January 26th 2010 4:11 am
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My sweet baby Oscar G'Kar was put to sleep at 6.30pm 23rd January 2010. He had been very sick and started going down hill very fast and so I had to do what was right for him but losing him has torn me apart. People keep saying 'get another cat' as if Oscar was a book I'd read then tossed aside and they think I should pick up another one and read it now. Oscar was, and still is, my entire life, he is the only reason I'm still on Planet Earth, and I will love him just as much for the rest of my life. I keep saying Jonathan when I go to speak about him, Jonathan was the kitty I had before Oscar and it appears my subconsious mind can't grasp yet, that he's truly gone. He is going to be cremated and I'll have his ashes with Jonathan's and Frankie's, Frankie died 2 years before Jonathan and when I die I want their ashes placed in the coffin with me. I also have some of Oscar's fur. I started saving some when I was combing him just recently before he got really sick. I pick it up and rub it against my face, I smell it and wish I could smell as good as Oscar could, and I kiss it as my tears fall on it. It too will go with me when I go to meet my babies at the Rainbow Bridge.
With Love to All Kitties
From
Grace, Oscar's Mama

Purred by: Worlds Coolest Fluffy & Alex (Catster Member)

February 3rd 2010 at 11:03 pm

Dear Oscar's Meowmy:
You let Oscar go rather than hold on to him & prolong his pain. THAT is loving.
NO cat "replaces" another (as you well know). When/if you feel the time is right, you will be guided to another cat who needs the loving home you can provide.
Love is forever.
Our sincerest condolences to you, Fluffy & Alex & Meowmy.