|Purred: Sun May 15, '11 8:58pm PST |
|Oh Charlie that sounds beautiful! See Nikki? We all kind of have the same idea. I like the garden spot because it can be a place to go and reflect and mom feels that seeing beautiful flowers grow in my name, brings new life to the earth. I'm not buried, I'm in an urn next to her bed. But it doesn't matter. It can be anything and anywhere you like as long as you know its for her.
You could do a nice little display in your house too. Like a picture table with a poem there and a candle and then light that candle at a certain time and talk to her. We all have our ways of coping with those anniversaries. For my mom it was tougher last year, which was the second year. It hit her a lot harder then for some reason.
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