The Baboo Kitty Has Spoken

Milo-Don't Leave! We need you here!

July 7th 2012 5:59 am
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Dear Furs,
Last night Mommy got an email from Milo's Mom....Milo is :
http://www.catster.com/cats/1032799

Today is his birthday.

Milo's Mom told Mommy that she is leaving Catster.

Now Furs, Milo is a lovely cat. His mom has had her share of bad things happen. She needs support, and we aren't sure why they are leaving, but we can't let them.

I've seen an erosion of cats and their folks defecting to FB. Mom has a FB account, we have catbook accounts, but the truth is, FB is not really something we enjoy a great deal. This is our place. If there is something we don't like, we need to fix it, and make it better, not abandon it.

Furs, please don't let Milo go!


Stand up on your hinds and let your feelings be known!

This is our Site!

love and light,
Ruffy

 
 

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Purred by: Luke (Catster Member)

July 7th 2012 at 7:52 am

We completely agree with you Ruffy! We're on FB, too, but this is our site, we still love it here despite all the problems, and we don't want anyone else to leave. We need everybody in the Community to unite and help bring this place back to the special place we all know and love.
Purred by: Eva V

July 7th 2012 at 8:34 am

We left because there are haters here.
It is as simple as that.
Yes, they are a minority but they were hateful to me when I was already broken by my Ollie's death. It was too much.
Yes, I am able to block their comments. Yes, I notified HQ. In fact the next day Ollie was chosen to be COTW~so I guess they are on my side. What I can't accept is that these people are able to see my boys' pages and read their diaries.
I feel stalked! I am being cyber bullied.
And right now I can't deal with hate even if they are a minority here.
I am not all that big on Facebook but at least there I am able to choose who sees my page.

So please forgive me for leaving.

Maybe one day I will be back.
Never say never, right?
Love and hugs
Eva
Purred by: Ingen (Catster Member)

July 7th 2012 at 10:01 am

Jen writed 'em a message. We 'memmers when Alfie goed to the rainbow bridge an' mean peeples hurted Ms. Eva. She haved lotsa trubbles wif a mean peeples. IS SO UNFAIR!!! She a nice mommy to Milo, Teddy Bearz, Ollie & Alfie.

Jen asked her don't 'rase her pages. Maybe jus' goes "inactive" fur a while. If she 'rase the pages she gonna furgets alla goods times we haved here. She sayed "Maybe one day I will be back." Hopefurly, cuz we's gonna miss 'em.
Purred by: Samoa - Diva Angel (Catster Member)

July 7th 2012 at 10:14 am

Life is too short to be little. We are sorry when people hide behind their cats and try to intimidate and bully others. It just shows they have no compassion for humans or animals. We purr that their pages are not deleted because then the haters win. Haters may feel like they are winners, but everyone knows that a hater is really nothing but a big loser!
Purred by: Smokey Joe Angel Dreamboat #9 (Catster Member)

July 7th 2012 at 10:20 am

NOOOO~! Purrlease DON'T LEAVE, oh mommy Eve, we love your family just like our own, we've been through thick and thin, we've been here so long now and we purrrr that you please rethink this~! Yes Milo Blue Eyes is on FB too, but it's not the same as here~! Not the same~! The love outgrows all the hate, even hate has it's bounderies, what if they see your page, YOU must fight this~! We have to save our Catster world~! Ok they can't Cyber bully you IF you don't communicate with them~! OK? They will rag on if you participate~! If we don't UNITE, Like Luke said, then we have no chance of keeping the warmth and closeness of our Community Alive and well and happy~!
Happy Birthday, Milo and we hope 'n purray that your family will stay...that is all we can say right now~! We see you on FB and Milo Blue Eyes is sending you a Birthday Cake with warm 'n pawsome wishes~ Catster will not be the same with you all~! We love Ollie too~! Purrs 'n purrlease help save our Catster~! Thank U Ruffy~!
Purred by: Maedia (Catster Member)

July 7th 2012 at 10:24 am

Noooooooooooo! Please don't go. These losses, both to the bridge and away from Catster are really starting to take a toll on us. I undertand the reasoning and I am so sorry they hurt you. Why are people do ignorant and mean? Can't these people be blocked or banned from Catster? Can't we work with Catster to get anonymouse comments stopped? I agree with Ingen too, please don't take down their pages. I go and see Ollie's page almost everyday.
Purred by: Charlie (Catster Member)

July 7th 2012 at 1:27 pm

Oh no! Milo I am so sad to hear this and will be heart broken if you leave! It is awful that people take advanatage of wonderful places like Catster and use it to turn on people for now reason. It is horrible and I will never understand people like that.

I would understand if you left but I still very much so hope you don't because it will be a great loss.
Purred by: Tigger (Catster Member)

July 7th 2012 at 2:24 pm

When we leave because of them, we are letting them win....Why are we letting the bad stuff win?
Purred by: Orange Ruffy (Catster Member)

July 7th 2012 at 3:33 pm

Eva, hope this reaches you...who are these people? By taking them out of the shadow, you then don't let them be bullies.

By leaving, you say 'you win'.

There are always going to be people who are negative....but you need to just take a deep breath and rise above.

We hope you'll decide to return. We don't understand why someone would do this.

there has been too much heartbreak and loss, and we need to band together and purr for one another.
Purred by: Eva V

July 7th 2012 at 4:13 pm

I am still here, Deb! Can't bring them out of the shadows as you say because it is against "community guidelines".
Wouldn't surprise me a bit if they delete this diary entry or at least these messages.
As I said, HQ knows about this. I actually telephoned them.
I do have control over what get's posted in our diaries. That is not my problem at this point.
I simply can't stand the thought that these people are reading
what is meant for my friends to read.
Give me some time and maybe I will feel differently.
In the meantime please stay in touch via email or even p-mail.
I will check my messages.
See? I even read diaries :)
To everyone~Thank you for your friendship!
Love always
Eva
Purred by: Kaci Sunshine - Beloved Angel (Catster Member)

July 7th 2012 at 5:48 pm

Ruffy, thank you for posting this diary. It would be ideal if they could be brought out of the shadows but because of community rules/guidelines, it can't be done and would most likely hurt Eva rather than the bullies if she did name them.

Eva, I'm so happy you're still here and hope you reconsider your decision to leave. Whoever these bullies are, don't let them bring you down and chase you away. That's what they want to do, so don't let them! Take whatever time you feel you need away from here but don't the bullies win by leaving. And come back soon! Please? We're your friends and we love you! xoxo Kaci
Purred by: ♥ Jezebel RIP ♥ (Catster Member)

July 7th 2012 at 6:56 pm

Please don't leave Eva. We'd all miss you so much! We love you!
Purred by: Queen Tallulah Angel Dreamgirl (Catster Member)

July 7th 2012 at 8:51 pm

We are so sad to hear this and that there are humans on this site bullying others...and yes leaving here let's them win, we can't let this happen....We think HQ needs to do something about this bullying, we don't get it.

I come here because of the love and support we have gotten, we must admit we are more into reading our friends diaries more than role playing....but we do that only a little...

Maybe just take some time away and raise above the ones that bully and show them that sticks may brake your bones but names(bullying) won't hurt you...that is what my Moms Mom taught her.

Eva & your beloved kitties have so many friends here and you are loved don't let those people chase you away, it isn't the answer which so many think it is...

we hope to see you around and know we are praying for you to find some peace and feel the love we are getting from all of your friends.

Sending you our love, hugs and butterflies from heaven.

QT and Mom
Purred by: Queen Tallulah Angel Dreamgirl (Catster Member)

July 7th 2012 at 9:04 pm

We are so sad to hear this and that there are humans on this site bullying others...and yes leaving here let's them win, we can't let this happen....We think HQ needs to do something about this bullying, we don't get it.

I come here because of the love and support we have gotten, we must admit we are more into reading our friends diaries more than role playing....but we do that only a little...

Maybe just take some time away and raise above the ones that bully and show them that sticks may brake your bones but names(bullying) won't hurt you...that is what my Moms Mom taught her.

Eva & your beloved kitties you have so many friends here and you are loved don't let those people chase you away, it isn't the answer which so many think it is...

we hope to see you around and know we are praying for you to find some peace and feel the love you are getting from all of your friends.

Thank you Ruffy for letting us know and we agree with you totally...so many have had heartbreaks and loss, we need love and happiness..AND EACH OTHER

.we can't let these humans that think it is OK to bully and be hateful...it isn't! haven't you heard that you do unto others as you would want them do unto you...and we know you wouldn't want to be bullied...SO STOP

Sending you our love, hugs and butterflies from heaven Eva.

QT and Mom
Purred by: Queen Tallulah Angel Dreamgirl (Catster Member)

July 7th 2012 at 9:05 pm

We are so sad to hear this and that there are humans on this site bullying others...and yes leaving here let's them win, we can't let this happen....We think HQ needs to do something about this bullying, we don't get it.

I come here because of the love and support we have gotten, we must admit we are more into reading our friends diaries more than role playing....but we do that only a little...

Maybe just take some time away and raise above the ones that bully and show them that sticks may brake your bones but names(bullying) won't hurt you...that is what my Moms Mom taught her.

Eva & your beloved kitties you have so many friends here and you are loved don't let those people chase you away, it isn't the answer which so many think it is...

we hope to see you around and know we are praying for you to find some peace and feel the love you are getting from all of your friends.

Thank you Ruffy for letting us know and we agree with you totally...so many have had heartbreaks and loss, we need love and happiness..AND EACH OTHER

.we can't let these humans that think it is OK to bully and be hateful...it isn't! haven't you heard that you do unto others as you would want them do unto you...and we know you wouldn't want to be bullied...SO STOP

Sending you our love, hugs and butterflies from heaven Eva.

QT and Mom
Purred by: Queen Tallulah Angel Dreamgirl (Catster Member)

July 7th 2012 at 9:12 pm

We are so sad to hear this and that there are humans on this site bullying others...and yes leaving here let's them win, we can't let this happen....We think HQ needs to do something about this bullying, we don't get it.

I come here because of the love and support we have gotten, we must admit we are more into reading our friends diaries more than role playing....but we do that only a little...

Maybe just take some time away and raise above the ones that bully and show them that sticks may brake your bones but names(bullying) won't hurt you...that is what my Moms Mom taught her.

Eva & your beloved kitties you have so many friends here and you are loved don't let those people chase you away, it isn't the answer which so many think it is...

we hope to see you around and know we are praying for you to find some peace and feel the love you are getting from all of your friends.

Thank you Ruffy for letting us know and we agree with you totally...so many have had heartbreaks and loss, we need love and happiness..AND EACH OTHER

.we can't let these humans that think it is OK to bully and be hateful...it isn't! haven't you heard that you do unto others as you would want them do unto you...and we know you wouldn't want to be bullied...SO STOP

Sending you our love, hugs and butterflies from heaven Eva.

QT and Mom
Purred by: Queen Tallulah Angel Dreamgirl (Catster Member)

July 7th 2012 at 9:25 pm

We are so sad to hear this and that there are humans on this site bullying others...and yes leaving here let's them win, we can't let this happen....We think HQ needs to do something about this bullying, we don't get it.

I come here because of the love and support we have gotten, we must admit we are more into reading our friends diaries more than role playing....but we do that only a little...

Maybe just take some time away and raise above the ones that bully and show them that sticks may brake your bones but names(bullying) won't hurt you...that is what my Moms Mom taught her.

Eva & your beloved kitties you have so many friends here and you are loved don't let those people chase you away, it isn't the answer which so many think it is...

we hope to see you around and know we are praying for you to find some peace and feel the love you are getting from all of your friends.

Thank you Ruffy for letting us know and we agree with you totally...so many have had heartbreaks and loss, we need love and happiness..AND EACH OTHER

.we can't let these humans that think it is OK to bully and be hateful...it isn't! haven't you heard that you do unto others as you would want them do unto you...and we know you wouldn't want to be bullied...SO STOP

Sending you our love, hugs and butterflies from heaven Eva.

QT and Mom
Purred by: Jasper, Angel Dreamboat #49a (Catster Member)

July 8th 2012 at 8:43 am

Dear me, I hate to see my friends leave Catster. We're not Facebookers, so we lose touch altogether. We haven't gotten any hate mail, but we understand the hurt that must cause. We do miss reading our friends' diaries though.
Purred by: Orange Ruffy (Catster Member)

July 8th 2012 at 3:57 pm

We understand 'community guidelines' but don't believe that people who are here with their cats should be hurt by accusations and speculation.

My dear cousin Pat the Buttercat was running through his home, and made a noise. His mother, who had lost her Blackie the week before to cancer, came in to find him gone. The vet said it was most likely a heart attack or stroke, and there was nothing that could be done.

Things happen we can't understand, and to verbally accuse or insinuate that someone has 'done' something to a beloved animal, unless you have proof...its beyond painful and hurtful. It's putting salt on a wound.

We don't like to hear that someone has been hurt by what someone with too much time and too little compassion may believe.

We don't want you to go, Eva, you have friends here and when one stands up to somoeone who's being a bully, and says 'no' then that person has no choice but to cease and desist or come out and say something in the open.

We feel we've been offered a great deal of kindess and support, and we hope that postive, pleasant comments will be offered...we've seen more people who are coming forward and saying they care than anyone who doesn't.

come home, Eva, because this is your home and Ollie and Alfies and all furs home as much as anyone elses.

purrs,
Deb, Jim, Ruffy and the crew.
Purred by: Eva V

July 9th 2012 at 3:29 pm

So as you can see I am still here :)
This is very hard for me. You are family and I miss you.
How about a compromise?
July 29th is Teddy Bearz's birthday.
I will try to be back then.
No promises, but I will try.
Think of this as a much needed vacation.
OK?
Love you guys!
Eva


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