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Alaidh's not so daily diary
One YearFebruary 18th 2010 7:29 pm[ Leave A Comment | 6 people already have ]
It's been one whole year since my little girl left me. I can't believe it's been that long.
Leave A Comment | 6 people already have You are right, pee pads it is, I knew it looked familiar. I for one do not believe it's been that long, really what happens to time in catsterland. Purrs for your heart. Shaz, don't feel guilty. You loved her with all your heart and you gave her a wonderful life. I know you will love her and her memory for as long as you live. You don't have to cry and hurt just to honor her memory. You can smile or even chuckle at the memories of the dear things she did that made her so precious and that honors her memory much more than tears, in my humble opinion. I'm sorry I didn't remember her anniversary on my own. I always had a special fondness for her, even though I never met her in real life, just because she reminded me of my precious princess Gabrielle. much love, Julia (edgarandemilysmom) I know this has been a tough year for you. Don't feel guilty about not thinking of Alaidh every single minute of every single day. I think that's your heart's way of mending itself, building a protective "scab" over the wound created by her crossing over to the Bridge. Besides, it's not the quantity, it's the quality of the memories you have of your special girl. My vet says that if a pet owner is lucky enough, they will come across that one 4 footed soulmate once in their life and they will have a connection with them like no other. I know Alaidh was yours just as I know Sally is mine. I don't know which is more lucky: the pet that receives all our love and affection or the owner that realizes the prescence of the special connection. Both you and Alaidh were lucky your paths crossed. You filled each other's lives full of love. Could anthing be more precious than that? Thinking of you on what must be a bittersweet day, Love & Hugs, Sally Maria & her mama Every so often Mom thinks of your sweet Alaidh. Maybe cuz you lived here before we did. Most likely cuz her anniversary was approaching. Angels have their way of whispering ... remember me! You two journeyed so many years together. What a blessing for us to share so many of those memories here on Catster. Hugs, Jillian & Manx Mamma Please don't feel guilty! My Mommy talks to us at the Bridge sometimes, and my ears perk up when I hear her & Daddy mention our names, usually followed by a laugh. Each time a beloved kitty or doggie journeys to the Bridge it's so hard on those left behind. Their hearts break & their eyes leak. I would not want my Mommy to feel like that all the time, just cuz of me. I like it that they remember me & I know they still love me & all my brofurs & sisfurs, but I'm glad their hearts have healed enough that they aren't hurting so badly every day. They say time heals all things...and that's a good thing. If it didn't, everyone would be sad all the time and that would be bad. I'm glad your heart is healing. Mommy giggled at your "pee pad" comment...it's true! You gave Alaidh 20 great years as a beloved princess so you have nothing to feel guilty about. Alaidh was such a little sweetie its natural to still feel her loss but don't feel guilty, Angel purrs Minxy |
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February 18th 2010 at 7:58 pm