Purred: Tue Jan 26, '10 7:09am PST |
 |  |  |  | January 26, 2010
Now some of the scribes were sitting there, questioning in their hearts, “Why does this man speak thus? It is blasphemy! Who can forgive sins, but God alone?”
Mark 2:6-7 (RSV)
When I was divorced some years ago, I needed the love and support of my old high school youth-group leaders. I hadn’t seen them in years and was living in another state, but when I contacted them I was in for a rude awakening. Their harsh condemnation was crushing, and ever after I carried a deep sense of grief and loss.
Last year I returned to Arizona, where I went to high school, for the first time in thirty-eight years. When Gwen, one of the youth-group leaders, heard I was coming, she said that she wanted to see me. I was surprised—and I wasn’t all that sure I wanted to see her.
Waiting for her at my friend Carol’s house, I paced the floor. I’d determined I wasn’t going to let the occasion pass without telling her about my feelings, but I wasn’t sure how to handle it. I’d never stopped loving Gwen, and her condemnation was a badly healed scar.
To my surprise, when Gwen came up the walk, I saw her beautiful smile, a smile I’ve never forgotten and which has come back to me over the years in the most unexpected moments. She gave me a well-remembered hug, and before I could catch my breath, she gave me a warm and weepy apology. Her words to me had been bothering her for years, she said, and she was so grateful to God for giving her the opportunity to tell me how sorry she was. “I was young, I was brainless, I followed the script. Will you forgive me?” she asked.
Forgive Gwen? Refuse a gift I never expected? Sometimes forgiveness is so easy.
Thank You, God, for never forgetting our grief and loss, and for the healing power of forgiveness born of You.
By Brenda Wilbee |  |  |  |  |
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