 Purred: Sat Mar 23, '13 9:41pm PST |
 | |  | | You know, I am still having having hard days. Stormy was in 2010, Baybee was just this last July and my Baby Girl, Pouncer shortly after in November (she was too sudden even at 13)
I have ink for Stormy and Baybee, I need to get Pouncer's done - I HAVE to find Stormy's photos - my gosh she was a funny cat. esp when it came to her toy (which is with her under the rose bush) She may have been and itty bitty kitty but darn she had teeth like a rottie!
When I had to put Baybee down - I didnt even know anyone in my vets office anymore - when the main vet retired they changed the whole staff - only 2 people (mother/daughter) team were left - they are the ones who took me back. They remembered Baybee when she had her surgery. All the old staff knew Baybee - I still have the letter, somewhere from the vet saying they were sorry she died. I miss that crazy cat - Isis looks a lot like her
Pouncer - my first real kitty (out door strays tho I'll have a ton at the bridge they don't count b/c I was not allowed to bring them inside) I remember when she was a few months old and she fell out the 2nd floor window and the apt complex was mad b/c I made them put the childproof screens in for a cat. A friend said I was nut b/c I didn't want to go to a club b/c I wanted to find my cat. It took a day but I found her!! Her birthday is coming up. She would have been 14. No one can ever replace her.
i still cry for them - I can't help it. I miss them too much. I wish they were not gone. They had their time here on earth and they had their reason to leave. but they will always be in my heart (and on my arm) |  |  | |  |
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I am so sorry for both of Your Families loss's. It will take time to get over this. I really don't think We really fully ever do. It does get easier though. I can see how much You loved Adam and Lilo. It's hard now but sometime You will be able to think of the Good Times You shared and smile. For right it's OK to cry that's normal. Just remember it takes time to heal. I will keep You and Your families in My Prayers. 
Crying is a normal reaction as is denial, anger and so many other emotions it's almost impossible to believe it when others say time heals but trust us it's true. Asking God to give you the strength you need to get through this most difficult time
Like You said in the other thread that thanks to Stormy You now have Zeus who is helping You with Your life every day. When You look at Zeus You can see Him as a gift from Stormy to help You in ways She could not. 