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Watching over my grandma

March 11th 2013 7:24 pm
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I am here with my Mom helping her as she is now going through a hard time. This past weekend my grandma, Mom's Mom went into the hospital. She was running a fever and she has a UTI...I must tell you that she has had Lewy Body Dementia, it has progressed very fast and she is going down hill...when anyone tries to move her and does anything for her she cries out, she no longer recognizes Mom or anyone, blank look.

So Mom and I were with her yesterday a case worker came in to talk to Mom and she decided we need to have a hospice nurse come in and talk to Mom. Today Mom and her 2 daughters went to the hospital to visit with Grandma and meet with the nurse.

All decided it was best to have Grandma go to the hospice home, she will be kept comfortable, no measures will be made to keep her alive, she has the DNR. She still isn't eating and only drinks little sips. Mom isn't sure if she will pull through or if it will be a matter of time.

I came to Mom to tell her Mom I am with your Mom I am laying with her and if it is her time I will be there with her Mom & Dad to take her to heaven.

This is very hard on my Mom, they always did things together, but Mom knows this is best because it is taking it's toll on Mom.

We just wanted you all to know because you have always been here for all of us and know Mom will need you all again...please pray for my Mom and my grandma during this hard time that my Mom is having to face again...letting a love one go...

Mom may not be here much, but like I told her this is a good place to come even if for a short time.

Now I really must go give my Mom angel hugs and go be with my Grandma while Mom can't be there...

Sending butterflies from heaven
QT

 
Purred by: Mugsy (Catster Member)

March 12th 2013 at 2:45 am

Oh QT, we are purring fur your mom, and her mom. What a hard thing to go through. Whatever the outcome, your mom will get throught it, because she has you watching over her and all her loved ones. We will keep you all in our purrayers.
Purred by: ♥Simon♥ (Catster Member)

March 12th 2013 at 3:05 am

So very sorry to hear this news about your grandma. It's never an easy thing to go through and we are glad you are by your mom's side. We send are purrs and prayers your family's way!

Hugs and purrs,
Simon & Reuben(an angel)
Purred by: WeBeesSiameezers (Catster Member)

March 12th 2013 at 3:06 am

These are difficult times indeed. Hospice measure are wonderfur and in meowmy's experience all of the workers do so much loving care for their charges. Time and time again, she sees these life stories playing out before her, and the most peaceful ones are those with the hospice girls right there, they keep constant vigil when necessary.
Meowmy works in a nursing facility, and we work side by side with hospice when necessary.
I think you have made a loving decision, and though it never easy to watch life ebb away, take comfort in all the beautiful memeories you have had in times gone by. May the Lord of all comfort sustain you and your family at this time.
Meowmy and us, too, will send lots of purrs and pawyers on your behalf.

QT, you are doing a marvelous job, watching and loving your Grandma. She will know you as soon as she sees you...

((((( ♥ ♥ ♥ )))))
Purred by: BooBoo Kitty Angel DG #28 (Catster Member)

March 12th 2013 at 3:26 am

Oh sweet sweet angel, take care of your mom and your grandma. Mom will send up some prayer so sorry to hear this news. This is such a difficult time big hugs to your mom
Purred by: Skylar db#39A (Catster Member)

March 12th 2013 at 3:53 am

Awwww QT, we will keep your Mom and Grandma in our purrs and prayers. Hospice will be a great help emotionally, spiritually and in lots of other ways too. Hugs and purrs from all of us.
Purred by: Alex (sweet angel girl) (Catster Member)

March 12th 2013 at 4:38 am

Oh Queen T. Your mommy is so wonderful! We'll purr our hearts out for her and for your grammy. We love you and your mom so much Tallulah. Sending you both purrs of comfort and a big hug for your mommy.
XXOO
Purred by: Calísta (Catster Member)

March 12th 2013 at 4:59 am

We are thinking of your mom and her mom, and the whole family. We are so sorry your mom has to go through this. Sending purrs of comfort her way...
Purred by: ♥ Jezebel RIP ♥ (Catster Member)

March 12th 2013 at 5:42 am

Sending lots of purrs for your mom and grandma.
Purred by: ♥ Princess ♥ (Catster Member)

March 12th 2013 at 11:53 am

We will Keep Your Family in Our Prayers.
Purred by: ♥Buddy♥ My Angel (Catster Member)

March 12th 2013 at 1:20 pm

We will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers. Such a time as this is never easy. Love and memories will help. Above all, love will always be there.
Purred by: Rex (Catster Member)

March 12th 2013 at 2:38 pm

We are so sorry to hear this very sad news my sweet QT. We will be purring for your mom and her mom. You are in our thoughts and in our hearts.

Love Rex
Purred by: Stripey Sweet Angel (Catster Member)

March 12th 2013 at 4:26 pm

Sending many purrs to your Mom and Grandma.

She knows you are watching over both of them as you always do.

That is certainly comforting at such a difficult time.

XOXO
Purred by: Angel Soc Dreamboat #56 (Catster Member)

March 12th 2013 at 6:03 pm

Oh QT our hearts go out to you all,my mum has just been through the exact same with her mom too but sadly grandma is now here with me,mom knows exactly how you all must be feeling right now and we all send you much love and comforting prayers
Big ((Hugs)) Angel Soc and mommy Sandra xoxoxo
Purred by: Callie (Catster Member)

March 12th 2013 at 6:23 pm

Sending lots of comforting purrs to your Mom and Grandma. They are so lucky to have a wonderful angel like you keeping watch.
Purred by: Sigmund - Angel DB #58A (Catster Member)

March 12th 2013 at 6:54 pm

Purrs and prayers to your Mom and Grandma.

Hugs,
Siggy
Purred by: Kitty Pryde (Catster Member)

March 12th 2013 at 7:13 pm

Purrrring fur your furmily! You're such a wonderpurrr angel!
Purred by: WeBeesSiameezers (Catster Member)

March 12th 2013 at 7:25 pm

It appears that Dary Gal is sending her pawyers, too...as she made you a DD, today, QT!
Here are some beautifur blooms as well:
DDP CONGRATS!
Sending more purrs and hugs.
Pipo & Minko
Purred by: Miss Muppet Forever Loved (Catster Member)

March 12th 2013 at 9:36 pm

My grammie got real sick and was in the hospital for a very long time. Finally she went to hospice. Mama said it was so nice. The room was very large with lots of privacy, and she and grampster could stay with grammie as much as they wanted. It was the most peaceful place. Grammie was only there for a week before she crossed the bridge, but the people who work at hospice are very special. Has your mom ever heard of a booklet called "Gone from My Sight?" It only takes a short time to read, but it contains some lovely thoughts. It is recommended by many hospice counselors. I think it would give your mom some peace.

(Angel) Missy Mups
Purred by: Hazel Mazel (Mazie) (Catster Member)

March 12th 2013 at 9:47 pm

purrs and prayers
Purred by: Midnight - DG #9 (Catster Member)

March 12th 2013 at 11:49 pm

I'm so sorry to hear this sad news. Mom understands on what your mom is going through right now. Mom went through the same thing with my grandpa. Both my grandparents had dementia.
My grandma passed away in October of 2011. She went into cardiac arrest. My grandpa passed away January 16 of this year...due to the fact that he lost the will to live. He stop eating and drinking. He wanted to be with my grandma. He was on Hospice. We are sending your mom lots of love and prayers.
Concats for being a DDP.
Purred by: ♥Kally Kat♥ (Catster Member)

March 13th 2013 at 2:11 am

Dearest QT Angel Dreamgirl,

We love you so much & will be praying for you at this delicate time.

When we are young children or even young adults we never think of Dementia at all much.
Then as it approaches, we have to do what's right for them giving them peace, happiness & making sure they are well cared for with special people there to help!

QT, your Mommy is doing exactly what's best for your Grandma.
Hospice is the right choice & will help make the transition a litta easier for all!

We know this is very difficult to deal with, as we too had to go through it with Kally Kat's Grammy & Grampy.

QT's Grandma

We will say our prayers before bedtime Kally Kat & Mommy tew!

Gentle purrs,
Kally Kat & Mommy Liz
Purred by: Sugar our Sweet Brave Warrior (Catster Member)

March 13th 2013 at 2:29 am

QT we are very sad about your Gma. We know this is so hard for your mom and we are grateful that she has you watching over her. You know we are here for both of you as you are always here for us.

Much love,
Sugar and Mama J
Purred by: DustytheDogcat©(Dusty) (Catster Member)

March 13th 2013 at 1:23 pm

Showering your grandma with neverending purrs and prayers from heaven. May her journey be peaceful and pain-free.

Purrs and prayers for your mom and family, for strength, comfort, and healing at this most difficult time.

Heavenly hugs, from the angel boys,
DustytheDogcat
Rocket Sprocket
Shady Handsome Man
Purred by: Platelicker ♥ DB#69 (Catster Member)

March 13th 2013 at 2:24 pm

God bless and keep everyone in His care ♥

Huggs,
Platelicker

 

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