June 7th 2013 10:00 am
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Not only am a now feeling really wonnerfur and back to mai old self ~ I have also become more assertive!!
First of all I really need to tell all of mai wonnerfur furiends how much I love mai PaPa Friday!! ~ Friday is wonnerfur and I am super duper close to him!!~YUPS!! Fur sure
I love to go up to Friday and put mai front paws and arms around his neck and hug Friday and lick him and kiss him ~ Friday really enjoys this, too!!~Kind of how mai Grandpaw Buddy loved Friday once, years ago!!~Friday hasn't been loved and kissed like this in four + years!!
I even help wash and groom him and snuggle down and sleep beside mai PaPa Friday, too!!~he loves and hugs and kisses and washes me back, too!!
And now I can tell you sumfin else, I did two nights ago!!~shocked Meowmy to no end, too ~ MOL!!
Meowmy had finished combing Bijou out and was petting her and talking wif her, telling Bijou how bewtifur she all was (I could hear all this silly talk from the kitchen)..well, Bailey was hanging wif me and she thought she was not hearing things right and wanted to go investigate and see what was up ~ know what I mean?
Ok, so Bailey goes into the livingroom and sits down on her butt and just looks at the situation, no big deal, right?
Well, Bijou thought it was a big deal all right, cuz she got all mad a Bailey fur just looking at her and Bijou got up and went over and smacked Bailey in the face and was yelling at her!!!
Well, I heard this all right!!~Bailey is MY sisfur, and no one messes wif my sisfur!!~I ran into the livingroom and up to Bijou and hissed at her and smacked her back!!~Bijou ran from me and hide under the day bed we use by the front window....I was just plain livid and mad and it showed on mai face, mai nose was all scrunched up and mai eyes were black and beedy looking ~ I sure was mad and scary looking ~MOL!!
Meowmy was calling me but I ignored her and went after Bijou under the daybed!!~ Bijou looked scared and meomwed and Meomwy was still calling mai name and was in shock by this time ~ I have never done anything like this before!!~But Bijou is a meanny and bossy and has attacked Bailey, biting her in the eye ~ not too mention all the attacks I have suffered over her ~mai nose is scarred from all the scratches from Bijou~I'm starting to fight back and showing Bijou we're not gonna take it anymore!!
But Mai Meomwy is scared for Bijou~she is hoping Bijou is healthy and ok because she has heard about kibbies being sick and others knowing about it and taking over the Alpha kibbie position by being dominate and showing the boss the younger one is stronger than they are.
Hopefully this is not the case and that I am just not taking Bijou's bossy ways anymore!!
Meomwy always gets after Bijou, too, saying NO BULLYING allowed but Bijou not listening so I got mad and pushed back!!
Meomwy sure looked at me twice that evening ~ she didn't think I had it in me, as I am the smallest and always backs down ~ this time I went charging into the situation and said ENOUGH!!
Meomwy said fur me not to do this again ~ yeah, right!~like I'm going to listen to that!!~MOL
Neiko~! Gurlie, takin' up fur Ur sisfur nothin' wrong wif dat~ Bein' assertive ya gotta be sometimes~! Spawcially wiff as many siblin'z as U haz in Ur house~! Sometimes ya jus' gotta stand up fur what'z rite~ Yay~ 'n keep dat confidence up gurlfuriend~! What do mom's know, rite? MOL~! XOX
Standing up for your sister is pretty sweet. The dogs stand up for me around here.
Aww~tanks Jezebel and Mallee fur letting me know dis is ok~Meowmy really was shocked to see me like dis!!~guess I just had enough~MOL!!
I think if Bijoux was sick, she wouldn't have let Mommy brush her. It sounds like you have gotten your courage up and don't want to be bossed around anymore! Sometimes a kitty has to take charge!
I fink your right my wonnerfur friend, Tiger!!~I was tired of being bossed around and harassed and hurt by bossy Bijou!~MOL~~
Neiko, I think you did the right thing. My brofur is purrfect, but sometimes he try's to bully me. Mom tells him no, but if he is mad he has to have the last word. I mostly ignore him, he is super grumpy at times.
I love to kiss and hug my brofur too, I think it is wonderfur you hug and kiss Friday, maybe you should do that to Bijoux???