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Hard Decisions to Make

Whether a cat dies, is lost or stolen, or must be placed in a new home, this is the place to gather together to give and receive love and support when you experience the loss of a beloved cat.

  
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Squeakers- (Gone Too- Soon)

Furever my love
 
 
Purred: Fri Dec 9, '11 1:53pm PST 
I suppose if you've read Sandy's diary, you know this, but if you haven't: Tuesday night, My Mommy, Sandy's Mistress saw that Sandy was bleeding from her forehead. At first, after freaking out, Mistress tried to stop the blood and see if Sandy just cut herself, but it was bleeding much more than a cut. She got it to stop temporarily, then the next morning, took Sandy to the vet (read Sandy's diary for details).
The vet told Mommy that Sandy has nasal cancer, and that it didn't seem to show up on the x-rays they took back in June.
Sandy is also fading away, she has lost at least 3 lbs in the past year, even though she does eat, but not as much as she used to.
The vet said that Sandy could live up to 6 months, and that she wouldn't be in any pain, but that Mommy would have to put Sandy to sleep...soon. She said that Sandy could live from two weeks to 6 months, but since Mommy can't drive, she doesn't want Sandy to leave for the Bridge while at home. Her Mom says that she should take Sandy in for that very last vet appointment before Christmas, and Mistress thinks that might be a good idea so that Mommy doesn't spend the time worrying about Sandy.
It's also very hard for Mommy, though, since her and Sandy are so very close, to just set a date, which she has to do so that she doesn't have to worry about vet's time, transportation and not being alone. Her friend Jen said that she could make an appointment for this Monday, but Mommy wants to be with her Mom, and her Mom won't be in town that day, plus, as long as Sandy's not in pain, she would like to spend some more time with her, but she doesn't want to do it so close to Christmas.

*sigh* She's having a hard time, and I know that Sandy knows she has to leave soon, and doesn't mind, all she's worried about is Mommy. cry
It wasn't easy when I left either, but Mommy had Sandy to make her feel a little bit better. Now Mommy will come home to a kitty-less apartment. I think her Mom might have her stay at her house for a little while.
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Shannara

I'm just an- innocent little- girl

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Purred: Fri Dec 9, '11 7:24pm PST 
Oh dear, Squeakers -- we're so sorry!

Kitten cuddles for your Mom,
Shannara, Sterling, Shade and Sundance

cryhugcryhugcryhugcryhug

Athena (In- Memory)

Purrs and Love- to Mom and- Toulouse

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Purred: Fri Dec 9, '11 7:35pm PST 
We love Sandy!

Purrs and Love from Athena hug
Love ya, Sandy! from Apollo hug
Purrs and Peace from Aragorn hug


Alex (sweet- angel girl)

Angel on a- mission!
 
 
Purred: Fri Dec 9, '11 7:38pm PST 
We're so sorry you're family is going through this difficult time. frown
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Cheyanne

♥ Simbas Lucky- Wife! ♥
 
 
Purred: Fri Dec 9, '11 9:04pm PST 
I'm so sorry, Squeak, this is such a terrible thing and so close to Christmas too. cry

Your mum and Sandy will be in our purrs for sure.

Purrs & Pounces,
~Chey & fam~
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BABA MY- ANGEL

wanna play!
 
 
Purred: Sat Dec 10, '11 1:43am PST 
hugcat on moon
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Patch

Patch - wallpaper- stripper
 
 
Purred: Sat Dec 10, '11 2:27am PST 
You poor mite. hughughughughughug For you and your mom. I am sure in time you will guide a poor kitty in need of a home to your moms door.xxxxxx
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CeeCee Ryder- Knowles

Go Cee Cee- Ryder!!!!
 
 
Purred: Sat Dec 10, '11 4:42am PST 
Dear Sandy's Mom,

What a difficult place to be in.

As the eternal hope springs up and mommy barges in where angels fear to tread....is there any possibility that Sandy could be taken for a second opinion?

That said, this situation sounds grave.

If it were Mommy, she would look at us, and try to decide what our 'quality of life' is. When we read Sandy's diary, it sort of scared us, too!

As you so well know, cats are great hiders of when somethings going wrong. We can disguise so many things.

Is there any treatment, and medication that would help give you a bit of extra time?

It seems such a hard thing to do, right before Christmas.

That said, sometimes our people suffer so..they so love us, and want what's best. And sometimes they get stuck between a rock and a hard place.

No matter what, please know we are purring very hard for you here!

love,

Cee Cee Ryder

and my family still on the third rock from the sun....
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Angel Sandy

Always an Angel
 
 
Purred: Sat Dec 10, '11 11:50am PST 
Thanks everypurr, for all your thoughts and purrs. Mistress has decided on a date. See, she has a harder decision. Not just a date. She can't just go to the calendar and say "Okay, I'm free on this date. I guess that's when I can take her in." She can't drive, and she wants her mom to be there with her through those last moments. Since her mom is a flight attendant, she only has certain days at home. So, Mistress has to pick one, and of course, the vet has to be able to do it that day too.

Soooo....unless the vet can't do it that day, Mistress has decided on this Wednesday. cry That way, she'd have one last week with me. Besides she wants to talk to Dr. Kat, giving her a report on how I'm doing, see what she has to say.

but I understand the "quality of life" thing. Dr. Kat brought that up to Mistress in June. She doesn't want to keep me alive just for her and have me be miserable and have me just float away.
Which is possible, I'm only 4 lbs now!

Her aunt told her "Well, if she could live six months, and the vet says she's not in any pain, you have a few months to decide."
Well...yeah, but NO! Mistress doesn't want my last days/weeks/months to be miserable. Besides, I could just "leave for the Bridge" one night, at home...then what would she do? The vet said anywhere from 2 weeks to 6 months...it could be under two weeks for all we know!

And anyway, how does the vet know that I'm not in any pain? That's what Older Mistress asked Mistress. I possibly could be. I have, like little meat on my bones, even lying down and standing up could be painful!

So Mistress did realize that keeping me alive for her would be selfish on her part.

And anyway, we'll always be together. In memories. Besides...and this may sound strange, but serious cat lovers will understand...Mistress and I can communicate telepathically...we've done it before...we can do it again...and again...and again!

I'm really gonna miss her...and I know she's REALLY gonna miss me. But it's something that has to happen. We've had over four wonderful years together.
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Natasha

Princess Forever
 
 
Purred: Sat Dec 10, '11 5:39pm PST 
Sandy.....Your mom is so concerned about you. My mom knew my time was about up. I hid it well until I stopped eating. Your weight is so scary. I had lost only four ounces but my weight was because of the water that my body was holding. I am glad that she, her daughter, ahd husband were there to see me get my wings. My mom had a difficult week but she is doing better each day knowing that I am out of discomfort.
Your mom is being good to you and trying to make the best of her times with you. You and she were lucky to have found each....May your passing be peaceful and with your family as mine was....We are here for you.....
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