Fix one save- 1,000 please- spay/neuter!
 
 
Purred: Mon Jul 21, '08 5:57pm PST 
I'm crying so hard right now, but it's not a bad thing this time, I just got a letter that might just be a mini miracle for me, and Velcro both. I just got a letter from the SSI Office and it implies that I got approved, they had to type it in themselves and it says on a line "If we have asked to talk to you, it is because we need to discuss: your claim for disability has been approved". I hope I'm not mis-understanding. This is great news for Velcro because it means that I will be a lot more financially secure, and of course good for me too because I have multiple psychological disorders and very severe breathing/lack of energy problems (hyperthyroidism related) that keep me from working, and I can start working on getting them treated so that I CAN work (I really want to get a job as a nurse's aid, I like helping others) I'll keep everyone updated.

Thank you thank you thank you to everyone who prayed for us and kept us in their thoughts!!!
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