Need help socializing 2 very different cats. Need sugggestions helping very scared 6yrold and spunky 2yrold get along Answers at Dogster Answers.

Tue, Aug 23rd 2011, 04:15 GMT

How about putting the 2 year old in a carrier and letting the new kitty explore? Supervised of course - just for 20 minute sessions every day. If the new kitty feels so skittish a 2 year old running around is going to amplify that feeling. Maybe if the new kitty had a chance to explore without the 2 year old roaming around she may be inclined to settle in. I would keep the environment as still and quiet as possible and see if she starts to feel brave enough to venture out. And during these sessions don’t seek her out necessarily – just get down on her level and let her come to you. She isn't going to settle in if she is too frightened to explore - I think getting used to the 2 year old is secondary right now. First let her feel secure in her new home - then meet the family. Good luck and let me know how it works out!

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Phoebe

Tue, Aug 23rd 2011, 04:15 GMT

I just adopted a cat who is social and friendly, but in my house, it's Izzie who was terrified of this little cat who weights 1/2 as much as him! To be truthful, I've just let them work it out themselves. It would be worse if the new cat was aggressive and attack-prone. If she just hides, then it may take a long while for her to acclimate to her new home and get comfortable with everyone in it. Leave the door open, and let the 2 yr. old come in when you're in bed, even if the other one is in there. Chances are she'll flee and hide someplace else in the house overnight. After a while, begin playing with the 2 yr. old with feather toys, balls, etc. The 6 year old may just be curious enough to want to join in. Everyone here has the run of the house and my new one, Lizzie, is really beginning to come around. Good luck!

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Izadore (Izzie)