Bee Jay (in loving memory)

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Home:Janesville, Wis  [I have a diary!]  
Sex: Male   Weight: 11 lbs.

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Kitty Complexion:
sleepyvery active
not curiousvery curious
not vocalvery vocal

Rainbow Bridge
June 15th 1992

Black and White

BeeJay loved to climb up on the refrigerator and view the world from there

Favorite Toy:
Loved to climb in and out of boxes

Favorite Nap Spot:
Anywhere next to mom

Favorite Food:
Loved any kind of food but had to have CD cat food due to urinary tract problems

Could open a closet door whenever he found one closed

Arrival Story:
BeeJay was born on the farm of a friend of Mom's to an indoor cat that was part of a 4H project. Mom adopted him out of the litter and he lived with her the rest of his life. BeeJay was very sick in the fall of 2006 but pulled through with a lot of specialized vet care and had another 6 months with mom before he became ill again. He went to heaven on 3-9-2007 due to kidney failure and is missed terribly by his sister Bella and his human Mom.

A poem that has a special place in BeeJay's Mommie's heart: How can I bear to lose you, my precious gentle one, To know that you will not be here when my day is done? So much of my heart, my love, have I given up to you, How then can I stand the pain now that your life is through? My sorrow overwhelms me, the tears so freely flow, How can I carry on my life, with a heart that's laden so? Then the answer comes to me from the stillness in my soul. Remembering the love we shared will help to make me whole. I'll hold you in a special place, so deep within my heart And in these loving memories we'll never be apart. You will not be so far away, your presence I will feel. I'll wrap myself in your memory and so very slowly I will heal. The years we shared, the little joys, the laugher and the tears My love for you will never die, but strengthen with the years So fare you well, my precious love, I gently let you go And pray to all the Gods there be that you will always know I loved you so, my little one, that love will never cease I gave you warmth, I gave you love, and now I give you peace. ~~ Constance Jenkins~~

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A Day in the Next Life

Four years

March 9th 2011 6:00 am
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Four years. That is how long it has been since I left Mommie to come here to the Bridge. Mommie is staring outside at the snow today with tears in her eyes as she thinks of that day. You see, she still misses me. But she knew then, and she knows now, that it couldn't have been any other way. She remembers how sick I was, and that I didn't want to fight it anymore. So she gave me the ultimate gift of love and arranged for a gentle journey to the other side.
Since then, she has given a wonderful home to three other kitties (I knew it would take more than one to help heal her broken heart). And my beautiful sisfur Bella is still with her also (in fact, she is curled up next to Mommie as she types for me) Together we have watched as many of our friends have made the journey also, and with each one some tears have been shed.
Mommie says it is a reminder to her of the fragile nature of our time together on earth, but is also a reminder of our eternal bond of love.
I love you Mommie! Now and forever!

(Mommie: And I love you BeeJay. You are forever in my heart!


Two years March 9, 2009

March 9th 2009 4:40 pm
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Today is my second Bridge anniversary. I kept Mommie busy most of the day, so she didn't think too hard about missing me. But when she came home from work this afternoon, she found lots of our friends had stopped by to offer comfort to her and me. It made her a little sad, but it also made her smile. We have met so many wonderful kittie angels and their humans this past two years. We heard many sad stories, purrrred for many grieving families, cried with many sad humans. But we have also experienced the forever love so many have come to know. We have shared our joys and sorrows, looked over each others new earth siblings, sprinkled angel dust on each others humans.
So I say again to my Mommie, as well as to the pawrents of many of our friends: Do not be ashamed or embarrassed to grieve. Allow yourself time to heal your spirit. Remember we are always with you in spirit because LOVE IS FOREVER! Smile as you remember the good times and the love we shared. Do not be afraid to share that love with others-there are so many who need a loving furever home! And always know that you gave the greatest gift, your love and compassion, and for that we are forever thankful!


One year

March 8th 2008 7:53 am
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First, I have to say that I am sooo happy to have finally wed my beautiful Kate. She has brought so much happiness to me and my family. The wedding was fantastic, as many of our friends were able to attend. Thank you all for your love and support for us.
Second, the honeymoon was wonderful. We flew to Jamaica and spent several days sunning on the beach, dancing to Reggae music, eating jerk chicken and just enjoying being together.
Now I am home, with Kate and the kits. But tomorrow, I am spending the day visiting my Mommie. You see, tomorrow is my one year Bridge Day, and Mommie will need to have me with her. My loving Kate understands this, and is very glad to let me spend time with Mommie.
Mommie, I know how much you miss me, and I will be there for you tomorrow and whenever you need my spirit with you. Our bond is inseparable and I will always be your darling BeeJay.

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