Postings by Ladybug's Family

GO!

(Page 1 of 3: Viewing entries 1 to 10)  
Page Links: 1  2  3  

Cat Health > Grazie has a mammary tumor ... surgery or no surgery??
Grazie

1128022
 
 
Purred: Sat Nov 1, '14 5:58am PST 
I'm Grazie's mom, and I need some help making a decision. Early last week, I found a small lump on Grazie's belly near a nipple. I had heard of mammary tumors but had hoped it was just a cyst. They aspirated it and came back with the news that it WAS a tumor, but they couldn't really tell if it was malignant or benign. They recommend surgery to remove it.

My husband and I are adamant about making sure that Grazie has a quality life, even if it's not very long. She currently lives with feline ECG, an autoimmune disease caused by an allergy to dust mites. She also has a heart murmur and a chronic goopy eye that they think is viral. Right now she is absolutely fine and being herself. We know that if we do the surgery, we will not continue treatment for cancer, again, because we feel that it's not a quality life for her to be taken to numerous appointments that totally stress her out, and to be poked and prodded. (Please no one take offense for our beliefs; we have no judgment for any decisions that people make for themselves and their kitties...we all do what we feels right to us).

So as it is now, we know that she has an 85% chance of this being malignant, which we're not going to treat. For that reason, it makes me wonder if surgery is worth it. I fear that surgery might actually hasten her demise because of the stress on her body.

IF it's benign, then maybe it won't grow quickly and she could still have a comfortable period of time with us. OR, if it's benign, maybe it makes MORE sense to have surgery, since removing it should remove the problem (although the vet says they often grow back).

I feel like I'm currently guaranteed time with my baby that is happy and comfortable for her. The minute I choose surgery (which I've scheduled for next Thursday), all guarantees are off.

Grazie is only 6, and we've had her for 4 years, and they've been great years. Quality is so much more important to me than quantity.

Can any of you give me your thoughts about this surgery? What might it actually gain Grazie? What are the benefits to HER??

Thanks so much!!
[notify]

» There has since been 1 post. Last posting by Maizy , Nov 8 3:09 pm

Behavior & Training > Cat introduction update
Ladybug

1270736
 
 
Purred: Sun Oct 21, '12 10:20am PST 
Okay, so after a bad introduction, I've kept Grazie (older cat) and Ladybug (new cat) separated for a week. They eat meals on either side of a glass door and they seem to do this peacefully enough. They have played through the door as well (I have opened it a crack), and it's mostly peaceful although if they get into a staredown, Ladybug will hiss. Grazie seems nonplussed at the hissing.

Today I finally opened the door and let Grazie into the same room as Ladybug. At first, they weren't close to each other but then, just as had happened prior to the re-introduction, Grazie chased Ladybug under the bed and Ladybug started hissing. There was no physical fight at that time, but I was anxious because in the past it always let to a physical altercation, so I immediately separated them.

Tonight I will feed them again from either side of the door, but should I start putting them in the same room more often and for longer periods at this point? What if Grazie just chases Ladybug back under the couch, and she's hissing and Grazie is all aggitated? Do I leave them be unless it gets out of control? Before the re-intro, every time Grazie saw Ladybug, she chased her into a corner or under the couch, and there might be a bit of a violent scuffle with, of course, the worst noise ever.

I'm trying to be patient but right now I'm not sure of the next steps or how long to continue with each step, you know?

Does anyone have further words of wisdom?? Thank you!
[notify]

» There has since been 2 posts. Last posting by , Oct 23 7:47 am


Behavior & Training > Introducting a new cat

Ladybug

1270736
 
 
Purred: Tue Oct 9, '12 1:56pm PST 
It is helpful to see a post about having all girls in the house. So there's hope. The funny thing is... my first cats, Whatnot (f) and Fiddlehead (m) lived fairly peacefully together for 15 years. But occasionally one or the other would instigate a rip roaring fight, leaving fur all over the place. Because it didn't happen all the time, it didn't bother me to the extent that I worry about Ladybug not working out. But you've both helped me out with your responses...thanks. I will post updates. Maybe I will have Ladybug start a blog so folks can follow. Thanks again.
[notify]

» There has since been 0 posts. Last posting by Ladybug, Oct 9 1:56 pm


Behavior & Training > Introducting a new cat

Ladybug

1270736
 
 
Purred: Tue Oct 9, '12 5:34am PST 
It's been a week. I've not heard from anyone. frown Things are interesting here. Ladybug pretty much stays in my bedroom and office, where she feels safest. If Grazie sees her, she chases her and then there is hissing, growling, and batting, and sometimes full on wrestling. But this morning after the hissing standoff after the chase, Grazie ran out of the room. Both cats have pheromone collars on. I am hoping that if they both smell each other and they smell alike, maybe that will help things simmer down. It's been 10 days...and I know sometimes they say it can take months, so I'm trying hard to be patient. Would love some encouragement, though!
[notify]

» There has since been 3 posts. Last posting by Ladybug, Oct 9 1:56 pm


Behavior & Training > Introducting a new cat

Ladybug

1270736
 
 
Purred: Wed Oct 3, '12 2:04pm PST 
I know this is a common issue but I need a bit of support and reassurance. I brought home a new kitty on Saturday. I jumped the gun a bit and let Ladybug (1-year-old female) out into the house with Grazie, my 4-year-old female was around. For a day, everything seemed quite good...sniffing and some growling and hissing but nothing big. Then last night and this morning, there was an all out attack (well, a chase...no blood was shed; I'm not even sure they touched, but the noise was horrible and I was so afraid for Ladybug!). I was able to distract Grazie rather easily (in this situation) to move away and then got a water bottle to keep her away. I'm now taking a step back and starting over with the introduction. I'm a bit impatient but am hoping this will work out because Ladybug is such a love and I don't want to have to bring her back to the shelter. They're separated now and tomorrow I will try to be good and keep them separated but this little part in me keeps thinking that the next time Grazie chases Ladybug into a corner and makes all those horrible noises, as long as there is no physical fighting, I need to let it run its course (standing close by, of course). I think I get a little freaked out because I'm so worried, like I said, that Ladybug will be hurt. Can someone give me some reassurance that it's still VERY early and things could turn around? Help! cry

p.s. Is there a way to set it so that it's not a pet author but a person author?
[notify]

» There has since been 4 posts. Last posting by Ladybug, Oct 9 1:56 pm

Saying Goodbye: Memorials & Support > Whatnot has crossed over
Fiddlehead

698982
 
 
Purred: Tue Dec 8, '09 7:21pm PST 
To Tyler et al.,

What was more horrifying is that we lost them one day apart, not two months apart. However, Fiddlehead, our remaining cat, is doing very well, which is keeping us going right now.
[notify]

» There has since been 0 posts. Last posting by , Dec 8 7:21 pm


Cat Health > Vick's Vapor Inhaler

Fiddlehead

698982
 
 
Purred: Thu Nov 26, '09 7:12pm PST 
Has anyone used this with cats? Is it safe?

http://www.vicks.com/products/vapor-inhaler

I was thinking that it doesn't actually put medicine in their noses so maybe it would be helpful, but of course I don't want to use anything that might be dangerous.

Thoughts?
[notify]

» There has since been 10 posts. Last posting by Lucky, Dec 6 7:35 pm


Cat Health > Fiddlehead's URI

Fiddlehead

698982
 
 
Purred: Thu Nov 26, '09 7:06pm PST 
Whoops, the above post was supposed to be from Fiddlehead. smile
[notify]

» There has since been 11 posts. Last posting by Namerovsky, Nov 30 4:41 am


Cat Health > Fiddlehead's URI

Whatnot (1994-2009)

698985
 
 
Purred: Thu Nov 26, '09 7:05pm PST 
It makes me so hopeful to hear from others who have dealt with this and come out the other side. How long can it take for the illness to run its course?

He's on antibiotics (azithromycin) and I just started Lysine today...I bought 500mg caplets at CVS and crushed them and put it in water. I only got about half down him before he clearly stated he was done, but it's a start. He's trying very hard to rest. Also very clingy...really wants to sit on my lap constantly! Maybe he'll finally make it over the hump soon!
[notify]

» There has since been 12 posts. Last posting by Namerovsky, Nov 30 4:41 am

Cat Health > Fiddlehead's URI
Fiddlehead

698982
 
 
Purred: Thu Nov 26, '09 3:32pm PST 
Thanks for the responses. I can't say that Fiddlehead is any better, but he's not necessarily worse. He is congested more than drippy today, which seems to be more exhausting, but he also seems to have figured out that he is alone, missing his sister and brother. He is following me around everywhere. He acts like he wants to eat but then shows no interest. I did get all of his meds and baby food and water into him. I talked to the vet about L-Lysine and I bought some, but it has to be compounded or I guess I just mush up the capsule and then mix that up with water and use a syringe (I have TONS of those from past meds I've had to give). I'm making some baked chicken now to see if he'll have any.

I've also been trying some warm compresses on his face and nose. He seems to enjoy that a little. And we sat in the bathroom for 15 minutes with the shower on super hot for moisture.

Thanks for the hope that he can get through this. I hope so!
[notify]

» There has since been 16 posts. Last posting by Namerovsky, Nov 30 4:41 am

(Page 1 of 3: Viewing entries 1 to 10)  
Page Links: 1  2  3  

PLEASE NOTE: Due to the rapid nature of forum postings, it's quite possible our calculation of the number of ensuing forum posts may be off by one or two or more at any given moment.