Only The Good Die Young

Missing Charlie

June 7th 2013 12:20 am
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For some reason, both me and my dog pal Whitley have been DDPs for our entries about Charlie. It are kinda sad, because we are not in da celebrating mood. So as much as I'd normally appreciate them, please don't send any rosettes and save your zealies for another time.

I's been missing Charlie. I liked having da little orange dude around - he was real cute. I've been hanging out in his room lately and spending lotsa time with my oldest girl and trying to make her feel a little better. It are hard though. Everyone is just so sad. Maurice keeps looking for him, I don't think he really understands what happened.

It just really stinks because Charlie did not really get a chance. He was da sweetest guy and he deserved a lot better than he got outta life. Yeah, dis year was good. But next year woulda been better - he wouldn't have had to adjust to moving and dealing with all of the new animals and people here. It was like he were a flower that were just starting to blossom and somebody knocked down the flower before anyone got to see it in its full glory. He still wasn't completely comfortable in the living room, but he was starting to come out more and more.

We're all still missing him a lot.

 
Purred by: ♥ Anna ♥ (Catster Member)

June 7th 2013 at 2:36 am

We will honor your request for no rosies Jezebel but we do send lots of love and gentle hugs at this sad time. quiet purrs Anna
Purred by: Sandi G

June 7th 2013 at 3:40 am

I know you miss your orange dood:( All I can do is send you lots of hugs and cuppycake kisses and hope that it helps with the pain from your loss. Hang in there my friend, Love, tate
Purred by: Phantom -- Dreamboat # 113 (Catster Member)

June 7th 2013 at 4:40 am

Concats on the DDP but so sad to lose a close friend. I know what that's like. We miss Charlie too but he's feeling better now and able to eat and play again.

Hugs and purrs
Phantom
Purred by: MILO BLUE EYES DB# 73 (Catster Member)

June 7th 2013 at 5:12 am

Sweet Jezzie, we're still so sad 'bout losin' Charlie. Iz alwayz nice to get DDP but iz hard to be'z happy or to catebrate. We love'z U all 'n know Charlie will always be in our hearts to stay~!! xox
Purred by: North Carolina Familia (Catster Member)

June 7th 2013 at 6:15 am

We understand how you all feel, we're missing Aggie very much and haven't quiet adjusted to not having her around. The pawrents talk about her all the time and try not to cry in front of us 'cause it upsets up, but we know the tears fall as they do in your home for your sweet orangie Charlie.

We send your family soft paw pats and healing purrs.
Maggie, Claw, Purrcilla, Stryder and Angel Aggie
Purred by: Captain Morgan, Dreamboat #6 (Catster Member)

June 7th 2013 at 6:32 am

Me heart goes out tah yee, me heartie. Tis hard tah deal wit the loss of a shipmate. I've heard tales ah fur-ends lookin' fur thar brethren for years later. Tis a right painful thing, and I be sorry yee be going through these hard times.

Twas in a hard time fur me crew (At the loss of Chester) that me Swabbie Mum came home wit Scallywag Sparkman... I not be sure what be the right thing tah heal a broken heart, but I offer the suggestion tah let in a new crew mate.
Purred by: Tristan (Catster Member)

June 7th 2013 at 6:43 am

I sure do understand because of losing m brother Ethan. I still miss him too. I don't think much I can say will really help but know we do understand. Sending you some purrs.
Purred by: Samoa - Diva Angel (Catster Member)

June 7th 2013 at 7:59 am

I'm so sorry that you all are sad about Charlie. We are sad too. He was lucky to have love in his life - you have to remember that! You might not feel like celebrating your diary pick today, but the Diary Gal wants to honor Charlie's life too, so let's celebrate the pawsome cat that Charlie was and the fact that we all got to know him through Catster!
Purred by: WeBeesSiameezers (Catster Member)

June 7th 2013 at 8:00 am

Yes it is so disconcerting when you put your grief and thoughts here for others to read and think about, and then you get honored for it, while all you want to do is have your sweet Charlie back with you...and you so bravely bared your soul...
Meowmy says its good to put it down on paper, better thsn not getting it out.
Many years ago, Groucho who was elderly at the time, lost 'his' Simba, and he woud pace the house searching and meyowling fur him to come out. That seems to be what is happening.
Then when Groucho went to the R.B. we took his body home and let the other furs present sniff at him...and they did, and then there was no mourning that meowmy could tell so much.

For You...
Some orange flowers in Charlie's honor and memory...

We are thinking a lot of you all, and send our love and huge hugs and of course, lots of purrs.

(( ♥ ))
Purred by: Alex (sweet angel girl) (Catster Member)

June 7th 2013 at 8:33 am

Oh Jezzy, we're so sad for you and your family. It must be so lonely without him there. it's not fair, I know. I wish I had a better explanation for it but I don't. Life is just that way sometimes unfortunately. You and your mom should cuddle each other extra.
Purred by: Henry (Catster Member)

June 7th 2013 at 10:16 am

Sending purrs of lurvs to you....So sorry ya miss the little dude. We miss him too...
Henry
Purred by: ♥Friday DB #170♥ (Catster Member)

June 7th 2013 at 10:24 am

Jezebel we understand how you feel~it took Meomwy a ver long time to heal from Buddy

And your right, it just isn't fair when Charlie was still blossoming ~ but maybe the great Creator needed Charlie to finish opening up and be in full blossom up at Rainbow Bridge

When your ready there will be another kibbie who will need your love and help just as much as Charlie needed you!!~Charlie paved the way and showed you what love can do!!

Keeping all of you in our thoughts and prayers

Hugs and Tender Thoughts
Friday and Meowmy Mary
Purred by: Blue II (Catster Member)

June 7th 2013 at 11:01 am

Jezebel, I ama so sowwy dat you're missing Charlie so much. I unnerstand what yer going through. When my sisfur Ruby crossed ofur de Bridge, I was inconsolable. I looked all ofur de house and yowled for her to come out for months. I was young, and I didn't unnerstand dat she was at de Bridge, and she was healthy and young again. Maybe yer mom will adopt anofur brofur for yous. When my pawrents adopted my two liddle sisfurs, I finally quit searching for Ruby. Maybe anofur sibling would do you good. Charlie left some big paws to fill. No fur can efur replace him, but adopting anofur fur in Charlie's memory could be healing for yer family. We are sending you and yer mom a boatload of hugs and kissies at dis sad time to help yous feel better. Rest in peace sweet Charlie...

Sad Purrs,

Blue II and Furmily
P.S. Concats on yer DDP!
Purred by: Queen Tallulah Angel Dreamgirl (Catster Member)

June 7th 2013 at 12:48 pm

All we can say is you are in our thoughts and prayers, we all miss Charlie, he is with all of us kitty angels watching over our families...

grieving is the hardest thing we are humans have to do when we lose our precious kitties and we all grieve in our own way.

Just know we are all here and most of us have been where you are and it isn't easy for any of us...

Angel Purrs and hugs, sending you butterflies from heaven...if you see one know it is from Charlie!!!

QT and Mom
Purred by: ❤ BonnieBell ❤ (Catster Member)

June 7th 2013 at 1:33 pm

We're so sad & sorry at the same time too.....we understand your pain.....
Gentle hugs and purrs to you and your family!
BonnieBell
Purred by: ♥Simon♥ (Catster Member)

June 7th 2013 at 1:40 pm

Sending some purrs of comfort and hoping you have brighter days ahead. Charlie was a good furiend and will always watch over you and your family!

Hugs and purrs,
Simon & Reuben(an angel)
Purred by: Rex (Catster Member)

June 7th 2013 at 3:41 pm

Sweet jezebel we are sending you lots of purrs.
Purred by: Penelope (Catster Member)

June 7th 2013 at 4:30 pm

Sending purrs and purrayers for comfort. So sorry you have to deal with this deep a sadness and loss. :'(
Purred by: Midnight - DG #9 (Catster Member)

June 7th 2013 at 5:07 pm

Sending your lot of purrs. Concats for being a DDP!
Purred by: Midnight - DG #9 (Catster Member)

June 7th 2013 at 5:07 pm

Sending you lot of purrs. Concats for being a DDP!
Purred by: Mayhem (Catster Member)

June 7th 2013 at 6:12 pm

Tender pats...gentle whisker kisses and silents purrs, my friend.
Purr...
>^..^< Mayhem
Purred by: Rose (Catster Member)

June 7th 2013 at 7:12 pm

Congrats on your DDP. Sending lots of love and hugs to your family.
Purred by: Miko ~ DB 111b (Catster Member)

June 7th 2013 at 11:19 pm

Jezebel ~ Sending many meezer purrs to you and your family. Charlie was a very special kitty and we are all going to miss him. We know he is watching over you and your family. May you take comfort in the memories that he left you with.

Loving Purrs,
Miko & The "M" Crew
Purred by: Monida (Catster Member)

June 7th 2013 at 11:48 pm

Sending your lots of purrs, hugs and love. We're so very sorry.
Purred by: Kallie (Catster Member)

June 8th 2013 at 5:59 am

We're so sorry for you sweet Jezzy. We're sending you and your Mom lots of purrs and love. take care my furiends
Purred by: Daisy Angel (Catster Member)

June 8th 2013 at 6:20 am

We send our hugs and purrs too. May the memories give you comfort.
Purred by: Tigger (Catster Member)

June 8th 2013 at 11:53 am

We feel so very bad for you all. It surely is so hard, and the days drag on, you feel like it is a nightmare from which you cannot wake-up. I am so sure that Charlie would have bloomed into an even more awesome orangey boy, as orangey boys are sweet as honey. It takes time for your heart to heal, and even then it will still have Charlie's little pawprint there. We send you so much love. Tigger, Maizy, Smitty & Felix & Momma too. xo ((hugs))
Purred by: Marmelade DB #98 (Catster Member)

June 8th 2013 at 5:56 pm

My heart is with you Jezebel. I know how you feel; I was so sad when I lost my brofers Bob and Tigger last year. We send our love to your family.

Marmie
Purred by: Calie Dreamette #17 (Catster Member)

June 8th 2013 at 11:33 pm

sending all our love too wish we could help make this time easier.... when my sisterfur Alley had to go I almost went into kitty depression and mom had to work with me a lot to get me kinda back to my normal catsonalitity. Give your mom and your girl lots and lots of extra love it sure helped both mom and I to get through the pain.
Charlie makes my mom think of moma Ivey so sweet and deserved so much more than they got from this life. We have to take comfort that in the end of life on this earth there was no doubt they knew they were loved. (((((hugs)))
Purred by: Alexander, Dreamboat #110 (Catster Member)

June 9th 2013 at 4:42 am

I know how you feel. I did miss my sweet Natasha but we were fortunate to have her for a full life time. Perhaps, Charlie will make a return visit to you as we believe that they do. This time, he will be with you longer.
It was good that you met and had such loving time together....hugs to all.
Purred by: Alexander, Dreamboat #110 (Catster Member)

June 9th 2013 at 4:43 am

I know how you feel. I did miss my sweet Natasha but we were fortunate to have her for a full life time. Perhaps, Charlie will make a return visit to you as we believe that they do. This time, he will be with you longer.
It was good that you met and had such loving time together....hugs to all.
Purred by: Zachery Tristan (Catster Member)

June 9th 2013 at 10:49 am

My darling, I feel your pain in what you wrote. It takes time hun as you know. And I understand the what ifs coming into play. That's natural too.

Just know you and your family are still and will always be in our purrs.
Purred by: Calísta (Catster Member)

June 9th 2013 at 3:37 pm

OH Jez, we feel so sad. I mourned Fig; and I still miss him. Stash misses Louden... mom misses them both... it's just so hard to loose the ones we love. Just know we are thinking of you and your family & mom.

 

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